Little life update 03/27/23
Official 1 month until my birthday. It's been some time, guys and here's an update for anyone that was following my maniac posting a few months ago. Sorry about that.
I had a bad health episode that later resulted in a bad period of mental health. I worked myself too hard last year and didn't listen to my body. I display pain differently (that's on trauma, bb!), and it took some time to return to my doctor for tests. It was hard listening to how my body was impacted by both working/studying and the end of my relationship.
I think I mentioned here that I was going on a uni-sponsored trip to Italy in July '22. According to my doc, I was flying on pure adrenaline the entire time, and if covid didn't knock me out for a week, then let's just say it would have been bad. I'll post some good things about that time since I haven't even looked at the photos and memories I made yet.
Right now, I'm just dealing with emotional regulation (I get teary really quickly now wtf).
It's been strange processing the emotions I was feeling when I got sick. It's like things went on pause for me. But not others. Two months ago, I woke up like breaking from a fever and everything reset. I owe it to keeping to a schedule, taking care of my health and dedicating time to things I loved to do in my teens, like making short videos.
I got into several master's programs across Canada and also (!) an English-language program in Dhaka in case my ex felt a call home. Ride or die, bb. Quite literally. Yep.
Going on a lot of solo dates, and I HATE them. I'm a social person, and this shit only flies in Europe.
But, oh my goodness, If I could tell younger myself that one day you will have so many acquaintances that you will forget what you told who and where and that your schedule would be so booked with the amazing things you are doing and that you wear your heart on your sleeve and that you LOVED and were LOVED.
I graduate in June. see you on the flip side.
MISS YOU. WANT TO GET NOODLES WITH YOU. DISREGARD THIS, After Gabrielle Calvocoressi, by Lev St. Valentine
my favorite emotion is when someone does something kinda foolish and all you can say is “i love you” in response
“When you made that forever-promise, you lived in a moment so full it offered you a perch to glimpse the rest of your lives. That is a gift.”
Steven Yeun shot by Hyea W. Kang for GQ Korea (2022)
Shannon Cartier Lucy (American, 1977) - Adrienne's Apple (2019)
天若有情 | A Moment of Romance
The Sorrow Festival, Erin Slaughter
“If, despite relentless blue, despite snow, you dared to hold me / and I dared to be held”
— — Aria Aber, from “Inventory of Lost Conditionals,” Hard Damage
Planning on a solo NYC or Montreal Christmas this year.
when you find someone who accepts you the way you are, that's home.
Hector and Jan Carlos Diaz by Bruno Staub – WSJ Magazine