Dont. Hit. Your. Children.

We know, from over 50 years of data and study, that it is incredibly detrimental to use physical force to punish children. Yes, this includes spanking.

Instead:

General rule of thumb: You aren’t trying to raise an obedient child. You’re trying to raise a thoughtful, respectful adult. And you have to be a role model, not just in what you say, but also in what you do. 

And don’t. hit. your. children. 

Yeah none of this work for children with mood disorders or mental disabilities. Your trying to cope a child who has issues but this sounds ideal but reality is a lot different. A child with actual issues will not stop They Don’t Care . They will have a tantrum in a store about what they want and will cause property damage to get it . Your not talking about real children and that’s why people arguing to hit them above me . When you have children who are out of control and nothing and I do mean nothing works on your list what do you turn to ? I would love to hear another pointless lecture about parenting from someone with either no children. Or children with no issues at all . Yes you are trying to raise an obedient child who becomes an obedient adult. if you haven’t notice obedience means you know understand rules in the street ,in your home and every given situation. as they get older the rules turn into laws and if they can’t follow as an obedient adult. you fucked up as a parent for not drilling that in .

Did…did you just say that children with mental disabilities aren’t “real children”? 

And that it’s ok to hit kids as long as they are disabled? 

Really?

REALLY?

Are you taking my my word out context ? Not even interpreting at all the message . Yes you are . I said all the guidelines above would never work for real children . Also it would be hypocritical seeing as my son has mental disabilities. which is why I can personally say the above doesn’t work for every child . Let me guess you read the first three lines and decide to berate me ? @fandomsandfeminism

I’m just looking at your words and trying to understand. 

My post, which is backed up by decades of science, years of formal education on adolecent development, and years of hands on classroom experience, argues that you shouldn’t hit children and offers proven alternatives. 

Your reply was “ Yeah none of this work for children with mood disorders or mental disabilities.” and “ Your not talking about real children” 

Trust me, not hitting your kid can work for ALL children. There are no children you HAVE to hit. 

Yeah I’m gonna allow you to believe what you want . All I know is the shift in parenting since science and the not hitting your kids took over . you have more children being rude and disrespectful to strangers ,More school shootings ,And lack consequences for their actions. The majority of parents are lackluster about their responsibilities because of the science . Science changes constantly watch in ten years previous conclusion will be invalidated because things change . And no it can’t work for every child come out the bubble and face reality .

Juvenile delinquency rates are actually on a steady trend down (though many researchers actually attribute this to lowering the lead in public water supplies) 

No one said that there shouldn’t be consequences and rules. In fact my post gave several suggestions for how to make those consequences and rules meaningful and effective. 

Not hitting your kid can work for ALL children. There are no children you HAVE to hit.

Oh god, you’re back in this train?

It was a cherry picked study. Everyone know this. I listed sources that showed it was cherry picked last time.

It’s 50 years of compiled data with meta analysis of tens of thousands of children. And you did no such thing. If you have nothing meaningful to add, you are invited to stop following my blog.

Second time in sharing this.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-science-says-and-doesn-t-about-spanking/

I do add meaningful things. You just don’t appreciate them.

Read your own source.

“ Still, a number of individual studies have found associations between spanking and negative outcomes, even after controlling for preexisting child behavior. So Gershoff says that in spite of the lingering controversy, the safest approach parents can take is not to spank their kids. “Studies continue to find that spanking predicts negative behavior changes—there are no studies showing that kids improve,” she says. And although Ferguson is not convinced that spanking is categorically bad, he is “certainly not an advocate of spanking.” Furthermore, there is a worrying body of research suggesting that parents who spank will later use harsher forms of punishment. “If spanking is not working, and spanking is all the parents are doing, then they’re going to escalate,” Gershoff says. “

I thought that with everything going on in my life that the bad stuff would end with the divorce last year, but everything just keeps getting worse, and my head’s not even above water anymore. My ex-husband is drowning me and I need help. Please.   Gofundme description: As a few of you know I just recently got out of a terrible divorce and custody battle with my physically abusive ex-husband. And while I was able to gain full custody of my 2 year-old son and get away from my ex-husband, he still deems it necessary to make mine and my son’s live’s a living hell despite ditching his own child and saying he “wants no part of us anymore”. He stole $1,500 from me when I had decided to leave him because he wouldn’t stop hitting me. I wish that was where the problems stopped, but unfortunately that’s just the start of it. He owes me over $2,000 in child support that I have not seen a penny of in over a year, and getting help from the Attorney General’s Child Support Division is impossible. My ex-husband also filed my son on his tax return, stealing my tax return and putting me under federal investigation with the IRS even though it’s illegal for him to do so, and I recently lost my job. I’m a single mother with not even a penny to my name, but still lucky enough to have a roof over our heads. And sadly enough, even though the divorce is over, I’m still in terrible amounts of debt because of it. I’m lost, scared and just don’t know what to do anymore, so I’m finally admitting for once in my life that I need some help. Any help at all. This has been such a long road for my son and I, and it never seems to end. We just want this over with so we can finally move on with our lives, and we can’t do that without the money to help get us out of this mess, and away from him for good.  Anything helps, even if all you have is a prayer for me and my son. Thank you, I hope this will all be over soon, God bless.

Democrats then:

Democrats now:

Also Democrats now:

lol didn’t you take 4th grade history? the parties switched. 

Statism And Racism.

  One of the most flagrant falsehoods in all of leftist thought is the idea of an association between “Capitalism” and racial oppression. Racial oppression is somehow depicted by the leftist as an extension of the overall exploitation that supposedly defines Capitalism. In reality, large scale racial oppression, and caste systems have essentially always been products of government. Caste systems of one type or another predate free enterprise societies by thousands of years, and they are always imposed by the force of law. The United States is no exception. Blacks in America were rendered second class citizens half a century ago as a result of the state: specifically as the result of a code of laws popularly known as Jim Crow laws. Before that period slavery was practiced; enabled by the state through the selective enforcement of felony laws for some people and not others. Apprehending and confining certain individuals against their will was punishable by law, but not other individuals. Eventually the Supreme Court gave the practice of slavery official government sanction in the infamous Dred Scott case.

 The arguments against the abolition of slavery during the Lincoln-Douglas debates were quite revealing. The defenders of slavery both feared and argued that the absence of any legal distinction between Blacks and Whites would lead to various forms of intermingling, or in other words, the increasing absence of social differences. What they literally feared was that the free market and private sphere left to themselves would annihilate the divisions among men.  

Make no mistake. Government has always been the great accomplice of racism.

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