important breakup update
i talked to my ex last week and we cleared the air
i made some angry posts a couple months ago that i've deleted
it turns out she didn't cross a boundary knowingly and it was genuinely a huge misunderstanding that hurt us both. (i also crossed a boundary of hers unknowingly)
we couldn't clear things up while we were no-contact, but we have now. we talked it out and we're still low-contact but are on good terms. this is the first step toward being friends again eventually
i've told her everything that bothered me during that time, and she's been honest with me too. we've both expressed our regrets for how certain things played out
if you had a bad opinion of my ex based on posts i've made, then i would ask you to please consider rethinking that. the situation was just a mess and emotions were running high. the sudden end of a four-year relationship is never going to be easy for either person