I love Tom Hiddleston. I love Taylor Swift. Now listen up.

I’m an 18 year old woman with her own opinion that y’all are being incredibly petty and selfish. 

I’ve tried to stay out of this because I can’t handle the stupidity, but I’ve finally had enough. Here are some things you need to consider the next time you’re about to throw a hissy fit over Tom and Taylor.

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1. First of all, both of these individuals are adults who can do whatever the hell they want. 

GASP. 

I know, shocking right? 

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2. You do not have the right to condemn Taylor for being a “slut” or a “man hunter”. She is a woman with all the same rights as you. Y’all can’t call yourselves feminists who believe in abortion and Marvel’s need to hire more superhero women and then turn around and do this. It’s hypocritical and wrong. And if you had her talent (and if you want to bitch about her not having talent, check out her Grammys), you would say you could date whoever she wants too.

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3. Taylor is a lovely person. I had the great honor and privilege to briefly meet her during her “Red” tour in 2012. I was 14 at the time, and completely in love with her. She made me feel special and loved, and treated me like a little sister. She genuinely loves fans, and does things like surprise them, write inspiring messages to them, write a song about a 4 year old little boy named Ronan who died of cancer, and stand up for women everywhere. Not to mention she isn’t afraid to get out there and be herself.

Sound familiar?

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4. You do not have the right to condemn Tom for his “recent behavior”. He has an amazing career so far because of his talent and his hard work. Admire that. And about that photo shoot, you do realize that he didn’t go out and shoot that series right after he started dating Taylor, right? It was during The Night Manager press series. The article was probably typed much closer to release though. The car in NYC? Who the hell cares? Taylor was probably just being nice, and maybe the car happened to be in NYC, maybe not. Does it matter? Also, who the hell cares if he went to a Selena Gomez concert? Selena, like Taylor, is a lovely person and performer, and Tom is probably trying to get to know Taylor’s friends, just like any good boyfriend. They’re having fun. LET THEM HAVE FUN WITHOUT BEING PETTY AND RIDICULOUS. 

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5. Be happy for them. Relationships in the spotlight are hard enough. Having their own fans turn against them is the last thing they need. 

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6. Be considerate. Does nobody remember the fact that Anton Yelchin just passed, that Tom was close to him, and that maybe he’s having a difficult enough time with coping with the loss of his friend without his fans- and the media- being bullshit toward him?

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7. 2016 sucks enough without you guys making it worse. We need to be concentrating on LGBT rights and defense, gun laws, gender gap, shipping Trump to Siberia, and other actually important issues. 

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8. Do critique the headlines. Objectifying Tom and slut-shaming Taylor is ridiculous. The media is insane. So make a difference. Say something about it. Defend Tom, Taylor, or both. If you’re a fan, act like it instead of a toddler throwing a hissy fit. 

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9. Be supportive. Taylor just had the biggest tour in like, ever. Tom is about to go to Australia to film Loki. SHOULDN’T WE BE EXCITED ABOUT THAT? 

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10. If you’re not going to be supportive, or at least silently fuming, or at least respectfully stating your opinion, then shut up. 

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11. I’m not saying you should love this. It’s like some people love Clintasha and some people like Bruce and Natasha (okay, maybe not, but pretend they do). Some people like Stucky, some people like Cap and Stark. It’s okay if Tom and Taylor aren’t your OTP or the ship you will go down with. However, it is not okay to start overly condemning, accusing, and hyperventilating over something that should not be hyperventilated over. 

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12. If you’re a real fan of Taylor’s, you will continue to support her. 

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13. If you’re a real fan of Tom’s, you will continue to support him. 

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Sierra out. 

Shipping Trump to Siberia? Why would you do that to the people of Siberia? Choose somewhere with almost no population, like Antarctica.

On the real subjecct though.... I completely agree. Even though I am guilty of reacting like a bitch when I saw the pics of Tom and Taylor, I will keep supporting Tom because I adore him, no matter who he dates.

reblog if you don’t mind shipping with an rp partner who doesn’t smut.

