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~ HIΛTVS ~ RΛTIO DVCΛT, NON FORTVNΛ

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hiatus~~

Alright. I know this ain't news to most of you guys, but I'm on hiatus til I dunno I feel like coming back here (?)

For the past months or so I've been very active on my other blog (a kpop one so if you feel like geting spammed by tons of VIXX posts ~just follow~) and tbh I'm just spending most of my time over there rather than here.sorry.

So ye... I'll probably come back if deg guys announce some south american dates -I know it never ever gonna happen again. lbr. they fucking hated it here and I don't blame them :^)- Oh and before I go.. I'm really thankful to see that you guys are still here. Even though  I don't even come here as often as I should.omg imsuch a piece of shit :) ♥

#txt#ayyy k this is awkward#but i can't promise ill come back in a month#i mean i might come back like in two days#who knows
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dorkshiya replied to your post “Hey guys! Is anyone good with relationship advices? because I need…”

hmm idk if I’m good or bad at it but what’s your friend’s problem?

well basically she’s fighting a lot with her boyfriend… they’ve been fighting for quite a while but it’s getting worse and they both are my flatmates, so it’s hard not to hear them :/ but whenever I ask how things are she always says she’s happy and all, but sometimes I hear her crying… I’m really crap at these thing because I’ve never been in a relationship myself and I’m usually crap in general at comforting, but I’m a good listener and it pains me to see my friends like that.. How do you think I should approach her? :/

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Oh I see. I take her 'everything's fine' as a sign of her probably not wanting to open up about her issues but that doesn't necessarily means you, could be just in general or that she might not know how to ask for advice. You could try asking her about why she was crying or about them yelling like '/casual tone/ hey I heard you guys arguing/yelling is eveything alright?', like try sound as understanding as possible. Arguments and crying are part of any ~ordinary relationship~, at least to me. Being in a relationship could be compared as an emotional rollercoster. It has its up and downs gah that's such a lame metaphor. Arguments between two people are bound to happen, especially if you love that person -same could be said about anyone's relationship with their parents or friends- OFC I'm talking about arguments which revolve just yelling or slamming doors~ not cursing or violence, if she shows signs of being in an abussive relationship, that'd call for a different approach. Just try to make her know that you're here for her if she ever needs to talk to someone :>

#idk man#I hope this helps ???#replies#pandecho
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