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insatiably gay for a rich old tintin villain

@spiltcandycoatedpunkblood / spiltcandycoatedpunkblood.tumblr.com

// free Palestine 🇵🇸 and Ukraine 🇺🇦 // Evan/Jules/Tintin // your local 29 year old sad white queer aspec trans man (he/xe/ae) obsessed with Tintin, Doctor Who, music, villains, whump and guinea pigs // check out my pinned post for more info
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Hey!!! I'm Evan, a 29 year old white queer Australian who (unfortunately) lives in the UK.

I'm queer, aspec, gay, polyam and a trans man.

My pronouns are:

  • he/him/his/himself
  • xe/xem/xyr/xemself (pronounced zee/zem/zir/zemself)
  • ae/aev/aev/aevself (pronounced e/eve/eve/eveself)

Please mix and match them, thanks.

I am a trauma survivor who is ND, mentally ill & chronically ill; I have AuADHD, ocd, depression, anxiety (social and general), addiction, agoraphobia, trust issues, abandonment issues, dissociative traits, cptsd & coeliac disease. I heavily use music to cope with my multiple disorders and regard my headphones and Spotify as disability aids.

Special interest(s): Tintin, Doctor Who & guinea pigs.

Current hyperfixation(s): Sanders Sides (Thomas Sanders).

I post about stuff like:

  • queer issues
  • social issues in general
  • selfies, vents and general life updates
  • a lot about the adventures of tintin (mainly the 2011 film)
  • memes
  • neurodivergent and mentally ill issues
  • occasionally cute animals with absolute favourites of mine like cats and guinea pigs (and small mammals in general, but mainly guinea pigs)
  • my fanfiction from ao3 under kivancalcite
  • my favourite music (feel free to talk about music with me)
  • my fictional male crushes, usually villains
  • occasional media and film analysis that may devolve into passionate rants

What I don't tolerate whatsoever and will block you on sight as a result:

  • the basic dni criteria (racist, misogynistic, antisemitic, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, classist, xenophobic, fatphobic attitudes)
  • claiming that 'narcissistic abuse' is a real thing and believing that having a personality disorder inherently makes you a terrible person
  • abuse apologism and victim blaming
  • defending people like d*pp and spacey and other abusers/paedophiles/rapists
  • defending the british monarchy
  • being a fucking tory and/or brexiteer (let's be honest, you're usually both)
  • defending justice system institutions such as the police force (acab)
  • defending the military, its propaganda, and insidious recruitment techniques
  • being a paedophile/map/pear, whatever the fuck you like to call yourselves
  • being a terf/radfem/gender critical/transmedicalist
  • being a nazi/neo-nazi/white supremacist/proud boy/anything to fucking do with fascist ideologies
  • supporting putin's attack on the ukraine and the idea that we should stop supporting and funding ukraine
  • supporting israel over palestine and ignoring the media silence and suppression of the atrocities against the latter
  • supporting ukraine's efforts but not palestine's
  • defending the capitalist system
  • in turn, also defending communist regimes and shouting down survivors of them and their atrocities
  • being a genocide denier
  • being a pro-life/anti-choicer (from a pro-choice and pro-abortion person)
  • being a proshipper and trying to justify paedophilic, racist and incestuous ships
  • being into true crime that romanticises and sexualises actual murderers and serial killers and dismisses the actual victims and their families
  • being someone who actively profits off of others' trauma and abuse for entertainment

I also have my trauma/mental illness/abuse blog that is more specifically about those things I have experienced and continue to experience, which is @traumacodedtransbitch, which can be far more triggering and violent just so you know.

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yaoiboypussy

Can someone tell me where these feminine trans guys with massive tits who wear push-up bras and skimpy outfits that I keep seeing transphobes complain about are? I’d love to see massive tboy boobs.

Please can transphobes stop gatekeeping the tboys with massive breasts who wear glam makeup . Plsss tell me where you met these people . They sound awesome .

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queerautism

Transphobes trying to create a caricature of a trans person, every time: Okay so imagine this extremely hot cool person right-

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thottacelli

Another aspect of the Gaza Genocide that I want to talk about is the complicity of Internet banking and crowdfunding websites like GoFundMe.

I have seen multiple Gazans raise enough money to leave for Egypt, but the banks and the crowdfunding websites freeze their money or cancel their funds for "suspicious activity" or whatever. Every day that passes in Gaza supplies get more scarce, conditions get more deadly, and the price to cross into Egypt gets more expensive. I've seen people, like ghost-90 here on Tumblr, raise the full amount to get their entire family out of Gaza, but their money gets frozen for so long that the original goal is only a fraction of the price now needed to cross the boarder.

These financial institutions should not be allowed to get away with contributing to the death toll in Gaza. They are intentionally keeping people trapped in a kill zone by withholding money that is rightfully theirs.

I'm so pissed and angry that every avenue for relief for Palestinians is being cut of left and right. It is vile that Gazans are being extorted for 10s of thousands of dollars by the Egyptian gov just to save their family's lives, but even when they play by this corrupt game, the world still finds a way to make them suffer.

My heart is with every Palestinian for the rest of time, from river to sea you will all be free. 🇵🇸❤️

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i can’t believe this is happening… i’ve been thinking of the al-shifa siege for the past five six days and it has literally made me sick. when will this end?

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it is so incredibly sad to constantly see kids on instagram and tiktok who are younger than my brother have to literally beg for shelter, food, water, medicine, and their right to exist as human beings

i mean, this young girl is only ten years old, yet she is essentially responsible for convincing random people scrolling through instagram that her and her family’s life are worth fighting for

on top of that, their gofundme is not even 10% funded and time is running out, please if you can’t donate, just share

please don’t let this little girl die begging

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It's like, people are revealing that they've never actually wanted Ryan and Shane to move past Buzzfeed, they wanted them confined and they've never gave a single fuck about Steven. They don't care about them as people

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sinloi

They're not real people to them just content farms and how dare they not get free entertainment! As fans they're entitled to getting whatever they want for free free free

People have lost the plot on this shit. Sure criticism is valid, as a fan you have a right to feel upset over this, but now people are making up nonsense rumors with numbers that they’ve pulled out of their asses to justify their nasty behavior.

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kkujo

i just saw someone describe a disabled person as "someone with beautiful abilities" i cannot do this anymore

god can we stop softening the term "disabled". disabled isn't a dirty word. it's not "special abilities" or "differently abled" or whatever the fuck you want to call it. people have disabilities that cause life to be hard and there's nothing wrong with acknowledging that?? it feels so invalidating when people are like "ohh you're not disabled!!! you have special abilities!!" like. omg a) it feels so infantilizing. b) by saying that you're basically saying our struggles aren't real...? some conditions are disabling. it's not hard to understand?? like there is NOTHING wrong with being disabled & using the word disabled. it's not offensive it's not a dirty word can we take the shame out of it pls oh my god. this goes for physical & non physical disabilities btw

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icedsodapop

Taps the sign:

There’s a habit that people have of deflecting when a creator or celebrity gets revealed as a creep, or they mess up in some way that’s harmful. One of the main ways that they do this is by uplifting their own celebrity fave through some version of “stan ____ for clear skin” or “see, if you stanned _____, you wouldn’t have this problem because they’re unproblematic.” Sometimes they even drop lists of supposedly “unproblematic” creators in a given fandom or genre as if to say, “I was able to spot the bad person before you guys did… follow these good people instead.”

Yeah, begging people to stop using the term 'unproblematic' especially. Putting people on a pedestal and then getting mad when they screw up as if these people should somehow be above reproach is the completely wrong idea.

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