rant on love: ok maybe this is the last one. but love yours. love your parents. love your house. love your circumstances. theres always going to be better or worse circumstances than yours. at the end of the day we're all searchin for the same thing: happiness. you think a bentley is gonna make you happy? that happiness is ultimately coming within you. at the end, you provided your own happiness. Not that car. theres always gonna be better looking people. once you love what you got, whether its your parents, your boyfriend/girlfriend, then you'll appreciate the life you have. that bentley wont mean much to you anymore. love what you got.

rant on relationships: ok last one. I see all these people i care about, even myself in the past, being in toxic relationships where theyre constantly being hurt. Physical appearance? That goes away evetually. Humor? Your loved one cant be funny 24/7. That shit doesnt last either. At the end of the day, if youre looking for a long term relationship, the most important qualities are this: loyalty, respect, and trust. If you dont have these in your relationship then its doomed anyway.

rant on heroism: this is a quick one. those who feel like they cant provide regarding knowledge or character try to play the hero. theyre the ones always trying to save the day.

rant on change: youre changing right now. the cells in your body are changing right now. dna is being constantly replicated at this very moment. take a few deep breaths. realize its happening. you have the potential to change whenever you want. you never signed a contract saying you have to be the same person you were yesterday.

rant on flaws: im not a perfect person. i know my flaws. i'll let yall know what my biggest flaw is now: i crave positive attention if i feel like i'm not getting it enough. i feel a sense of satisfaction from attention. you think im proud of that? fuck no. but recognizing your flaws makes you 25% there. believing you can change makes you 75% there. If you're the type to say "oh no one is perfect thats ok to have flaws" then your right but if youre not making any attempt to be the best person that you can be, then you'll keep drowning in your flaws.

rant on confidence and college: there’s always the alpha male and alpha female thing going on.  girl’s want to be the top of all and boy’s want to be the most dominant.  this comes from rap culture in my opinion.  i won’t lie. i consider myself high maintenance. most people hate that shit, but i have standards. it takes courage for a woman to be high maintenance. she has to be strong and confident. she can’t let all the judgments affect her.   you get what you put into it.  high maintenance women always get the best men cos they work hard to be the very best person they can be.  

rant on karma: what you put into this world is truly what you’re gonna get out of it.  you’re frustrated with the world? then damn right you’re gonna be a frustrated person.  you got aggression and violence in you? then that shits gonna be a reflection of you. people are gonna see it.  the truth is, reality is what you make it.  if you do someone wrong, then that shows you got some deeper issues within yourself.  most men i meet got issues with shame.  they hate feeling humiliated.  THIS DOESNT GO FOR ALL MEN. but a lot of the men that i have been surrounded by hate feeling wrong. they constantly have to assert their dominance.  

rant on drama: when drama is in ur life it’s a two way street always. something might happen and you might get a certain vibe from it and start analyzing the intentions. then you respond to it.  shit goes both ways.  you can’t blame one person for the drama in your life