block the wind i'm gonna roast this bone

guy who makes a spreadsheet to figure out if his crush likes him back

diversity loss this trans man is just as much of an emotionally unavailable avoidantly attached brick as any cis guy

he has a pussy yes but does he have a heart. post cancelled that sounds like a taylor swift lyric

my boy he has a pussy but he doesn't have a heart

he's playing games with me just like i'm mario from kart

i'm a published writer btw

the idealized version of my tomorrow self will fix this

not again

[guy who genuinely fucking loathes himself voice] well on account of my charming and endearing nature. Of course

(via Oscar Isaac Radiates Effortless Elegance in Brioni’s Spring/Summer 2024 Campaign by Josh Olins)

theyre cute as a couple but the follower gap between them is a little ..... uncomfortable??

not amab, not afab, but a secret third thing (afag)

one thing you’d have to hand it to the british. wanker is such a funny derogatory term to call someone. like don’t trust him bro I heard he’s always jerking his thang messystyle

“you're so quiet” bro i lost all my communication skills

passenger princess? No, I’m the passenger knight. I’ve sworn an oath of homoerotic loyalty to the driver and will protect them until my last breath. I will carry out her road rage. I’m why the front passenger seat is called shotgun

you can pet me btw im cute. im soft

Let’s work on communicating our insecurities and feelings instead of accusing our loved ones. Making accusations can damage our relationships and isn’t fair to our loved ones.

Try saying “I’m scared I’m going to be alone” instead of “you’re going to leave me like everyone else”.

Try saying “I’m sorry I hurt your feelings. I feel bad about it. Is there anything I can do to help make this better?” instead of “I’m such a failure and a bad person. You shouldn’t be friends with me anymore.”

Try saying “I’m feeling really alone lately. Can we talk more?” instead of “you never talk to me. You must not care about me.”

Our loved ones can’t read our minds. No matter how obvious it might seem to us that we’re struggling, it isn’t necessarily obvious to them. And there are any number of reasons that they might not notice, or might notice and not react (such as trying to respect that they think you don’t want to talk about it and will come to them when you’re ready.)

Your feelings are valid. Your insecurities are valid. But it’s better to deal with these by seeking reassurance in healthy ways or coping mechanisms like self-soothing instead of accusing those you love of bad intentions.

I got an ask about this and here’s a post I wrote about seeking reassurance in a healthy way.

And sometimes we can’t let go of the bad feelings in the second statements. And that’s okay. It’s okay to talk about them with the person to resolve them. But please do it in a healthy way like the examples in my longer seeking reassurance post and not in an accusing way.