as a lesbian who was in a 5 year relationship that ended a couple of months ago, my advice to fellow gays is to BREAK UP YOUR OWN WAY. when my ex and me broke up, we didn’t know how to navigate it because the model of heterosexual breakups was all that was available - the damage, spitefulness, ignoring each other, moving out straight away and fighting over household objects/pets, talking shit about each other etc. I really pushed for us to do what felt natural to us. after all, the reason we were both sad about breaking up was losing the FRIENDSHIP part of our relationship - so why couldn’t we keep it? it was such a healthy breakup. we only argued once when we were drunk and insecure. we still live together (along with my cousin/housemate). we still catch up on our fav tv shows and order take out. we don’t talk shit about each other. my family and her still chat and we still attend family events together. she still physios for my brothers footy team. we just fell out of love and our relationship turned into a friendship. you don’t HAVE to lose that. do your break ups your own way, gays. don’t look to het relationships to guide you. they suck.
I’ve got a good heart but this mouth….
my opinions on racism will always be limited as I’m from a position of white privilege, so whilst it’s so important to call out racial inequality and oppression when I see it, it’s also important for me to recognise that my voice should not shout over those who have actually experienced racism and have a far better understanding of how it operates then I ever will
so many people on tumblr dont seem to get this
All my white followers take a gander
IF YOU CANT HANDLE ME AT MY WORST, JUST REMEMBER THAT I HANDLE ME AT MY WORST AND THAT MAKES ME STRONGER THAN YOU
Oh my goodness this makes me feel powerful I hadn’t even thought of it like this.
u ever catch yourself overthinking then you’re like bitch what the fuck who cares
me flirting: which layer of hell do you think you’re going to?
friend: *turns on country music* me: can you chill
Are you like. Okay
ah, god no
It would be so nice to be in an apartment right now with really big open windows and lots of bright light pouring in and and long curtains and the smell of rain floating through it
The Millennial generation is so broke we’re romanticizing decent housing.
someone: its not healthy to depend on other ppl for ur happiness!!! uwuwuwu
me: call 📞📞 1-800-DID-I-ASK 👀 👀 👀
I wish I were baking tiny heart-shaped pies right now
imagine if you loved yourself in the same way you loved another person; not caring about the flaws in the body or inside the mind, seeing the virtues even bigger, supporting, taking care. that would be a new level of self-esteem and another way to be indestructible
We fawn over Peter Kavinsky a lot, but can we talk about Lara Jean? Cause that girl is the most relatable and sweetest character ever. When they’re in the cafe talking after the party and Peter tries to brush off his dad leaving him and LJ says “Well we don’t have to talk about it, but it’s not whatever”. That was honestly the sweetest and most understanding line ever. She’s not pushing him to spill his feelings, but she letting him know his feeling are valid at the same time. I just- I absolutely love Lara Jean.
Double text me, annoy me, give me your attention. I love that shit
I just need something to look forward to.
In the mail.