a pep talk from myself to myself (an infp)
some things i’d like to stop:
- nail biting
- worrying about what other people think
- staying quiet about things
- p r o c r a s t i n a t i n g (and then getting worked up about the consequences) hehe
- l o s i n g t h i n g s
- letting the negatives overpower the positives
- introverting just bc it’s comfortable
- being too sensitive
- overthinking
- making mountains out of molehills
- letting negative people get the best of me
- not trying new things bc i’m afraid i won’t be good at them/bc it’s not in my comfort zone
- feeling like a doormat
some things i’d like to start:
- being prepared for anything
- art?? (never saw this one coming but lately all i want to do is draw Hobi’s beautiful smile 🌸)
- getting to know myself
- meeting new people (didn’t think this would be fun but woah)
- spending a little more time on me
- speaking up
- going out and having fun
- growing some thicker skin
- surrounding myself with positivity
- making the best out of tough scenarios
- having new experiences
- S E L F F R E A K I N G L O V E
Positively enforced constructive criticism is actually extremely healthy and helps me reflect on some things that need to change about myself and my surroundings! I hope that others find my list motivational and maybe even let it serve as a wake-up call (like it was for me).
ps: I chewed on my fingernails as I wrote this whoops