what if something good happens?

Your parents are not "narcissists". They're typical authoritarian assholes who treat you like their property because society allows them to.

Your ex boyfriend is not a "narcissist". He's a typical misogynistic douchebag who treats women like shit because society allows him to.

Your boss is not a "narcissist". They're a typical classist dipshit who thinks workers' entire purpose in life is to generate profit because society allows them to.

And even if they happen to be a "narcissist", that's not what gave them the power to get away with abuse.

So stop blaming mental illness and start blaming society's normalization of abuse. Stop acting like someone has to have a mental illness in order to do something cruel when ordinary people have been doing atrocious things since forever.

Pathologizing abuse, whether it’s in the home or the workplace, whether it’s physical or emotional or sexual, stops us from being able to recognize the hegemonic structures that make abuse so universal. It is not aberrant, it is completely normal, and that should spur you to action

new kind of guy dropped

he's right though

Customer: (not on record) DMV: THE P COULD STAND FOR PUSSY, PUSSY MONSTER Verdict: DENIED

POTHOLES

i turned to drive over the same pothole to see you again

context: you're leaving

neither of us has said anything so i write this poem to cope

sad

we keep running into each other our cars parked side by side soldier-like no one is talking about us now, they're just seeing, watching the amoeba of us slowly split

i used to have dreams about you i would write them down as if you were trying to communicate things you'd never say in person

i still dream now without all the writing i'm scared of the future i would drive over so many potholes to stitch the amoeba back together

unfortunately no eclipse photography can ever outdo the waffle house one from 2017

I understand that a lot of people are really into gardening but i think you should refrain from pointing at peoples houses and announcing the sexes of the bushes outside because you might accidentally get the correct ratio of men to women in that household and scare the crap out of the residents inside. Especially if you’re going to end your statement with “that’s why they’re not going to survive”

Last night i was sitting at my computer with my window open and i heard a guy on the sidewalk walk up to my yard, vaguely point at my house (it was dark) and say “oh yea there’s 3 females and one male, thats why they’re not going to survive” and then walked away and it took me walking outside with a flashlight to understand he was referring to the fact that 3/4 of my rosemary bushes have flowers and that he was not stalking my family of 3 women and 1 man and threatening us

*booking an mri* what if I accidentally have a pacemaker. what if I got secret bone surgery and forgot about the pins

finally, i can have a deviantart signature on tumblr. the future is now

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[on the verge of having a complete breakdown] i need to make some kind of list or perhaps sort things into categories

hush little baby dont you cry. mamas gonna buy you a big horse fly. and if that big horse fly dont fly. mamas gonna buy you another horse fly

[club mix] another horse fly. another horse fly

*firmly grabbing all beginner artists by the shoulders* you have to embrace inconsistency. inconsistency is good because it means you are learning. if you focus too hard on making all your art look the same you are really just holding yourself back and forcing yourself to make the same mistakes rather than develop and grow. style and consistency can come later on when your grasp on the fundamentals is stronger. now take this juice box and get out there and make some art.

every time people try to articulate what exactly "neurodivergence" is into one comfortable bubble of needs and behaviours, they're utterly failing to account for the existence of nathan fielder type attack-position autism

some people's reaction to realising they have flat affect was "oh it's really funny when people can't read my tone. I can say anything with a straight face" and this is, generally speaking, the path of demonic cultivation

this would have got 100k notes as a tumblr post in 2018

kids these days are so fucked up because there's hardly any low-level mobs they can defeat to build early-game xp