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@thebaeblogs / thebaeblogs.tumblr.com

Bae is a 22-year old Manila girl who is passionate about many things - a few of them being blogging, fitness, and throwing kindness to strangers and friends alike, like confetti. This blog is intended to share raw posts on life, love, and everything else cute and real - none of those perfectly curated photos and killer selfies for triple-numbered likes. Bae keeps it real here and professional over her other blog: thebaeblogs.com. šŸ™ƒ She's currently juggling the freelance writer + passionate blogger life. For collaborations, blog beautifying suggestions or simply to say hi, send her a love letter here: bpc_milanes@yahoo.com.
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šŸŒ¼ Peaā€™s 2nd GiveawayĀ šŸŒ¼

Hi beautiful people! Itā€™s been almost a year since I did my first giveaway and that was the time I reached a thousand followers. It was a milestone for someone like me who never really thought she could share her love for the arts by becoming a blogger seven years ago. This time, this is just a giveaway to show how much I appreciate you. No special occasions. Just you and I, celebrating the loveliness of our cyber existence here in the Tumblr universe. šŸŒæ

Of course, this giveaway wouldnā€™t be possible without the loving help of my sister, Celine, owner of Happy Daily PH & Books to Love. So s/o to you, ate! Thank you for believing in me. šŸŒŸ

Without further ado here is the giveaway!

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Yesterday, @jeccarrillo and I joined a special tour at the Destileria Limtuaco Museum. In celebration of #ManilaDay, they opened the museum for 90+ guests despite it not being open to the public *yet*. This is one of the photos I took during the tour. I'm guessing these are the old bottles where they stored the spirit. šŸ¤”

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About 3 weeks ago, I went out with @earthloveskin. We attended this videography workshop where @shodensan taught us A LOOOOT of things. Then we had a late lunch and discussed my blog's progress. I had this vision and she gave me that push. I may not have 100% accomplished what I wanted to do, but I still found a "look" that really works and speaks for me. And I'm so glad she gave me that push. She's my #1 enabler when it comes to my visions and goals. ā¤ļø Blah blah aside, I'm launching #thebaeblogs new look. ā˜ŗļø I also have 2 new blog posts waiting for you. Ahhh, now I feel so driven to blog more! Show her some love! thebaeblogs.com

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Escolta Doggo #ManilaDay šŸ‡µšŸ‡­

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Escolta Tour tomorrow! šŸ‡µšŸ‡­ Have you registered yet? More info on my previous Instagram photos. šŸ“Œ

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Confession: in 24 years, this is my first time to cook pancakes. šŸ„ž

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Hey, guys! I noticed I have a couple of friends who are always interested in going to Escolta but never have the time to do so. And I always tell them that there's always something happening in Escolta. And it's true! So now I'm gonna plug once again. Hehe! šŸ¤“ Escolta's holding a tour this Saturday (June 24th) - primarily diving into the history of the famous heritage buildings, some tales of intrigue in what once the country's center of commerce and industry, and, of course, the current efforts being done in reviving Escolta and promoting its conservation. A Php 300 fee will be charged - this is inclusive of museum tickets, tour fee, and snacks. šŸ‡µšŸ‡­ For more info, contact Kat Candelaria at 09776505873 or register here: http://bit.ly/2sU3Ssr. šŸ“

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I love discovering phone apps since I'm on my phone 24/7! I'd like to introduce this new app in the country: #PeraSwipe. You can read the full article on my blog (thebaeblogs.com). Oh, and if you're thinking of trying this out yourself, you can refer me! Use my ID: thebaeblogs. āœ”ļø

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Not an entirely pretty picture but this is one of the best days I've had. I spent 18 hours outdoors. It was the most tired I've ever felt in my life but also the most fulfilled. I saw Traslacion for the first time, braved the nasty crowd, met ancestral home heirs, and learned from the experts. This was taken at around 10 pm. We spent dinner + a few more hours in this ancestral home (Padilla's if I'm not mistaken) but waited for a few more hours for the Salubong. It was so exhausting. I could have slept in Sir Paul Iturralde's couch and not notice everyone else has already left. During this post-dinner talk, I could barely keep my eyes open. I couldn't absorb anything anymore and I was already running low on patience. But again, it was so fulfilling. I went home tired with a lot of stories to tell. Indeed, #squadgoals. šŸ‡µšŸ‡­ #BaeExploresManila #ManilaExplorer

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Shoutout to all the girls who canā€™t afford the life styles and everything else they see on tumblr and Instagram. You donā€™t need anything materialistic to be worthy and you donā€™t need expensive make up and clothes to be seen as beautiful. You are beautiful and I love you.

