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I used to think my dad was Elvis. I haven't told him that yet, I haven't told my dad either. i dont blog anymore
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awed-frog

“Capitalism does not permit an even flow of economic resources. With this system, a small privileged few are rich beyond conscience, and almost all others are doomed to be poor at some level. That’s the way the system works. And since we know that the system will not change the rules, we are going to have to change the system.” — Martin Luther King, Jr.

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breaking bad, fight club, rick and morty, clockwork orange, and the catcher in the rye are all arguably good things - but if a man says they are his FAVORITE book/movie/tv show? RUN.

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arthicat

Can someone explain this to me?

They’re all works that are examinations of compelling but deeply flawed (usually narcissistic and violent) men. People rightly like all these works because they are good, but the implication of the original post is that if a guy says they are his favorite work, he is probably misunderstanding the point of the work and instead idolizing the male protagonist and is unable to recognize their flaws.

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cascadiarch

Didn’t even the creator of Fight Club advise against a relationship with anyone who said it was their favorite movie?

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batscoundrel

Not just that, he also started refusing to sign for folks at book signings if they expressed admiration/admonishment of Tyler. At least one person he straight up asked “You know he’s the villain, right?”

The author of the original book AND the director of the movie adaptation. On an SDCC panel, Fincher said, and I quote:  “My daughter had a friend named Max. She told me Fight Club is his fav movie. I told her never to talk to Max again.”

These things are not exclusive to men. I recall very vividly being first recommended Fight Club by a punk girl, back in high school. The fact that is so very common for boys to take a different message out of these kind of tells something about the way boys are raised, how masculinity is presented.

Breaking Bad is mainly about pride and ego. Fight Club is about a disconnected society where meaning itself became entirely secondary. Rick and Morty is about the connections we make with those around us as a way to build something meaningful in a meaningless universe. There’s something in these young men that makes them not see these points. Instead, they focus their attention on the most basic characteristics of these narratives: a revolt against an “unfair” situation, a cathartic adventure filled to the brim with aggression, maybe indifference, or other forms of violence.

This speaks of a sense of entitlement, when you come to think about it. This admiration, the idolizing of Walter White and Tyler Durden, is a projection. “These guys are doing what I would like to do”, not because of capitalism owning them, nor that they found their joie de vivre in making drugs, but because “I deserve better too”.

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dakotaaaa

some thoughts on self objectification 

Holy mother of hell

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closet-keys

this is a huge reason why lesbians can go years just not figuring out that they aren’t attracted to men. when your whole understanding of attraction is “objectifying yourself to the point that you understand intimacy as a performance to be the perfect sexual object for a man” then the question of who and what you desire isn’t even being asked- let alone answered. 

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grimeclown

 “hi welcome to mcdonalds what can i get for you?”

“yeah can i get a deluxe quarter pounder with cheese?”

“absolutely, do you want the meal or just the sandwich?’

“uuuuuh hold on”

*fishes something out of my pocket*

“mikey what do i do?”

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“get the fries. youll need the energy in the coming days”

*stuffs it back in my pocket*

“uhh yes please  the meal would be great”

serious question: can anyone else see this post? am I hallucinating?

