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Do Not Go Far From Me

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Nicole. Ama. She/her. 30 years old. I'm just trying.
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waits patiently for 2015 upload

2015

Happy new year 2016

Happy new year 2017 

Happy new year

there she is!!

hopefully 2021 treats us better

happy 2022 everyone!!

i hope 2023 is kind to you all!

another year another slay

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Enemies Vox Machina knew of by ep 31: the Briarwoods, Anna Ripley, and one pissed off rakshasa Enemies the Mighty Nein knew of by ep 31: Trent Ikithon and the Cerberus Assembly (unbeknownst to him and them) Enemies Bells Hells know of by ep 31: Armand Treshi, Otohan Thull and the Paragon’s Call (unbeknownst to her and them), the Grey Assassins, the Shade Mother, the Nightmare King, the entire Unseelie Court, Ludinus Da’Leth (unbeknownst to him), a shady ass changeling named Yu, some guy named Ultgar, a toymaker in the Heartmoor, a bird named Shithead, kinda Delilah Briarwood…

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I-??????? I can't really get that my brain hurts

Grammatically speaking, Pronouns are a game we play with society.

A crew of sailors discuss their ship. "her mast is strong but the sails need changin. She's a beaut though."

I see a fancy rock on my hike. I pick it up, turn to my friend and say "Look at him, he's so handsome"

A group of our sparkling Gay gentlemen meet up for a night out. "Girl, Daniel's serving up looks tonight. Queen! She's stunning love. She's killin it."

My neighbor needs a cup of sugar, I take some to them.

My lesbian friend wants to introduce me to her fellow female partner. "There's Star, he's wearing the blue jacket. Let's catch up with him"

What's real is how respect for one another makes us feel. He/him lesbians deserve your respect.

Pronouns are also more related to gender presentation than gender itself for some people!

Lesbians calling themselves "fathers", "husbands", "boyfriends", "handsome", and other words associated with men are a part of their gender presentation as masculine women as well as their reclamation of the idea that "lesbians just want to be men". He/Him pronouns is just a part of that!

[ID 1: a light pink rectangular box with the lesbian pride flag on the left and the text "This user respects he/him lesbians". /end ID]

[ID 2: tags that read "#when i first learned a few years ago that some lesbians use he/him pronouns #I was a bit confused I at least knew enough to just shut up and accept it #so i did. #i shut up and listened and pretty soon it started making sense #but I still like to remind myself and others that other people aren't [caps] obligated [end caps] to explain their relationships with personal identity to me #and that we aren't owed an explanation. and understanding is not a prerequisite to respect #understanding is good! it is good to self-educate and keep yourself informed #but understanding the nuances of other people's experiences is not prerequisite to respectful behavior #[caps] you are required to be respectful no matter what level of information you have [end caps] #youre allowed to be confused. but confusion is not an excuse for condescending prejudice #do not dismiss people when they are sharing with you something personal you aren't informed about! #that is the opposite of an appropriate reaction!" /end ID]

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BOOST!

Oh wouldn’t this be tragic if word of this spread out everywhere possible?

Oh no…my hand slipped…

Remember if you live somewhere where this is an option you need, you need to be keeping a healthy stock of pregnancy tests and using them regularly to catch the pregnancy early enough. It is incredibly common for people to only find out well past 10 weeks. Of course that can be expensive so look for the paper strip type that doctors use, not the bulky plastic types typically advertised for home use if you can. And dont fall for marketing gimmicks with pregnancy tests, they all work about the same, you don’t need a digital screen and if in doubt do another test tomorrow.

(Also do your test first thing when you wake up for best results)

I would HATE for anyone in Texas to ACCIDENTALLY read this…

The dollar store carries pregnancy tests and they’re just as accurate as the ones from the pharmacy, fyi

Having worked in a doctor’s office, can confirm we just used cheap plastic OTC pregnancy tests and the dollar tree has them sometimes for $1. As a further reminder– (loosely) once the sperm hits the egg and you become “officially pregnant”, pregnancy is calculated by going back to the date of your LAST period. So if the date of your conception is March 29, but you got off your period March 01, congrats! You’re now 1 month/4 weeks pregnant. That’s how pregnancy is calculated. And you absolutely cannot find out the day you conceived that you’re pregnant, because it takes at least 2 weeks before your body makes enough HCG to be perceived by a pregnancy test– so that’s another two weeks. Which means you could have sex, become pregnant, wait the two weeks to test, and be ‘six weeks’ pregnant. That’s right– if you do everything right, and find out you’re pregnant literally as SOON as possible, you can already be 6 weeks pregnant. “The Texas Heartbeat Act prohibits abortion when there is a detectable heartbeat, which may be as early as 6 weeks into a woman’s pregnancy.” This is why this act is genuinely evil. You could be ‘two weeks out from the date you had the sex that got you pregnant’ and be 6 weeks pregnant. It’s not likely, but it’s incredibly possible. If you miss a period, it hurts NOTHING to check immediately. Don’t wait. Waiting a single month after your missed period to test could mean you’re suddenly 10 weeks pregnant– or more.

Actually, hang on, I want to talk more–

I went to the aidaccess website. For some states, they can mail the medicine to you directly without a prescription. For others, they’ll do an online consult with a doctor to prescribe and then mail you the medicine.

The cost can be from $110-150.

When you first start the consult, you see this.

We want to look at the second option. Because these are shipped internationally, and as sited on the website due to covid delays, the medicine takes three to four weeks to reach you.

If you find out you are pregnant at six weeks, you must order immediately in order to do a pill abortion at home under the ten week window. However, it gives you the option to buy in advance. Both mifepristone and misoprostol tablets usually carry a 2-year shelf life. The price isn’t THAT much higher than Plan B.

I researched that on my own– the shelf life thing– but was incredibly pleased to see the aidaccess website got into it as well.

[Image text:  Advance provision 1. If you live in a place with a very restrictive abortion law, it can be helpful to have the medicines for a medical abortion in advance case of a future unwanted pregnancy.  In this case you should contact us again immediately when you find out that you are pregnant so that we can give you the proper guidance. Please check the expiration date when you received the medicines (most can be kept up to 2 years after receiving the package as long as they are kept at room temperature and in their original and undamaged blister packs. It is likely that they can be kept for even longer but their effectiveness cannot be guaranteed after that point. 

2.If you want the medicines because you had unprotected sex less than 5 days ago, you can still use emergency contraceptives!]

The aidacess website walks you through EVERY PART OF THIS.

If you have $150 to spare, this is potentially live-saving medication. If your current plan is to drive out of state, stay for three days at a hotel to maybe get an in-person abortion after listening to a heartbeat etc, please consider that cost versus this cost. It has a shelf life of two years. I’m considering buying some right now.

I am incredibly moved to know this option exists and am currently about to share it with every social media site I can.

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