I really miss my boyfriend right now 

So do I

nothing is worse than wanting to cuddle but not being able to cuddle

When you overhear a guy flirting with a girl and she says “no thanks I’m gay”

I DON’T EVEN REALLY IDENTIFY WITH THIS BUT THE GIF IS SO AMAZING I HAVE TO REBLOG

Anything outside of asexual, homosexual, bisexual, and heterosexual are made up bullshit.

Being transgender doesn’t allow for anything beyond male or female. Brainwave patterns in neuroscience show this.

Unless you’re using being otherkin as a means of coping, being otherkin does make you crazy.

Headmates aren’t real and you dipshits are trivializing mental illnesses.

Saying you have depression or anxiety or OCD or whatever fake ass mental illness/disability for the sake of it doesn’t make you cool or give you brownie points. It just makes you a loser.

Saying “feminism isn’t a hate movement, look up the definition” doesn’t excuse the actions of feminists. The means don’t justify the ends.

Black lives matter spits in the face of the civil rights movement. MLK Jr is spinning in his grave.

White guilt and self flagellating yourselves for the actions of your ancestors is retarded. The only reason people are in a hub bub about what white people did is because they were intelligent enough and technologically more advanced than everyone else to do evil efficiently. Every other race would’ve done the same thing. No one’s hands are free of blood.

Amen.

IF YOU STUDY FRENCH, LISTEN UP:

 Bon Patron will save your life. 

What is it?

What does it look like?

What’s it do?

What do I do with it?

hummelmummel

French is my first language and I have to tell you, this thing is GENIOUS.

Reblog if your character has killed someone

Kitty isn’t quite awake is he

Aw, thanks @holypreachercurls! ❤️ Hugs to @thehufflepufflifts @proteinpuff @aubernutter @tayyliana @sunalwaysshining @stayhungry-stayfree @travisvsworld @luke-at-me-fitness @brandibanana

I was tagged by both @thefitavenger and @sneakzfitness!! I want to send hugs to @foxerica, @thehufflepufflifts, @baelsberry, @lordbates, @lord–swoledemort, @adulthaircut, @bbbenwilliamson, @aubernutter, @homofitsual, @jtallornothing, @athleticeq, @abiliteas, @geek-gym-fitblr, @s-assysquats, @zazaxo !!

sdjflksdjfs sobs because I adore @travisvsworld so much. if you’re not following this lovely creature, please do.

sending hugs to @authorkurikuri (yay, you’re back!), @queerleighyours, @loserchildhotpants, @transsterek, @bucky-caps, @bleep0bleep, @queerlyalex, @sleepy-skittles, @neongenesisevangaylion, @bealen, @tryingtofindthegreatperhaps, @banshee-cheekbones, @chofee, @screwitanddoitanyway, @crossroadswrite, @savingbarton, @queerkira, @maliayukiimura, @allirica @petals42 @letoliverlive @dude-its-bcn-hlls and just everyone. I love you all.

this is such a sweet thing thank you @foxerica right back at you hon

my cutest marshmallows @pale-silver-comb @darthronan @loveactually-rps @carrionofmywaywardson @such-hella @commandercatbug @iamderekhale @sterekfluffer @authorkurikuri @stilesinwonderland @agenthale @nothingtoseeherejustmovealong @cutthissmilefromeartoear @stilinskihaleworld @sourwolfsboyfriend @eeyore9990 @interruptingpanda @lena221b @smightymcsmighterton @prettythinker @nbvengers @bistiles @hoechlinslapsdylansbutt @halekingsourwolf 

oops alright thats over ten better stop here

*gathers you all up in my arms and squeezes* I love you all so much. I would tag everyone, but I’m going to stick to 10 (and try not to retag anyone…eep). @badwolfbadwolf, @dizzilytwirling, @goddessofcruelty, @snarry4ever, @bashfyl, @amaryllisrose, @bootsnblossoms, @quicklikelight, @fanficsagogo, @muchfic-manypair

*hugs* @ohmysterekheart @amethystshipper @kitstiles @bleep0bleep @literaryoblivion @loserchildhotpants @eeyore9990 @badwolfbadwolf @felicitysmock @greenbergsays @kedreeva

Tagged by @bashfyl thank you darling! So many hugs to @missisnorris, @one-with-the-wolf, @creativehale, @haleseggroll, @samwinchestrash, @maudlinghost, @dinosaurstripes, @pale-silver-comb, @hailtohale and @derek-x-stiles Love you all!