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20ā€²s Sex

Sexually Exploring In Your 20ā€™s: What They Donā€™t Tell You About Hooking Up

Ashamed. This is how I feel for the most part. I donā€™t even know how to begin to tell my story. But I will tell you this ā€“ I havenā€™t gone to hell and back but it sure was a test for me ā€“ physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

I couldnā€™t pinpoint what was wrong but I knew something was. I was looking for something I was unsure of. I had this certain craving in the pit of my stomach and I wish I knew then that it wasnā€™t a physical craving. I wish I knew then that, indeed, two wrongs donā€™t and never will make a right.

It wasnā€™t a death or life situation for me but Iā€™m still ashamed to have undergone that phase. Luckily for me, I realized the consequences of my actions before the wound got deeper and the damage got bigger.

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I am currently hooked on watching #makeup tutorials on YouTube and watching this girl show her possessions and problem-free (at least from the many videos I've watched so far), I'm glad I have my problems and that I have to deal with them and nobody else should. Because they're mine. It's humbling to know my experiences are not of others, they're mine. I didn't have a perfect life, oh dang, no, but that imperfect life molded me to be tounger, to be stronger, to be more mindful of myself, of my craft, to be kinder to myself and to strangers. Wow, that #vlog sure made me realize things. Btw, here's an insanely awesome photo of the sunset I took hours ago. šŸ’•

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Actual good first-time college student advice:

  • Wear jeans/pants that ā€œbreatheā€ and bring a sweater, even if itā€™s scorching hot out, until you know which building blasts the AC to 60 degrees F and which feels like a sauna
  • Backpacks with thick straps are your friend!Ā  Messenger bags are cool and all but if youā€™re commuting with a lot of stuff, symmetrically styled backpacks are better for your back
  • You are your own person and you can walk out whenever you need to or want to, so long as youā€™re not disrupting the class.Ā  Meaning you can go to the bathroom without permission, take a breather if youā€™re anxious, answer an important phone call, etc.
  • If you donā€™t like the class on the first day, if you can- DROP THAT CLASS AND TAKE ANOTHER ONE!Ā  Itā€™ll only get worse from there!
  • If you can, take a class outside your major; itā€™s a good break from your expected studies.
  • You are in charge of your schedule.Ā  Your adviser and guidance counselor is there to ā€˜advise and guideā€™ but if you donā€™t like certain classes and you can substitute for others, thatā€™s your choice.
  • Consequently, if you are changing anything drastic in your plan, talk with your adviser and instructors.
  • Pay attention to your credit hours and grades. Ā Never leave this to the last week of school, you will be sorry and stressed beyond belief!
  • Unless itā€™s a lab book or otherwise specified, go to the class for a week or so before buying an expensive textbook.Ā  Some classes, while having it on their required list, do not actually use the textbook a whole lot and you might find some of it scanned online.Ā  Rent if you can or buy used online (schools actually donā€™t give discounts).Ā  Use your best judgement on what you think you need.
  • Tell the people who go up to you selling or advertising things you are not interested in that you are in a rush to class and donā€™t have time to listen to them.Ā  Itā€™s less rude and theyā€™ll leave you alone.
  • The smaller the class, the better it is to have some sort of acquaintanceship with a couple classmates.Ā  They might save your ass if you are absent one day or need to study.Ā  And talking with them makes the time go by faster without it being so insufferable.
  • You donā€™t need to join a club or sport, but internships are cool and useful!
  • If you can afford it, take a day off once or twice each semester if youā€™re too exhausted.Ā  Just be aware of what you missed and if it was worth missing!
  • Your health is the most important, this goes for mental health too!!Ā  Note: College-age/upper teens is when mental disorders like depression and anxiety are most commonly diagnosed.Ā  Most schools have therapy services, especially during exam time.Ā  Look into it if you need to!
  • Communicate with your professor if you are having trouble with something.Ā  Anything.
  • Eat and stay hydrated.Ā  Bring a water bottle and snack to class.
  • All-nighters will happen but never go over 36 hours without sleep.
  • Itā€™s going to be hard and there will be times you might think about giving up.Ā  This WILL happen.Ā  You just have to make sure what youā€™re doing isnā€™t making you absolutely miserable and/or there is something rewarding and positive to look forward to at the end!