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Monica Monica Monica Monica Monica Monica Geller off popular sitcom F.R.I.E.N.D.S Is one of the worst characters in the history of television She makes me want to wash my hands with hand sanitizer She makes me want to stand in an abandoned Ukrainian parking lot And scream her name at a bunch of dead crows Nobody liked her, except for Chandler He married her, and that brings me to my second point What kind of a name for a show was F.R.I.E.N.D.S When two of them were related And the rest of them just fucked for ten seasons? Maybe their fucking was secondary to their friendship Or they all had enough emotional equilibrium To be able to maintain a constant state of mutual-respect Despite the fucking Or conspicuous nonfucking That was occurring in their lives But I have to say It just doesn’t seem emotionally realistic Especially considering that They were not the most self-aware of people And to be able to maintain a friendship Through the various complications of heterosexual monogamy Is enormously difficult Especially when you take into consideration What cunts they all were I fell in love with a friend once And we liked to congratulate each other what good friends we were And how it was great that we could be such good friends, and still fuck Until we stopped fucking And then we weren’t such good friends anymore I had a dream the other night About this friend, and how we were walking Through sunlight, many years ago Dragged up from the vaults, like Old military propaganda You know the kind; young women leaving a factory Arm in arm, while their fiancées Are being handsomely shot to death in Prague And even though this friend doesn’t love me anymore And I don’t love them At least, not in a romantic sense The memory of what it had been like not to want To strap concrete blocks to my head And drown myself in a public fountain rather than spend another day With them not talking to me Came back, and I remembered the world For a moment, as it had been When we had just met, and love seemed possible And neither of us resented the other one And it made me sad Not just because things ended badly But more broadly Because my sadness had less to do with the emotional specifics of that situation And more to do with the transitory nature of romantic love Which is becoming relevant to me once again Because I just met someone new And this dream reminded me That, although I believe that there are ways that love can endure It’s just that statistically, or Based on personal experience It’s unlikely that things are going to go well for long There is such a narrow window For happiness in this life And if the past is anything to go by Everything is about to go slowly but inevitably wrong In a non-confrontational, but ultimately disappointing way Monica Monica Monica Monica Monica Geller from popular sitcom F.R.I.E.N.D.S Was the favourite character of the Uber driver Who drove me home the other day And is the main reason for this poem Because I remember thinking Monica??? Maybe he doesn’t remember who she is Because when I asked him specifically Which character he liked best off F.R.I.E.N.D.S He said ‘the woman’ And when I listed their names for him Phoebe, Rachel and Monica He said Monica But he said it with a kind of question mark at the end Like…… Monica? Which led me to believe Either, he was ashamed of liking her Or he didn’t know who he was talking about And had got her confused with one of the other Less objectively terrible characters. I think the driver meant to say Phoebe Because Phoebe is everyone’s favourite She once stabbed a police officer She once gave birth to her brother’s triplets She doesn’t give a shit what anyone thinks about her Monica gives a shit what everyone thinks about her Monica’s parents didn’t treat her very well And that’s probably where a lot of her underlying insecurities come from That have since manifested themselves in controlling And manipulative behaviour It’s not that I think Monica is unredeemable I can recognize that her personality has been shaped By a desire to succeed And that even when she did succeed, it was never enough Particularly for her mother, who made her feel like her dreams were stupid And a waste of time And that kind of constant belittlement can do fucked up things to a person So maybe, getting really upset when people don’t use coasters Is an understandable, or at least comparatively sane response To the psychic baggage Of your parents never having believed in you Often I look at the world And I am dumbfounded that anyone can function at all Given the kind of violence that So many people have inherited from the past But that’s still no excuse to throw A dinner plate at your friends, during a quiet game of Pictionary And even if that was an isolated incident And she was able to move on from it It still doesn’t make me want to watch her on TV I am falling in love and I don’t know what to do about it Throw me in a haunted wheelbarrow and set me on fire And don’t even get me started on Ross

“Monica”, by Hera Lindsay Bird (via leha314)

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buddhabrand

this video emits so much positive energy

When the bard rolls a 20

Bringing this back because THIS IS BRITISH CULTURE AT ITS BEST.

my favorite thing about humans is that if you make the right sounds, an entire pack will gather and sing along and be happy about it.

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aquariusgod

Reblog this within 30 seconds in order to receive luck in your efforts for romance, assistance in your relationships, and/or to help easy conflict in your current relationship. Likes charge.

Heal me

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willow

Me after finally replying to the six people who messaged me: amazing. I am so great I love getting back to people

Me when they all reply immediately: goodnight for now I’ll get back to you in the next couple days I’m going on vacation with limited access to emails please do not CC me

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