Tagged by the lovely @ohmysterekheart and sends great big tumblr hugs to @ohmysterekheart, @dictacontrion, @dogparkmicrocosm, @sea-of-cloudss, @humanoid-lady, @galen18, @malfoyishpotter, @drarryking, @kellykristens, you guys are all so amazing and such great blogs I can’t believe you’re even following my nonsense!

Tagged by the charming @dinosaurstripes! Thank you ♥♥♥

I hug my lovely little @nicniny, @psychoticcoven, @girmlyfraspit, @drhanniballecter, @arystai, @j0midnight, @hannigrammatic, @todaywestumble, @idjitproofwings, @nanigrapeseed

AHHH! Hugged by the lovely @sea-of-cloudss ♥♥♥♥

Hugging: @homogotikusindustrialis @taeaelin @curveofherthroat @but-the-kid-is-not-my-son @mummyholmesisupset @crazyquilt @chaosordoffl @karomel-the-prompt-angel @derse-rowdy-monster (AND SO MANY OTHER PEOPLE I CAN’T, I JUST WOKE UP BUT I LOVE YOU ALL FOLLOWING ME)

eeeeEEEEeee-eeee squeeze-hugs @hannigrammatic back <333 (*JUMPS ON YOUR BED, THROWS SOME JELLY SNAKES IN THE AIR* =DD)

Sending some hugs and silliness to @theshockinglyeloquentdog  @nigellecter @samui-sakura88  @pope417 @feathertail @acemattmrdck @dark-will-graham  @chocolate-scissors-and-corn, @bunburyist101 @momenttoosoon I adore your blogs, thank you always for making me smile!!

thank you so much @taeaelin ! ^_^ *hugs you back*

Many hug(h)s and cookies and love to @fitzskyees @metaphysicalcannibal @azuresky2011 @hannipunk @hannifreddiegraham @consultingmurderhusbands @realityn @horrormovielovestory @dark-will-graham @eranomi @homohannibal @pastalava @221bhangover @hanilecter @ohgodthisismydesign @abloodredsettingsun @between-mads-and-hugh @awesomelittlemau  @aviran007 @lol-smiley-face-x-x-hug and i would tag more people but that’s already wayyyy more than 10. i love all of you <3 

Thank you so muchh!! Love you too ♥♥ Also @but-the-kid-is-not-my-son @prmavera @majesticaljeff @ahighlyfunctioningcannibal @hannimemethecannimeme @wallsofgoo @hannihumor @homoette @whiskeyandflesh @bu0nanotte @bluetinsel @hammblwllgrhm @hannibaeandgrahamcracker @iamnotswarley @allegralovelace & everyone else - You are all amazing! (◕‿◕✿)

THANK YOUUUU @hannipunk *hugs tightly* Tagging @crossroadscastiel @ahighlyfunctioningcannibal @willneverbeordinary @granpappy-winchester @existingcharactersdiehorribly @amarriageoftrueminds @moku-youbi @warpedchyld @icanhelpgoodwill @darkdreamsofhannigram

i got a hug from my dearest @bu0nanotte and one from @aviran007 *hugs you both back* and I’m tagging @warpedchyld @willsfaceismydesign @thefan-girldiaries @anorexorcist13 @ahighlyfunctioningcannibal @chnandler-bong3 @crossroadscastiel @wecouldbesomuchmorethanweare @betterwhenitsraining @mads-turbation @sirenja-and-the-stag @fiveocock @shellofduality @nectar-and-aliens @gwilbs @get-your-ass-in-the-impala @moku-youbi @but-the-kid-is-not-my-son @snowlantern @revnickie and fine that’s more than ten but screw it everybody get’s a hug!

