Today is my twenty seventh birthday; I am exactly the age my mother was was she gave birth to me. This feels poignant but I am unable to fit the throbbing emotion I feel into words. I do not like birthdays, but we have celebrated countless days together, her sacrificing a number for me to entertain as my own as a child (and me once, on my thirteenth year, postponing a morning of opening cards and gifts for her). It feels a special occasion, sharing a birthday with a parent, but each year I dread it more fearing this may be the last one. We will eventually run out of time. I long to have my own dedications, constantly claiming that I will move my celebration date to a month where it can only be about me, yet I cling to the novelty of the shared occasion. We are at polar stages of life. It feels as though the past 27 years have been a journey to this point, and now we are at different junctions.