listen i know its been forever since i’ve touched this blog but like,,, if amelia and kai get together that may have to change
Hi friends (update and new Tumblr!)
I haven’t been active on Tumblr in a long time, but just created a new blog and would love to invite you all to check it out! It’s focused on mental health, positivity, and eating disorder recovery. When I was active on this account a while back, I used Tumblr to justify a lot of my harmful behaviours and self-destructive actions. This wasn’t obvious from looking at my blog, because I really tried to hide what I was going through, but it overall just wasn't a very positive space for me (aside from some wonderful fandoms I was a part of- shout out to the lovely Omelia fandom :) ). As I recovered, I started to really distance myself from Tumblr so I could heal away from all of that. But now I’m back, and want to spread more love and positivity here! For me to do that, I’m starting fresh with a new account. I don’t think I’m going to delete this blog, but I won’t be using it moving forwards.
Anyways, feel free to reach out to me at my new blog. Hope you’re all doing amazing.
Heres my new account
ps: yes, the name on the blog is different. I don’t go by my real name on Tumblr :)
My favourite math fact is that 0.9999999.. is equal to 1. Exactly. Not approximately. Not as a rounded number. 0.9999 (recurring) is exactly 1.
Question. How the fuck does that work?
I tried explaining it here:
Here’s another perspective on why .999… repeating is exactly equal to 1.
For any two distinct real numbers, we can always find a rational number strictly between them, i.e. that rational number must be able to be expressed as a terminating decimal or a repeating decimal. To be clear, that rational number is strictly between the two values; it is not allowed to be equal to either.
Suppose k is a rational number strictly between 1 and 0.9999…. If this is possible, then, I can write k exactly as either a decimal with finite digits, or I can write k as a repeating decimal. The problem is, there are no decimals with finite digits between 1 and 0.999… , and there is no way to write a repeating decimal that is greater than 0.999… and still less than 1. Either way, a k strictly between 1 and 0.999… does not exist. The only way this can be true is if those two numbers are not actually distinct. That is to say, 1 = 0.999…..
i truly appreciate how math seems like it’s this infallible always-true only-one-answer thing, when in reality math is just like:
I think the way to think abt it thats always made the most sense to me is
if x= 0.999999.....
10x= 9.99999.....
10x-x= 9
9x=9
x=1
so 0.9999....=1
I think next thursday is gonna be the best day of my entire life tbh
reblog for next thursday to be the best day of your life
not risking it
People who rely on “oof” “worm” “mood” “same” when faced with their friend’s emotional pain need to stop digging their heels in with “well its actual a complex way to say you relate and are here for them blah blah shit noises” reasoning and learn how to be emotionally available and supportive. No one wants to hear that all the time when they are going through it. If you don’t know what to say, just validate their emotions and care to write more than a single meme word.
And what are the Comfort Words you suggest?
- I’m sorry your handling that I know it can be intense
- How can I support you best?
- You’re emotions are valid/you aren’t crazy
- I hear you
- Hey I don’t know if I can give advice but I’ll be happy to just listen
- I love you and support you but I can’t talk about this right now, can we come back to it later?
- What is something I can help you with?
- I can’t give you what you need but I can do XYZ
Any variants of these are good, I use them a lot too. You know your friend best and you know yourself you gotta be realistic with how much you can help and what you can handle. Just talk with them to talk about boundaries. I know it can be awkward especially if the friendship is online but I’ve told my friends “hey I really can’t handle that atm but we can talk about x later” and I’ve also been told that what I’m saying was too intense and that she hears me and we can come and talk about it at a later date.
These things aren’t even dependent on feeling empathy because I know that’s a real struggle but just communicating your needs and boundaries and being honest about what you can and can’t handle and when is important to making healthy relationships. You don’t have to be people’s therapists(especially because that can be a recipe for diseater) but just listening and giving them space to be open with you is key. Respect their feelings and handle it how you would want someone to handle yours when you need it.
Typo fixed but it’s not even about saying the right chain of words but just being there for the people you care about and genuinely engaging with their pain instead of saying a meme phrase that does nothing
Before January ends, I’m going to magically and extremely be blessed by the universe.
not gonna risk scrolling past this
aw shit which january?
fuck your depression here’s what we’re doing
- get out of your bed
- clean up in every way you can think of (shower, floss, trim nails, face cleanser, everything, freshen yourself up to put it behind you)
- go out in your favorite clothes and get air, go running if you can
- Eat nutritious food, drink actual water, take your meds
- Find the roots of your sadness and brainstorm solutions (and suicide is NEVER a solution. NEVER.)
- listen to uplifting music (my playlist)
- the project you’ve wanted to start or skill you’ve been wanting to learn, start working towards it today.
- Remind yourself that you will make it past this and no matter what happens, you will be fine as long as you continue to push forward.
- instead of writing a comment saying you can’t do these things, do these things
Heyyy I know I’ve been super inactive on here recently but I’ve started a fitspo/studyspo/general motivation blog so if that’s your jam follow me there!
Don’t worry if your goals seem too far away or unreachable — if people tell you it’s never going to happen. People are wrong. The only person who can set limits in regards to what you can or should become is you. You’ll grow, one step after another, and soon enough you will look back and realize that you’ve become the person you’ve wanted to be, the person they didn’t believe could exist.
Psychology Daily - Quotes
Psychology Daily - Quotes
Effective Study Tips
1. Start early. Don’t leave studying to the last minute as cramming doesn’t really work. Preparing well in advance leaves you with time to ask questions and review topics you don’t fully understand.
2. Plan and organise your study time. Decide what you will do, in what order, and by what date.
3. Have an area that you designate specifically for studying. Don’t do anything else there. Keep all your notes, textbooks, materials etc in that area.
4. Study something each day – but allow yourself one whole day off a week. That way, you stay on top of your work without feeling bogged down and overwhelmed.
5. Make your own notes; rewrite material you’ve studied using your own words. Doing that, will help to consolidate your learning.
6. Cover up material you’re studying and try to summarise it, or to paraphrase it.
7. Don’t review material you know already. Assign your time to work that you still find challenging.
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Hey i’m short like a dollar for the steam game i’m trying to buy, if anybody had a few cents they could spare by buying one of my trading cards on the market, that would be so awesome. Message me for my steam name and eternal gratitude :)