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writing “sorry” at the bottom of your math test
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me: *softly, under many blankets* I'm trying
In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences.
- Can’t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.
- Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don’t let it get to your head.
- Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it’s a process that takes an hour? That’s alright, everyone’s different.
- Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? That’s okay, you’re not broken, you’re not a failure.
- Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? That’s great, you’re not a slut, you’re not overly sensitive or dirty.
- Can’t cum without toys/vibrators? That’s awesome, that’s a valid part of sexual play!
- Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? That’s perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!
Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, they’re lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be.
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And let it be a reminder that not everyone has the physical capacity of orgasms. Certain medications can also influence this (antidepressants are a huge factor).
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I am a big believer that sex should be about creating a positive, enjoyable experience for everyone doing the sex and that may or may not involve orgasms, penetration, or nudity.