Jazz Personality G Mentality

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sometimes the issue isn’t that people are toxic + need to be cut out of your life. sometimes you’re just giving too much of your time/energy/resources to the wrong people + need to learn how to set healthier boundaries for yourself.

if you’re someone w/ a big heart who takes care of others by willingly giving them your time + support whenever they come to you, it’s really easy to feel drained if they’re not reciprocating that support. when you’re constantly giving but the people you’re giving to aren’t giving back a similar or equal amount, you end up feeling exhausted, upset, and uncared for. (this also can lead into codependency imo b/c you start to think you can “earn” someone’s reciprocation by giving more and more, but it doesn’t work that way + you’ll only end up feeling more drained and desperate.)

some people have things going on in their lives that don’t have anything to do with you. some people genuinely do have good intentions but for whatever personal or circumstantial reasons, they can’t or won’t match the energy you’re giving them right now – doesn’t necessarily make them a bad person or someone you need to cut out of yr life altogether – but you do need to learn how to set boundaries + give less to those people in order to keep yourself happy + healthy. it’s easy to tell who’s willing to meet you halfway + who isn’t if you pay attention to how you feel after being around them. 

when you see a pretty girl doing her pretty girl thing and you just gotta

“What are you into?” Is such a broad question, Like do I reply with a tv series or choking….

“I don’t have to drink to have a good time.”

Cool, you’re driving then because I do

me: i won’t get jealous me: who…that… :-)… .…

Shoutout 2 all my boring bitches. we out here, being bored and boring.

okay but i’m just saying that you’d look good on top of me, soooo

Where tf my soulmate at, i need you bitch

2018 is almost over and all I gotta say is what the fuck was that

stop reconnecting with toxic people from your past because you’re lonely. focus on getting better and attracting better.

im practicing non-attachment. accepting what comes and allowing it to leave when it’s time. what is for me will be for me effortlessly

These are all positive pros.

me: if youre dead you dont have to do homework or get stressed over school so it would eliminate anxiety

my therapist:

I literally say this all the time

90s babies we’re getting old

i don’t want to talk about it

sorry i’m late, professor. i’m disenchanted with the human experience and waking up every morning thrusts me into an instant existential crisis