Thanks to @hannipunk, @bu0nanotte and @willneverbeordinary for the hugs! *Hugs back* Sending some love to @madethiscozofhannibal @comic-bucky @hannihumor @color-division @howishughdancyevenpossible @whatkindofcrazy @sirenja-and-the-stag @drinkbloodlikewine @hanilecter and everybody else! Share the hugs and keep spreading the love. :)

oh my gosh, this could get ridiculous pretty fast…I’m just doing this off the top of my head :D

@sherlocks-freebitch, @lovecrimevariations, @willneverbeordinary, @yodalicious, @triad-anon, @crossroadscastiel, @howishughdancyevenpossible, @lonewombatking, @color-division, @bu0nanotte, @but-the-kid-is-not-my-son, @hannigrammatic, @existingcharactersdiehorribly, @the-winnowing-wind, @whreflections

:D This is such an awesome idea; I love things that foster fandom positivity and friendship <3  So I was tagged by @moku-youbi and @but-the-kid-is-not-my-son and I love you both and would put you on this list, so that tag also counts as your hug back tag :D aaaand I’m going to add…God, more than ten probably but okay so

@awesometeapanda, @jgadd1, @thealienonbroadway, @tseecka, @thekinkyswitch, @hannigramandromancek, @happy-haptic-lacuna, @kuguli, @lovecrimevariations, @emungere, @fricknfracklover85, @alixrianne, @prolixlyndz, @oddlydrawntransformer

and just, ALL OF YOU.  I love all of you; hugs all around <3  

Right back atcha, @whreflections! Tagging @klaine4everz, @brethewriter, @justasadtrashhobo, @caffeinatedfeminist, @jessitheblonde, @saturnsrings, @cakeisnotpie, and every single one of my followers. *giant hugs*

Aww, thank you, @thealienonbroadway! You always give the best hugs. <3

Passing the hugs along to @silvertempest, @ricechex, @thehappyfangirl, @threepwillow, @nerodeniro, @lalala-broadway, @lonestarmeowmix, @taurustash, @mckirk-jorian, @stopcallingmeapollo, and really every last one of you because you are all amazing and thank you for putting up with me.

@somefandomsandpuns, @kittensandbubbles, @book-stargirl, @sunnyhearts80, @comedancewithmezane, @brethewriter, @timmythebouncybunny, @karlurbanismycopilot,

Awww, thank you @lonestarmeowmix!

@banana-cupcake-harry, @thegermanpanic, @laughingirisheyes, @jmp7095, @feowyn, @sawahbodien, @esauriti, @twentyone-cronas and the rest of my lovely followers.

Thank you @book-stargirl 💋 @inconocible @mahmah-tee @marivela14 @andruargentina @sarabeth72 @inrenneridotrust @bendupeveryspirit @grgoyldef2 @feowyn @mindfluffy @sgtwhiskersnhappytoaster @be-thou-brave and so many more!!!

Thanks @jmp7095. @upgradedanxiousstate @lovefrenchladyrennerious @bendupeveryspirit @sarabeth72 @andruargentina @goddessforloki

Awe thank you @marivela14 . @audlie45 @mycroftisme @sigridlaufeyson @raestickler @ferteamo88 @tinaferraldo @hallotom

Aww yay!!! Thank you @goddessforloki ☺️☺️ @kathrynbjordahl @scribbling–away @perclexed @thatsthat24 @jazz-the-autobot @ancientfinnishgoddess @tinaferraldo @little-red-83 @sarabeth72 @mrshiddelston

Thank you @audlie45 and @scribbling–away 💕 Spreading the love @the-lady-mischief @peskipixi @angryschnauzer @cologneanon @godsaveloki @annedeadly @thefallenangelwithoutwings @prplprincez @lokaneship @feelmyroarrrr

