I have a question for you! I am in highschool and I would LOVE to become a vet. The only thing is I am scared to death of Vet school! Everyone says how hard and stressful it is and now I am starting to second guess myself. I am in all honors classes and maintain straight A's yet, I still feel like I won't be able to handle it. How stressful is vet school and how do you handle it?
I’m not going to lie, vet school is by far the most stressful thing I’ve ever done.
BUT, it’s also the funnest, most interesting, and best thing I’ve ever done too.
I’m a stressy person. I stress about everything! And so being in vet school, I’ve had to learn how to stress less, how to use stress to motivate me to study, and how to not get too caught up in things.
One of the things I think is most important is to have a good support base around you. Talk to your vet school friends, because they’re all in the same boat and can relate to what you’re going through. It’s sometimes comforting to know that you’re not the only one stressing out about a test or exam. My family are always super supportive and also contribute to my accommodation fees which helps to relieve some of my money-related stress (thanks mum and dad!). And then there’s my amazing boyfriend, who god knows how, has put up with my stressing, crying, hysterics, etc. for the last 6 years, 5 of which I have been in vet school for. Having someone, whether a boyfriend, family member, friend, anyone; who you can go to when you’re feeling like you’re sinking can make all the world of difference. Talking through why I’m stressed and what’s the worst thing that could actually happen (eg. failing a test) and putting it into perspective, with the help of my boyfriend, is one of the things I find most useful and helps to ground me when I’m freaking out too much.
The other thing I think is super important is to make sure you do something other than vet school. Play a sport, listen to some music, watch a movie, sit around and drink wine with your friends, go for a walk, colour a page of an adult colouring book, do whatever you want that makes you forget about all the study and whatever else you have to do. Even if it’s something short like watching a few cat fail videos on youtube (I’m guilty!), I find it can have a dramatic effect on making me feel fresh and ready to get back into whatever I’m doing. It’s okay to have breaks, which is something that has taken me a long time to realise, but I just ignore the feelings of guilt and focus on the benefits from having even a short breather.
And lastly, be organised. I have a weekly diary and a monthly calendar, both of which I religiously use, and I almost daily write to-do lists to make sure I’m on top of things. I also have a post-it note addiction which is a little out of control, but again, it helps me to be organised. I get stressed when I don’t know what is going on or when assignments are due etc. so making sure I know exactly when everything is due or coming up helps me to prioritise and get ahead as much as possible and (hopefully) reduce future stress.
Anyway, after all this, the point I want to make is that vet school is bloody hard (unless you’re some kind of super genius!), and this itself will cause a large proportion of your stress. But it’s all about being aware of when you’re becoming too stressed out, and being able to take a step back, relax, and just breathe.
If being a vet is something you really want to do, then don’t let your worries about it being ‘too hard’ stop you from giving it a go. And if you try it and find out vet school isn’t for you, then that’s okay too. There’s a multitude of other animal-related, and completely different, career paths out there and there’ll definitely be something for you, it’s just a matter of finding your ‘thing.’
So I hope I’ve been helpful (and haven’t put you off more!). Let me know if you have any more questions, and good luck!
Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game - Babe Ruth