reminding myself to say these things consciously and more often👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽
- “that’s a good point and i appreciate your input but i disagree”
- “i don’t know enough about xyz to form an educated opinion but i can share what i do know”
- “i have actually spent a lot of time studying/interacting with xyz and my opinion is informed by this close study”
- “sorry, i lied because i was afraid you would think badly of me. here is the truth”
- “i enjoy your company and would like to spend more time with you”
- “this task is beyond my ability at the moment”
- “can you explain precisely what you mean by xyz, i don’t understand”
- “i need to go home and rest/i need a break before we continue”
- “this conversation/activity isn’t pleasant or productive, let’s talk about/do xyz instead”
-“i’m having a really good time, thank you for joining/inviting me”
