LGBT Rights is an AIUSA Issue
Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender rights is an AIUSA issue because Amnesty believes that all people regardless of their sexual orientation or fender identification should be able to enjoy the full range of human rights with no exceptions. The LGBT community faces gross marginalization, discrimination, prejudice, punishment, and even death in some countries around the world simply for their sexual orientation and/or sexual identity.
Using correct pronouns is also important in identification issues involving those who belong to the LGBT community. One should always ask someone the pronouns that they preferred to use are before referring to an individual. Pronouns include “he”, “she”, “hers”, “his”, “him”, “her”, “them”, “they”, and “theirs”. You do not know what someone identifies themselves as without asking them and some people do not identify as a gender.
Lastly, an ally by definition means a “person who associates or cooperates with another; supporter.” To be ally for the LGBT community means to associate one’s self with their goals and support the achievement of those goals set forth. While allies may contribute to the cause, allies should fully support the group in which needs the help. It is nice to have your own opinions and sentiments, but if the goal is to help the LGBT community an ally should be echoing the sentiments of that community.
When asked about using proper pronouns she explained that as a cisgender, a person whose self-identity aligns with the gender that corresponds to their biological sex, she is not the most appropriate source for information on pronoun justice. “Trans voices are what matter here. But as far as using people's proper pronouns, it's a sign of respect and of recognition of that person's humanity, and one can't always assume pronouns from perceived gender presentation.”
“The most important thing allies can do for us is to listen to us. If you're straight and cisgender and you have LGBTQ+ people in your life, listen to what we say we need and then choose your moves from there. If we say we need emotional support and just want to complain about injustice, let us complain to you without arguing that we're making a big deal out of nothing or telling us about people who had it worse.” Glassman explained, “Let us tell you which LGBTQ+-related legislative or social issues are the most pressing to us personally. If we're using specific words to refer to ourselves -- a friend you thought was female telling you he's a man, your sister referring to the woman you keep calling her partner as "her wife" -- use the word we're using.”
“Another important role for allies is to fight non-allies for us when we're too exhausted to do battle ourselves. I can't tell you how much it meant to me when two friends blurted out "WIFE" really loudly when someone used the word girlfriend a week after our wedding. It meant not only that I wasn't in this alone and didn't have to do it all myself, but that if I did advocate for myself, my friends wouldn't be distancing themselves from me for the perceived social crime of speaking up,” she added.
Glassman also talked about her path as an author and how she was inspired to write books about same sex couples.
“Growing up, little kids are fed a diet of fiction that includes cis man + cis woman romance as a key element of happy endings. In the 80's and 90's growing up, if you notice romance between women (or between men) at all, it was talked about in subtext or treated either tragically or like some shortcut to depicting decadence. Just think about which queer movies hit the mainstream -- Boys Don't Cry, Philadelphia, Brokeback Mountain -- those narratives don't exactly make you feel like your Princess Charming or Plucky Brave Little Milkmaid are coming up around the corner ready to hold your hand and skip through the daisies.
I wanted those fairy tales. I wanted pretty romance, I wanted sweet romance. I wanted a Jane Austen movie with two girls, I wanted a Disney princess who was like me. I wanted emotion to be validated. I just wanted to show that our romances have beauty, too, and aren't based entirely on sexual attraction the way straight people sometimes assume they are.”
Artwork by Rebecca Schauer
It’s time for LGBTQ+ rights to become a world issue.