If you cheat on someone, you’re horrible.
Point blank period. If you are in a monogamous relationship and you willfully choose to go behind your partner’s back, you’re horrible.
Please don’t give me any bullshit about it being “a mistake“. Stepping on somebody’s foot is a mistake. Cheating is a series of conscious choices. I’m not even saying a person can’t learn from it and not be the same kind of person that they used to be, but the path to that redemption is not shrugging off responsibility by calling it “a mistake” or asking people not to shame you for it.
Don’t fucking cheat.
you can cheat on people and it be a mistake. it’s not always a conscious choice.
Bull Shit.
Did you trip and fall on a dick? Did you slip on a puddle into a vagina? No?
Then it wasn’t a fucking mistake. Newsflash: if you consciously and willingly had sex with someone, it was a conscious choice.
And if you really think you “can’t control it”? DON’T GET IN A FUCKING RELATIONSHIP.
Cheating isn't just one mistake... it's a series of mistakes that lead up to the one gigantic one. Do not try to romanticize it nor defend it. It hurts people, destroys them. I am petrified to talk to women because of she did to me...