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Tabitha Grow

@omgtabby / omgtabby.tumblr.com

Pro-fiction, Queer, PNW. NO REQUESTS. tabithagrow@gmail.com Patreon || Store || Portfolio || Twitter || Instagram Do not repost my art, use it for icons or layouts, or RP with it.
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nightmarist

Shipping Headcanons! Send Numbers & Ships!

SFW

  1. Who cooks?
  2. Who’s the messiest? The cleanest?
  3. Who fixes the vehicle after a breakdown?
  4. Living space has a leak! Who fixes it?
  5. Who buys the groceries?
  6. Going out to eat: Who pays? Who orders the most food? And who has dessert?
  7. Would they go to the beach?
  8. Who knows how to swim? Who doesn’t?
  9. Is someone multilingual? Do they try to teach another language to the other? How does it go?
  10. Any pets? Or plants?
  11. Baths or showers? Together or separate? Any bubbles or bubble fights?
  12. Can they stand silence? Who talks the most? Who talks the least?
  13. Who stays up late? Who sleeps the most? Does the other have to force them to sleep/wake up?
  14. Who is the highest maintenance? Does the other mind?
  15. Vacation ideas: who decides them? Where would they go, if anywhere?

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  1. How often do they have sex, if at all?
  2. Who brings ideas? Who initiates?
  3. Any kinks they clash on?
  4. Oddest place they’d have sex?
  5. Favourite positions?
  6. Dom/top? Sub/bottom? Any switches?
  7. Genital headcanons?
  8. Favourite erogenous zones?
  9. Quickest turn ons? Immediate turn offs?
  10. First to orgasm? Last to orgasm? Who comes the most? Does someone ever end up unfinished?
  11. Favourite romantic gestures during sex/orgasm?
  12. How are their afterglows?
  13. Who’s loud? Who’s quiet? Does one try to make the other louder/quieter? How?
  14. Lights on or off? Do they look at each other? Or is someone embarrassed?
  15. Open or closed relationship? Do they sometimes share?
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Okay here’s an ask game

Send me a ship and I’ll answer three questions based on if I ship it or not.

Ship It

  1. What made you ship it?
  2. What are your favorite things about the ship?
  3. Is there an unpopular opinion you have on your ship?

Don’t Ship It

  1. Why don’t you ship it?
  2. What would have made you like it?
  3. Despite not shipping it, do you have anything positive to say about it?
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vaspider

I agree with you in principle about paying media creators, but the fact is that people who are spreading piracy stuff are often doing so because either 1) they don’t want to give money to the big corporations that control most mass media, or 2) they don’t have the money to give to creators of things they love. I agree that if you have the means to give proper support to things you love, you should, but not everyone has access to library resources (for example, not everyone is American/western and so not everyone has access to online pdfs through a library, or even libraries at all in some places) and it just feels very…. not extreme, but a bit harsh to equate reading a pdf with intentionally withholding money from creators. I’m sorry it this comes across rudely, that isn’t my intent, but it feels very unfair to generalise so harshly on a post about resources for when you can’t access certain things

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You aren't entitled to someone else's labor just because it's art.

I'm going to repeat that, because people seem to be confused: you aren't entitled to someone else's labor just because it's art.

Just because you don't have money to pay a creator doesn't mean that you can take what you want and take money out of other people's pockets just because it's art.

I would love to have more art from @fofoart, but I don't have the money to pay them right now, so you know what that means? I don't have more art from them. I would love to read Thistlefoot right now, but I don't have the money to buy it at the moment, and so you know what that means? I wait until I can get it through my library or until I have the money to buy it, because I am not entitled to someone else's labor just because it's art.

There are plenty of books out there which can be read without pirating books. If you sign up to Tor's website you often get emails about free books and short stories. Project Guttenberg exists. Writers often post free stories on websites. There are more legitimate and free books out there right now, in the genres that you like and want to read, than you could ever read in ten lifetimes.

You are not entitled to someone else's labor just because it's art. You are not entitled to fuck up someone's sales numbers or make a publishing house go "your books are pirated too much so we're gonna pay you less" just because you want to read that specific book.

I mean, you can do that, I guess, but you can't do it and be morally correct about it. You can do it and be an asshole, or you can not do it, read one of the many many free books in this world, and not be an asshole.

There are no other choices. You don't get to just say "well I don't have money but I want this" and fucking steal it and then act like this is anything but theft. It's theft! It's not justified just because you really wanna read it!

This isn't "not supporting creators," this is stealing from artists because you feel entitled to do so because "I want it."

That's toddler logic. Grow up.

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