stop using your mental health issues as an excuse for being a horrible friend
theres a difference between not being able to actively communicate with ur friends because youre too depressed or executive dysfunction is hell, or accidentally lashing out and profusely apologizing and ACTIVELY WORKING to minimize it in the future…
theres a difference between all of that and just blaming your really gross behaviors on something and going “cant change it. its just who i am. sry i hurt u but its gonna happen again bc i chant change smh why cant u accept me smhhh”