@chefsageblaze / chefsageblaze.tumblr.com
Just so we’re all clear on where I stand: Black lives matter, trans women are women, trans men are men, nonbinary people are beautiful, asexual/aromantic folks have a place in the LGBTQ community, Queer is not a dirty word, and being “anti fascist” is a moral position, not a political one.
I think if I do nothing else on this earth than make people feel a little more loved in a time where they felt alone then ive served my purpose well
in your 20s you must rediscover the joys of arts and crafts to stave off spiritual decay
a realisation i had recently was that even people who i don’t really like, i still often admire things about them. i admire their confidence, or passion for their job, or their style, or their talent for making people laugh, or the way they always take care of their mum. even just the way someone does their nails or their cool taste in music. i rarely, if ever, dislike someone in entirety. which means the same is probably true of me.
why do i have to feel everything so deeply
jobs for autism boy NO phone call NO schedule NO talking to people NO emails NO computer programming or sex work NO becoming a youtuber NO starting a band NO leaving my house NO one gets mad at me. $27 per hour please
listening to music with headphones is so awesome especially when it shoots straight into your brain and you can pick out all its little layers like sandwich ingredients
i woke up like this (anxious)
in this gay and age,
In the queer and now…
"oh sorry, i guess i was infodumping again" - sad, shy, apologetic
"you sly dog, you got me monologuing" - cool, strong, confident
Have there been any parts of transitioning you haven't liked?
Yeah it could've been less expensive and people could've been less weird about it
hang on i need a minute *escapes into the fantasy where I'm the tragically tormented protagonist but the whole audience is rooting for me*
why do you and others like vaccines so much?
not dying of preventable diseases is actually one of my favorite hobbies
i wish i could scoop out all the words and stories inside my head with a butter knife and spread it onto a document and that was it
im gonna be real i do think we need to spend more time as a society encouraging adults to play pretend in structured ways bc what i’m getting from a variety of sources is we all like to make fake shit and pretend to be people we are not
No fr adults would be a lot healthier if their need for play was more easily satisfied. Play is a fundamental human need that does not go away when we exit childhood but it’s treated as childish and frivolous. No bitch that’s how we process our experiences and knowledge and practice emotions of all kinds in a safe space!! Learn how to play again!
