I Never Thought I’d Get Here!
I can’t believe how everything’s playing out.
The 2nd date happened, and it definitely went well. We had a great time at the Mexican place, and I talked to her as much as possible at my car and hers before she absolutely had to go. When we said goodbye, it was a hug and a kiss on the cheek.
I enjoyed my time, but I still felt like this was a very simple, slow pace. But I also didn’t mind it.
That night Nerdy Girl was all over me on messenger asking how it was and getting mopey about us. And we ended up having a borderline argument about what we’re doing. I gave her my perspective of everything and it really made her think about things. I brought up stuff I mentioned from the last blog too - if she had considered the consequences about what our friends would think. Here, they meant for me to hook up with Goth Mom, but instead Nerdy Girl & I get together and she broke up with her long-term boyfriend...
That one, doesn’t look good on paper, man...
But I’m not stringing her along either. I’ve fully admitted that I don’t know what I’m doing and that I don’t know what I want. And by the end of the conversation, given enough perspective, she decided that for now it’s best for us to be Friends with Benefits.
With that agreement in check and both of us on the same page, we agreed to see each other the next day. And that’s when the inevitable happened.
I’m gonna be a gentleman about it. I won’t kiss and tell. But it was good!
...That same DAY a 3rd factor came into the picture, which I wasn’t expecting, but it’s not really worth mentioning. My 2 close friends are getting married next year and they wanted me to meet their friend, since she’s going to be my partner in the Wedding Party. They thought we would hit it off, and she was fun... But, I’m not invested. My mind is on Goth Mom & Nerdy Girl.
Buuuut, while I was out having that good time at a Bar again for the first time in 4 months... I got a text from Goth Mom. She wanted to see me again the next day. She told me when she got out of work and right there we made the plan to watch a movie at my place. This was it!!!