I did none of this and it bit me in the ass every time so this is EXCELLENT ADVICE.

ADDITIONAL ADVICE

Donā€™t let a mental health day turn into a mental health week because you will be so screwed.

Pay attention to the syllabus and do not lose it. A lot of professors put all of the assignment due dates in there and ONLY in there.

If your school has blackboard or moodle etc. CHECK IT. a lot of professors will only post certain info there and not talk about it in class

Check your student email account weekly. A lot of it will be unimportant junk but sometimes itā€™s the only way professors will communicate.

Check your student email multiple times DAILY.Ā 

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Christian Minimalism

As written by Raymund TamayoĀ 

Many people are getting engrossed in this ā€œcrazeā€ calledĀ minimalismĀ and it has gradually reached us here in the Philippines as Filipinos slowly realize the burden material things are putting in everyoneā€™s lives instead of uplifting them.

There are many definitions of minimalism and each person practicing it has a unique way of explaining according to his or her belief.

For instance, some think of it as living in a small home or apartment with the fewest possible furniture and items inside.

Others think that it is about keeping your personal possessions under 100 things and your wardrobe to 33 items or below.

Some people believe that minimalism is depriving one's self of all desires and pleasures and just be content with what and who you are in the moment.

In other words, minimalism is as uniquely explained as the individuals who defined them.

My definition of Minimalism

I have definedĀ minimalismĀ as ā€œabout eliminating the unnecessary things in life so we can focus on the necessaryā€.

When it comes to ā€œfocusing on the necessaryā€, what I mean is focusing on my values and principles in life and aligning them to what I do every day.

It is about avoiding ā€œcompartmentalizationā€, when, for example, I separate myself as Raymund who is a husband and a father, Raymund who is a writer, and Raymund who is a servant of Christ. That should not be.

Minimalism helps me integrate each of my roles in life into a seamless blend that complements one another and does not cause friction and confusion.

This allows me to focus my life on doing my personal mission and life purpose and becoming who God wanted me to be, providing lasting impact to those I encounter every day in this temporary earthly journey.

Christian Minimalism

I am never ashamed to call myself a Christian because I donā€™t see Christianity as a mere religion but as a personal relationship to my God and Creator.

Religion depends on man-made rules, traditions, and notions while a personal relationship with God is based on spirituality.How others see it and how others represent Christianity is not my problem.

With that, I believe that what I am practicing right now is ā€œChristian Minimalismā€, and this is what I came up with trying to personally define it:

ā€œChristian Minimalism is eliminating the unnecessary things in life to focus on God Himself and the calling He gave me while here on earth.ā€

Now, when it comes to ā€œcallingā€, you should know that every one of us has a unique, divine calling. And it is up to each one of us to discover it.

Discovering your God-given calling involves a lot of time seeking God through prayer, fasting, and studying His Word. And it is not a one-time event, but a daily lifestyle.

I believe Iā€™m called to be a child of God, a husband and father, a servant of God, and an inspirational writer and those are the things Iā€™m focused on right now.

Definition of Christianity?

For me, the Christian Minimalism definition I mentioned above could also be the same basic definition of real Christianity itself. Why? Because Christianity is all about denying oneā€™s self (removal of focus on oneā€™s self) and focusing on the One who deserves all praises and glory.

I believe that true biblical Christianity is about loving the Lord God whole-heartedly, with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength.

It is not half-hearted dedication, but a single-hearted devotion to the God of the universe who loves us and who is the same yesterday, today, and forever.

The Bible says that Jesus Christ came to earth ā€œjustā€ to do the will of His Father in heaven and nothing else. Now, thatā€™s the supreme example of what a minimalist is.Jesus was never stressed, worried, or flustered about material things, his status in life, and other "worldly" things. He is focused on fulfilling His life purpose, the mission God has sent Him to accomplish while here on earth.

In Matthew 6:19 to 21, Jesus said that we should not store treasures on earth that moths and rust can destroy and thieves can steal. But instead store treasures in heaven that moths and rust cannot destroy and thieves cannot steal.

He then ends it with the words, ā€œYour heart will always be where your treasure is.ā€

Christian Minimalism at its very core is prioritizing God above all else and the work he has set for each one to do, which, by the way, a true follower of Christ should look deeply into.

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