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Ross & Sophie

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Life update: We’re moving to London this year! More specifically, we leave in a little over 3 weeks!

If you would’ve told me two years ago that I would be leaving my favorite place, the Upper East Side of Manhattan, where I was born, raised, and still lived up until 6 months ago, I would’ve told you you’re whack & to never speak to me again. Just kidding, I wouldn’t have been that aggressive. But I definitely would’ve followed it with a totally obnoxious response about how I’ve never lived anywhere else in my life (not even through college!) & never planned to. Because it’s true, I never wanted to leave the place that was home. But a little bit of this & a little bit of that made us think about trying something new. And I guess a new hairstyle or pair of shoes wasn’t enough for either of us. So here we go!

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One of the biggest life updates is that Ross created and sold a board game! It’s called “Woodcraft” and he published it back in October 2022. We got to go to Germany, to one of the biggest board game conventions in the world, and we got to work the booth to sell/promote/teach the game for the whole week. It was one of the craziest experiences of our lives. And the game sold out!! I couldn’t be more proud of Ross.

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Random updates:

1. Yesterday was gorgeous so we walked to get coffee!

2. Little family couch photo with Frank.

3. We baked cinnamon rolls from scratch. So good!

4. Then we shoved hot honey pepperoni pizza into our mouths.

5. When the weather felt like summer and we spontaneously had a picnic after work with games and popcorn.

6. Biking to our friends house. I love going passed The Dakota—my favorite building in nyc.

7. A photo of Ross at his birthday dinner I took him to. We had German food and German beer (we never drink!)

8. Me at my mom’s pool in Florida having to completely shield my face from the sun because that was the day I woke up as puffy as Will Smith in “Hitch” (if you know, you know.)

9. Nighttime walk with Frank in Central Park.

10. Daytime walk with Frank.

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I know I don’t really come here anymore but I miss just being able to write and talk.

Life feels tough right now. I hate feeling stuck in my job and as if I’ll never leave a corporate career because of the stability it gives me. Like I want the stability but at what expense? Being unhappy? Not getting time for myself? Feeing stressed all the time?

Money is certainly not everything. I hate not knowing what to do.

Just venting. Hope everyone is well!

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Anonymous asked:

Hi! I followed you guys back in 2014 in my last ldr (which ended a few years ago but I’m happier now!!) I’m now somehow in another ldr and I’m happy to see that y’all are still thriving!! I get to see him next week for the first time in 2 months and just wanted to share the excitement somewhere people would understand too haha

Oh we know this excitement well!!

I’m so happy for you!! It’s so exciting counting down the days until the next meeting! Although I know ultimately everyone wants to close the distance, it’s so nice to embrace these times! The romance of the lead up, the solo time to be with yourself and grow independently while you guys are apart, and the happiness and closeness spending those days together gives you.

Have SO much fun!!! So happy for you!

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Anonymous asked:

Hi! I followed you guys back in probably 2014 under under-the--same-moon. I loved following your story; it gave me hope that my relationship could survive. I'm here to say that we closed the distance in 2016, got married in 2017, and had a baby in 2019. Our love is still going strong! 7 years together and counting.

I just said HOLY SHIT out loud! What a perfect ending!! I’m so happy for you guys!!! Congrats!! ❤️❤️

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Anonymous asked:

Hey! Just wondered if you have instagram of some sort? I’ve followed you guys for years!

Hey there! Yes we do!! Let’s follow each other!

INSTA: thedailyysoph

Ross Insta: Rossarnoldsan

Whoever you are, hope you’re well! Xo

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Hi Sophie and Ross! Hope you guys are doing great! I'm not on Tumblr as much as I used to be years ago, but I remember loving your blog and your advice for ldr! Me and my boyfriend have been doing long distance for nearly 3 years and hope to move in together soon! He's from Scotland and I'm from Spain! It's crazy how fast time goes by...! Anyway, hope you guys are okay and thanks for sharing your story on here!

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Hi there!

Firstly, thank you for your kind words! We appreciate it!

Secondly, super happy for you guys for achieving 3 years of long distance! It is not easy, huh? But super special and worth it ❤️ I am so happy for you two and wish you the best and to close the distance soon! Which country do you plan to move to? :)

Hope you both are safe and heathy! Thank you again! Xo

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Anonymous asked:

Hey Guys I so miss the days when the blog was more active but happy hoping everyone is well. Please stay safe during this crazy time we’re in, sending much love your way 💕

Hi there! I miss it too! Should we post more?:)

And thank you! I hope you’re staying safe and healthy too! We got this!

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I have worked out 6 days a week for the last 8 years. So it’s nothing new for me.

And I’m always eating healthy in different ways. Sometimes that means salmon and veggies, sometimes it means chickpea pasta and turkey meatballs. No limits to healthy eating!

But for the last 3 weeks I’ve stuck to a high fiber lifestyle and just strength training and I’m feeling really strong!

I like to go a little hard before the holidays ;)

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