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The Geeky Kink Event

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This is merely intermittent bits of thought concerning all things friendly, sexy brains, kinky, and of course the fanatical Geeky Kinky Event! Follow us for updates on our many Jeff Mach events, as well as your favorite dungeons, dragons, and ball pits. We also post lots of kitty cats, food porn, and just things that are flat out awesome sauce.
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Anonymous asked:

why do some girls find the word female offensive?

Female isn’t a term that exclusive to humans, it refers to the sex of a species that can produce children so some view it as dehumanising. e.g. if someone says female, female what? female dog? female human? Whereas the term ‘woman’ specifically refers human being. Also, lets not forget that not all women are biologically female and the word reduces a woman to her reproductive abilities, again dehumanising. Besides, whenever you hear people say ‘female’ it’s usually in a negative context so avoid it. If a girl tells you she finds the term offensive, delete it from your vocabulary :)

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Aaaaaahh I see

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Legolas: THAT IS NO MERE RANGER
Legolas: THAT IS ARAGORN II
Legolas: SON OF ARATHORN II
Legolas: SON OF ARADOR
Aragorn: Legolas stop
Legolas: SON OF ARGONUI
Legolas: SON OF ARATHORN I
Legolas: SON OF ARASSUIL
Legolas: SON OF ARAHAD II
Legolas: SON OF ARAVORN
Boromir: is this really necessary
Legolas: SON OF ARAGOST
Legolas: SON OF ARAHAD I
Legolas: SON OF ARAGLAS
Legolas: SON OF ARAGORN I
Gandalf: this could take a while
Legolas: SON OF ARAVIR
Legolas: SON OF ARANUIR
Legolas: SON OF ARAHAEL
Legolas: SON OF ARANARTH
Legolas: SON OF ARVEDUI
Legolas: SON OF ARAPHANT
Elrond: good god man calm down
Legolas: SON OF ARAVAL
Legolas: SON OF ARVELEG II
Legolas: SON OF ARVEGIL
Legolas: SON OF ARGELEB II
Frodo: *falls asleep*
Legolas: SON OF ARAPHOR
Legolas: SON OF ARVELEG I
Legolas: SON OF ARGELEB I
Legolas: SON OF MALVEGIL
Gimli: this is ridiculous
Legolas: SON OF CELEBRINDOR
Legolas: SON OF MALLOR
Legolas: SON OF BELEG
Legolas: SON OF AMLAITH
Aragorn: Legolas
Legolas: SON OF EARENDUR
Legolas: SON OF ELENDUR
Legolas: SON OF VALANDUR
Legolas: SON OF TARONDOR
Aragorn: Legolas it's fine
Legolas: SON OF TARCIL
Legolas: SON OF ARANTAR
Legolas: SON OF ELDACAR
Legolas: SON OF VALANDIL
Legolas: SON OF ISILDUR
Gimli: finally
Legolas: YOU OWE HIM YOUR ALLEGIANCE.
Boromir: anything to make you shut up
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Found from various places online:

Critical Race Theory: An Introduction by Richard Delgado and Jean Stefancic

outlaw culture - bell hooks

Sex, Power, and Consent - Anastasia Powell

I am Your Sister - Audre Lorde

Patricia Hill Collins - Black Feminist Thought

Gender Trouble - Judith Butler

Their Eyes Were Watching God - Zora Neale Hurston

Medical Apartheid - Harriet Washington

Discipline and Punish - Michel Foucault

Michel Foucault - The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1Vol. 2Vol. 3 

(Sorry they aren’t organized very well.)

This is amazing. MUST READSS

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ocadvsa

If someone makes you feel obligated or forced to do something you don’t want to, you may be experiencing coercion. By definition, sexual coercion is “the act of using pressure, alcohol or drugs, or force to have sexual contact with someone against his or her will” and includes “persistent attempts to have sexual contact with someone who has already refused.”

Think of sexual coercion as a spectrum or a range. It can vary from someone verbally egging you on to someone actually forcing you to have contact with them. It can be verbal and emotional, in the form of statements that make you feel pressure, guilt or shame. You can also be made to feel forced through more subtle actions. For example, your partner might:

  • Make you feel like you owe them — for example, because you’re in a relationship, because you’ve had sex before, because they spent money on you or bought you a gift, because you go home with them
  • Give you compliments that sound extreme or insincere as an attempt to get you to agree to something
  • Badger you, yell at you, or hold you down
  • Give you drugs and alcohol to loosen up your inhibitions
  • Play on the fact that you’re in a relationship, saying things such as: “Sex is the way to prove your love for me” or “If I don’t get sex from you I’ll get it somewhere else”
  • React negatively (with sadness, anger or resentment) if you say no or don’t immediately agree to something
  • Continue to pressure you after you say no
  • Make you feel threatened or afraid of what might happen if you say no
  • Try to normalize their sexual expectations — for example, “I need it, I’m a guy.”

In a relationship where sexual coercion is occurring, there is a lack of consent, and the coercive partner doesn’t respect the boundaries or wishes of the other.

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fykamalakhan
"For us, it was a small little idea and the idea of it was about creating a character for young girls who might have grown up like myself or like my nieces and my nephews too, who represent a certain minority that is completely misunderstood. So a little of it was about that. but also changing the face of what it looks like to be a hero.

Sana Amanat, editor and co-creator of Kamala Khan, discusses Kamala Khan as Ms. Marvel on Independent Sources Covers Diversity in Comics at NYCC

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Heal Check Fail

We were in a difficult encounter where both our healers were knocked unconscious during the fight and the only one that had any skills in healing was our barbarian.

Barbarian: I want to perform a heal check on our healers

DM: You can roll that untrained

Barbarian: *rolls and critically fails*

DM: You wonder why your friends are asleep and punch them in the face to try and wake them up.

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There is no "too fat" where you stop being a person worthy of dignity and care and respect. There is no weight limit on humanity.

AND AUTONOMY. You are always in control of your body, 100%

This needs to be printed out, and placed everywhere among the “fat community”, because it seems to be the one fucking place that gets this idea the least.

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