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Thoughts of an unrested mind

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Lyss Asexual Romantically Queer Gender Queer High Femme They/Them White Neurodivergent Spoonie
I live and go to school in Minnesota. I am a graduate of the University of Wisconsin - Stout. Psychology major, coaching minor. I am working on a masters in Community Counseling Psychology. Long term, I would like to do Gender therapy. I'm what I like to call a "mostofthetimeatarian" meaning I don't often eat meat. If you want to know more, ask, or if you ever need anyone to talk to, feel free to leave me a message.
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According to science, cold is just the absence of heat, and darkness is the absence of light. With that logic, evil is not the opposite of good, just the absence of it.

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[Drawing of a white cat wearing a shirt in the colors of the transgender pride flag (blue, pink, and white) and saying “You matter and your rights matter.” in a pink speech bubble against a blue background.] Ps. If you want to donate directly to trans people who need help, you can do so by checking out #transwishlist and #transcrowdfund on twitter and donating to the people there.

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Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.

Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?

And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run

But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually

Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.

Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!

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I missed out on pride month but here are some corgis.

They should be fine but i have had a bit of issues. It seems to have been fixed though.

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Getting activist @ed on our local qt missed connections page. *quivers in corner* "...hi!"

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since its summer and getting hot: dont shave ur huskies/any double coated dog

Wait how come?

its because theyre double coated and if you shave them that coat will never grow in correctly again. it will permanently mess up their ability to thermoregulate bc they dont have their different fur layers to insulate them or use for sun protection. heres a link going into a little more detail why 

Shaving your husky can actually raise the chances of it suffering from heat stroke! The best thing to do in summer months is to comb out the undercoat that’s already shedding on its own using a rake. It looks like this:

This takes time. If you don’t have time to maintain their coat, don’t get a husky. On a side note, the Furminator grooming tool seems popular, but can cause damage to the coat if overused or used improperly. Do your research before using it.

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