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I'm in the process of getting my shit together

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tangledinink

after they leave the nexus and move in with the rest of their family, gemini!donnie gets, like, a ton of piercings and tattoos, i think. something something reclaiming his body and self-expression, and also, he just really likes the adrenaline rush that comes with it.

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entnoot

𝘰𝘩, 𝘥𝘳𝘶𝘯𝘬𝘦𝘯 𝘨𝘰𝘥𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘴𝘭𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘦𝘳 // 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘐’𝘷𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘢𝘷𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘦𝘳

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tariah23

The manga industry, especially JUMP, needs to hurry up and do away with weekly scheduling for mangaka. There needs to better regulations put into place for their health and safety because this is pitiful. Two weeks - monthly updates should’ve already been the standard for the manga industry at this point. These money grabbers will only continue to put the lives of these artists at stake for the sake of capitalism unless some serious changes are implemented.

as a related aside i see comments all the time even on indie webcomics and tapas and webtoons and such where readers unapologetically demand weekly updates or longer updates. The current capitalist environment with this extreme greed for more content and faster consumption from both corporate heads and consumers makes it so that these much needed changes won't even make it on the talking table

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grimeclown

Btw when someone says "don't talk to me like that, I don't know you" the normal thing to do is apologize for the perceived overfamiliarity and correct the behavior. Just in case anyone was wondering

If someone said that to me I would unironically dig an underground bunker by hand and only ever leave to pick up doordash orders and nobody would ever see me again ever holy shit

Alternatively I would just jump off a bridge immediately god damn even just reading that makes my soul want to fucking die

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deepseametro

hey dude this is a really weird thing to say to a stranger!

Buddy you don't get it I would fucking perish

Hey dude i know rejection sensitive dysphoria is a thing but if you react this strongly to people setting simple boundaries you need to figure out how to work through that

Oh I deal with it. By being incredibly careful about anything I say to anyone in person ever

Although I once asked my cousin if I could join her dnd group (I have noclue how it works) and she went "Uh... No" and basically was like "you'd fuck it up" (she was very nice about it but damn I felt like the dumbest bitch alive ever)

And I haven't recovered since! So yeah that's why I'm a freak online because real life is impossible lmao! Hope this explains it!

That's not dealing with it but good luck I guess

Fyi, this is not only a bad way to deal with it bc it's straight up leaning into your own disordered thinking, but it's also EVEN MORE inconsiderate than the original offense of being overly familiar.

Y'all may not realize the things you do are manipulative, but responding to a fair boundary (that isn't even stated in a rude way) with "If anyone ever set this reasonable boundary with me I would run away into the woods" is manipulation. You are making it more difficult for people to feel safe telling you when you've made them uncomfortable or crossed a boundary, which means they'll likely respond by either cutting you off or allowing you to walk over their boundaries for fear of setting you off.

That's manipulative. You might genuinely be mortified, but that is something you NEED to work on, because the alternative is forcing everyone to walk on eggshells around you at the risk that politely setting any boundaries will set you off.

If you'd be fucked up if someone said that to you, that's understandable. I would be. So apologize politely, then deal with your own shit on your own time.

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