Richard Siken, from Landscape With Black Coats In Snow in “War Of The Foxes” (via adrasteiax)

Mari Eastman

what a week huh?

Stephen Hutchings

Gathering Storm, 2012

8’ x 8’

Oil and charcoal on canvas.

Vietnam’s Newly Opened Pedestrian Bridge Lifts Visitors with a Pair of Giant Weathered Hands

Lorde x The Louvre MELODRAMA, 2017

appreciatinge some dirt today

dirt… she is wonderful

lov her (dirt)

Heat index was 110 degrees so we offered him a cold drink. He went for a full body soak instead

Can i get a step by step on how to do this?

So far for me it’s been something like:

1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.

2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up.

3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.

4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.

5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.”

Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.

I hope any of that made sense.

oh my goodness there are instructions!!

This is kinda small but I’ve also made an attempt to stop saying things like “sorry for bothering you”, and instead say things like “thanks for listening to me”. There’s no need to demean yourself when reaching out to people!

 Angela Carter, The Magic Toyshop (via asteriaria)

The Goddess Juno entering the Mansion of Sleep, Vicente López Portaña (Spanish, 1772–1850), 1829

Oil on canvas

mutuals this is actually really fun

hhhhuuuuuuuuuuuuu bog party

Star Carrier Enamel Pins

Eveen Studios on Etsy

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three main parts of d&d culture are

1. *drops to 0hp* “I’m dead.” “You’re not dead yet”

2. rolling a bad perception roll and your dm is just like “you don’t have a fucking clue where you are. a room maybe?”

3. when the dm is narrating a scene for another character and your character isn’t even there so when you make a smartass comment about what’s happening the dm shouts “You’re not here”