Oh wow! Love ya much @ancientfinnishgoddess. @mighty-thundering-lord @acebakes @my-achilles–heel @godsaveloki @the-haven-of-fiction @lokaneship @loricameback @fresh-hell-mel @frenchfrostpudding @calgal48

I needed this @prplprincez with that in mind @larouau12, @catedevalois, @acebakes, @missviolethunter, @crescent-moon-rising, @angryschnauzer, @hiddlestonluvr, @lolawashere, @damageditem, @bendupeveryspirit and @maevecurrywrites.

I think I was tagged in this the other day by @marivela14, and I forgot to get on that and so @calgal48, tagged me, so I should probably get on with this. Thank you to both of you for thinking of me. I am not real good at this stuff, so I will tag a few folks, @legion-567, @jossisgod, @larouau12, @ladywyldfire, @ladyoftheteaandblood, @catedevalois, @sarabeth72, @the-haven-of-fiction, @ancientfinnishgoddess, @eve1978, @just-call-me-mrs-captain, (for her amazing Chris Evans stuff), @jmp7095, I know there are others and if you have already been tagged, just know that means you are well-loved. :)

I was tagged by @scribbling–away and @bendupeveryspirit.  I’m going to tag @allthatsjess @lokislittlediva @pedeka @stripeycatt @izhunny @jossmayfair @pinknoonicorn @runningamokwithanaxe @my-achilles–heel @myfavouritelunatic @writernotwaiting @zorped

How lovely!! I was tagged by @jossisgod, @magnetobsessed79, and @lolawashere. Tagging @siyoteodiara, @calgal48, @itsyinky, @xdelayedgratification, @justdreamingalone, @micaleann, @october-green, @tribecaanon, @myabsolutebliss, @808-anon, @smittentomkitten, @lokisgoldengoddess…

…and anyone who reads this, really - you’re all awesome! *MUAH!*

Haha! Thank you @zorped , I’m so glad to have been invited into this! *Cuddles.* I hug… @50-shades-of-laufeyson , @weeabooper , @greengirl888 , @theelegantdivaa , @glindaskywalker , @wickedrum , @tomstinkerbell , @bitchycursedbrokenandmagic , @chris-evans-shipping , @can-you-get-lokid , @doritosluts Even though I may not speak to some of you, all of you have amazing blogs that make tumblr great and fun for me. Thank you all so much for following me! *Hug*

I-I’m someone’s favourite? Woah *-* So uh... @yourdarkdamsel @onbeamsoflight @layathedarkone @crashing-midgard @cuddlesthehiddles @torture-for-the-insane @eternal-winter-soldier @angelinaquinn @chaos-and-cunning @bashthecorgi Most of you are my dearest tumblr friends, the last few ones are blogs I rped with and the last one wins the award of the cutest corgi ever

Our Yuletide Tale || Amora and Ethan

Hela frowned. “I miss Mommy too…” She said quietly. “But Uncle Thor says that I need to smile to get presents…”

“I’m sure you mommy would have wanted you to smile and enjoy the day. It’s Christmas after all!”

Hela looked at him. “I’ll try… But what if Daddy doesn’t smile? Will he not get presents?” She asked, frowning. She wanted her daddy to get gifts too.

Ethan sughed “He will smile very soon. I promise you.”

Hela nodded. “Okay…” Amora smiled and got changing into her celebration robes. “Come on you two, we have a celebration to go to.“

Ethan nodded happily “Let’s go!”

Amora smiled and took Hela from him. “I’ll get Loki for you, if you want to wait.”

Ethan had a nervous sigh, but then he nodded. He was ready.

Under the Mistletoe || Closed rp

Adam smiled. “Thanks Ethan.” He said before setting it aside where it wouldn’t get broken again.

Ethan smiled widely “It’s nothing”

Adam smiled at him. “So, need help with those lights?”

Ethan smiled and then nodded. The lights were impossibly tangled.