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@vonneggut / vonneggut.tumblr.com

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alright, I’m no longer going to be using this account

if you still want to reach me or follow me, my new main is @dubnyk

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Remaking

Hey! Just a heads up, this blog is going to be inactive pretty soon. I’m remaking so that I can have my hockey blog (dubnyk) as my main. I’ll be following people back over the next day or two (it’ll show up in your notifs as dubnyk-new until friday)

Thanks!

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vonneggut

Heads up for everyone following me here too

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PLEASE STOP GLORIFYING ALL-NIGHTERS. STOP MAKING "I WAS UP ALL NIGHT" AN ACHIEVEMENT. SLEEP IS IMPORTANT (ESPECIALLY FOR STUDENTS)! SLEEP, PEOPLE!

Even if it’s not a full 8-hour cycle, please sleep.

i havent slept in three years and im fine fuck this post

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motherhenna

Sleep is important!: cancer, pisces, capricorn, sagittarius, leo, taurus, libra

i haven’t slept in three years: aries, aquarius, scorpio, virgo, gemini

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The United States has declined visas to gay Chechens fleeing a wave of kidnappings, torture, and disappearances in the semi-autonomous Russian region, according to the organization Russia LGBT Network.

A group of around 40 Chechens are now in hiding in other parts of Russia, Russia LGBT Network spokesperson Svetlana Zakharova told BuzzFeed News, and are having difficulty securing visas that would allow them to flee the country.

Anyone interested in helping (in one of many ways, of course) should check out this organization (https://www.rainbowrailroad.ca/) which is making an effort to help LGBT men and women all around the world relocate to a safer place and they have a fundraiser directly for those being affected in Chechnya (https://www.facebook.com/donate/10156049730234746/).

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rip doesn’t even mean rest in peace anymore it’s just rip

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Male thot jobs.

Barber Dj Personal Trainer Plug Club Promoter Tattoo Artist Mechanic Foot Locker Fedex/UPS Photographer Warehouse Overnight Stocker @ Grocery Stores Construction Worker EMT Sprint/TMobile Comcast

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marisatomay

an adult who’s not related to me and doesnt know my parents: shows a marked interest in my future and cares about me as a person

me: 

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life is too hard. it’s too hard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i would like to be a cloud. 

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the spanking debate isn’t all that complicated. you’re either ok with hitting small kids who are completely defenseless and literally at your mercy, or you’re not. supporting the first option makes you a bad and dangerous person, and unfit to be a parent, and im sorry to say but there’s no way around this, no excuses or loopholes. it is what it is

I’ve told this story before and my clam chowder is getting cold but fuck it.

A couple years ago while I was working for a care center during my ece training - we had a big thing about spankings. We went around and asked children who were spanked how they felt about it and what it told them or how it made them feel.

Then when the parents were over, we anonymously read everything that was said by the children on how they view spankings and unanimously it was found that the children never saw it as a growing experience.

It was “painful” “really scary” “I thought mommy hated me now” and we often found it never actually TAUGHT the kids what they did wrong. in fact it seemed to teach them that at any moment your mommy or daddy would just haul up and smack you until you cried and said it was for your own good.

Needless to say I’m pretty sure we changed a lot of parents opinions on spanking and SHOCK OF SHOCKS actually TALKING to their children worked far better disiplinary

I even included my own story, pretending I was telling an outside story “well, I happened to know one person who’s mother only stopped spanking them cause they got tall and big real fast so they could fight back. so there’s a lot of intimidation and fear to your children.” and just - I’ll never forget the dawning look of realization on their faces

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hobbit-feels

The most common argument I hear is, “Look, my parents spanked me and I turned out fine.” Stolen from elsewhere on the internet but now my defult response:  “No you didn’t–you think it is okay to hit little kids.”

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