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@trendymemer / trendymemer.tumblr.com

hello darkness my old friend
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Here we go. I’m being extremely vulnerable with this post, but I feel it is necessary in my body positivity journey and for my overall well-being.

If you don’t like what you see, I don’t give a fuck. That’s on you, boo.

I’ve struggled with the holiday weight gain and feeling good in my own body. I have to remind myself that I am still beautiful at any weight/shape/size even after extreme weight loss.

I’m down 150ish pounds from my highest weight, but I can tell you that losing weight did not correct my internal dialogue about my body image. I still have a “fat girl” mentality when I look at myself and only see flaws.

But if I can’t love myself at every moment of my body positivity journey, how can I expect to flourish mentally and physically? The way I’ve spoken to myself throughout my years has mostly been negative, but it’s time to change that narrative.

My stretch marks, my loose skin, my rolls, my spider veins, my cellulite, my bruises, my scars. They are me; they are real.

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What Women Find Attractive

The position of Mars in a woman’s chart will determine what she finds attractive in any person of interest. A woman tends to project the qualities of her personal Mars onto potential mates instead of internalizing the qualities as part of her own persona.

Mars in Aries: Women with Mars in Aries most likely forgo the shy retiring types for the take-charge, independent leaders out there. They like people who know what they want, are able to express it in straight-forward terms, and go after it with gusto.

Mars in Taurus: Women with Mars in Taurus are looking for stability. They probably prefer people who work in hands on professions as opposed to spending their days at a desk.

Mars in Gemini: These women are looking for someone who can stimulate them intellectually. Wit, versatility, and razor-sharp conversational skills are absolute musts. They also know how to appreciate a killer sense of humor.

Mars in Cancer: These women often find themselves drawn to the brooding, sensitive types. If the object of their affection also happens to be protective and a bit complicated as well, even better. Strong, silent types are quite appealing indeed.

Mars in Leo: People with dignity, pride, and confidence to spare are the type these women are attracted to. They are also looking for someone who is generous, romantic, and very loving. Tightwads and emotionally bankrupt suitors need not apply.

Mars in Virgo: Women with Mars in Virgo prefer natural, simple, and intelligent people who keep a neat appearance and have a practical outlook on life. They are also looking for kindness and capability, someone who can provide for her and keep their life together in order.

Mars in Libra: Women with Mars in Libra are looking for someone that like to please the people in their life. They also like a person with good manners, a well-groomed appearance, and an all-around classy approach to life in general.

Mars in Scorpio: These are the women that are looking for someone with a powerful presence and charisma in spades. They like intensity in their person of interest, and they even tend to find a healthy amount of possessiveness to be highly attractive.

Mars in Sagittarius: These women like sporty, adventurous people who know how to have a great time and possess wonderful senses of humor. They also like their partner a bit more worldly and are looking for someone who isn’t overly invested on their appearance or the material side of life.

Mars in Capricorn: These women like confident, straight-forward, successful people. She is also looking for a person who can provide stability and would rather die than wind up with someone who’s irresponsible or immature.

Mars in Aquarius: These women like original, one-of-a-kind characters with fresh outlooks on life and innovative, interesting ideas that they enjoy sharing with others. She’s also looking for someone who isn’t too possessive or dependent.

Mars in Pisces: These women often find themselves falling for sensitive, artistic types. Compassion, emotions that run deep, and a decent level of complication are all very attractive to them. Super independent types are not for them. They’d like to be needed by the people in their lives.

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reblogged

the older i get the more it’s clear that being smart doesn’t get you very far if you’re not disciplined. there are tons of people who are brilliant but not disciplined. they have amazing ideas but cannot finish a project. they are creative and innovative but cannot execute a plan. i see how important it is to set deadlines and boundaries for myself an to be disciplined.

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the statements “Twilight is extremely problematic” and “a lot of the vitriol directed at Twilight at the height of its popularity was rooted largely in misogyny” can both be true at the same time yknow

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mithraxx

watching history repeat itself as the united states and countries across the world descend into fascism in an all too familiar pattern of events

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