The fact of the matter is a lot of asexuals are victims of sexual abuse in their past which is why they’re ace in the first place and identify so strongly with the term, or are like me and are repulsed by it completely to the point of nausea and sickness. It’s getting very old seeing the influx of posts crop up like “haha I’m ace passing cause I can’t get laid lol”, and seeing ace positivity blogs, which were otherwise unknown and outside of the discourse, now being flooded with nasty messages and shit. Can we like not start doing this just because of one fuckhead decided to be the voice none one of us wanted them to be with that stupid ass list?