@tombydand / tombydand.tumblr.com
I have never felt more bisexual in my goddamn life
I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT THIS IS FROM AND I AM NOW SCREAMING LOUDER THAN A PLAGUE OF CICADAS YET HIGHER PITCHED THAN THE SHARPEST DOGWHISTLE
its from every couple ever. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ug1FCSQ05u4
failed coups and sea shanties are both things we are starting the year with. So, heres this. White supremacy has no space in my world. Black lives matter, always. https://www.instagram.com/p/CJ8tPXNHUiB/?igshid=8hoq0o92i9np
I think I found Josh on YouTube, too. If you look at the comments on Smosh Pit's Baskin Robbins video, most of them have replies from "Kir Boi", which are all very objectifying fetish-y. It's so creepy that his messages are so recognizable among thousands of comments/posts.
i dont know if that is him. the sad fact is he is not the only one who fetishizes damien in that way. however i believe comments like that are against youtube guidlines and can be reported.
quickly popping in to tell the smoshblr folk that user @/pixi-native is already infamous amongst the twitter fans for being weird towards cast members, esp. damien, fetishising his tummy/eating (it's capled feederism, look it up at your own discretion). he has sent inappropriate messages to multiple minors about that and other nsfw matters so please beware.
he’s on reddit too! I knew his username looked familiar but couldn’t place why until I got a notification about this post:
I thought to myself “I bet that fat fetishizer from twitter would love this shit” then looked at the username 😒😑
edit: I just realized he actually recently replied to the one vaguely thirsty comment I’ve ever made on reddit about Damien (on a different post where someone asked about the jeans he wears all the time now), bleh
just to make it clear, this isn't not 100% confirmed, josh usually properly capitalizes his text but either way, this is disgusting behaviour that shouldn't be tolerated or welcomed in this fandom
This person has been dming me constantly on instagram asking me to make a Damien's stomach compilation. I was so weirded out by it, and ignored it but if it's a big problem, I'd advise everyone to not engage with them.
Here's his messages to me. My friend who runs a fan account as well also sent me a question answer from him a while back
that he continues to do this is disappointing. i have friends who have been deeply hurt by his actions, he refuses to see anything wrong with fetishising dame. he refuses to listen when people politely ask him to stop. he was following me on twitter and i had to block him. i have experience with people objectifing and fetishising me and i’m still processing the trauma and anxiety related to that. knowing that someone was doing that to someone that i respect while also followign me. hurt. please avoid him. please try and warn others.
Pride cake. Every food delivery is have had has been delivered by a man, except for this rainbow cake. Now this isnt proof of anything but statistically, it would seem it had to be a man delivering the food when I was just a man, but the moment i was a gay man ordering some rainbow cake it was safe for a woman to do the delivery. That's, not ok. A man shouldn't have to be gay for a woman to feel safe. Men, we need to be better we need to do better, you need to step up for your non straight non cishet counterparts. We have been fighting our fight and fighting for our sisters and it's not enough, just as with what you, we, thought we were doing as allies against racism towards black people, we also have not done enough to support and bolster the voices of women, all women. Black women are fighting so many battles, black queer women are fighting even more, they dont have the time or energy to educate us so we need to shut up and educate ourselves call other men out for their disrespectful behaviour and attitude towards women. We need to be better, all of us but, I'm am going to specifically call out cishet white men here. Because the rest of us, we've been fighting we have been educating ourselves, you are the most pressing problem here whenever intentional or not, you are the road block. So stop blocking the road and pull your weight like the rest of us. If that makes you uncomfortable, good, change is uncomfortable, my existence as a gay person of colour is uncomfortable but I'm still here I'm still fighting for a better world so others dont have to deal with the sh!t I've dealt with. Fight along side me, fight along side women, fight along side the LGBTQ community, fight along side the black people who have been fighting for centuries. Be uncomfortable, but fight along side us support us. Because it is your likeness who have oppressed us. When that has been achieved, we can all have a cup of tea and some delicious rainbow cake. https://www.instagram.com/p/CBfim3ynN4i/?igshid=zsheqjhgdrdx
It's still Monday over in the states so this counts. #mcm this week is the awesome and amazing @damienhaas. Who just reached 40lk followers on twitch. I'm so proud of him and the community he has fostered and built. He deserves all the good things, I hope he realises that. Hes one in a million. Also he gives good hugs. https://www.instagram.com/p/B_gQSx3HZco/?igshid=2gbxhw6k0zo4
I always have difficulty sleeping, upside? Taking my one allowed lockdown walk at sunrise. Other upside barley another soul out this morning v easy to avoid them. https://www.instagram.com/p/B-M66MknvzE/?igshid=tb84vaagk0rn
The seemingly endless winter is starting to fall to hopeful spring. https://www.instagram.com/p/B8lSMjlHwzt/?igshid=1l0qhszfnlf8x
So, fashion, clothes, in general are marketed as not being for the likes of me. But fook that nonsense, I look great in these clothes that they only had modeled by stick thin lanky tall bois. Ignore society and marketing. If you think you want to wear something, you gosh damn wear the thing. You chose your style no one else can do that for you. https://www.instagram.com/p/B7_4_iLnDdk/?igshid=1l3ncje7wqnew
This is my London, my home, and I love it dearly. https://www.instagram.com/p/B7jUuHNni9u/?igshid=69n740ob52bj
2019, you were a total nightmare at times, but you also were good, the small nuggets of good saw me through and have set me up to tackle this next decade with integrity and kindness. 2020 is a year for clarity of sight and mind. Happy new year everyone, life is tough, you are tougher. https://www.instagram.com/p/B6wM4_cH8x3/?igshid=1n8hrf0vewy4s
It's nice to see the sea got a stocking as well. https://www.instagram.com/p/B6lYp4WHrGW/?igshid=131x7oznmrpe6
Merry Christmas everpeoples! https://www.instagram.com/p/B6fd8NKnJjZ/?igshid=3zv8mvphqi7f
Threw together a wreath from foraged foliage and attempted to make mince pies. https://www.instagram.com/p/B6ZF5CNnl_6/?igshid=16xcuwu4n98vi
Escaped the big smoke. Barely any other people on the train or ferry. Christmas prep is full speed ahead. https://www.instagram.com/p/B6T2sUEHcAp/?igshid=xxw340iin428
Japanese garden at kew gardens. https://www.instagram.com/p/B6G7m2nn9tG/?igshid=n5tf3iuqmxlh
This year I made our London wreath using 100% foraged materials. Usually I buy and dry roses and eucalyptus and various other things, this time I decided to challenge myself. https://www.instagram.com/p/B6DvjCrnSOp/?igshid=15igatnl3t1fp
