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Lesley. 40. Bi, they/them. SFW blog. OFMD brainrot.
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p1nkblog

đŸ’đŸŒ·đŸŒž sending flowers and love to anyone not feeling their best today

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Therapy is risky because sometimes they'll just ask you their standard "why can't you, though", and you think you're making some good point by saying something like "well if I don't do anything with my life then what's the point of being alive in the first place" and your therapist gets that look on their face and you immediately realise that your dumb ass just got caught, pinned to the ground with your stupid-ass neck between the spikes of a pitchfork, and you are not going to wiggle out of there before you two unpack what the fuck you just said.

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All this about not getting to see John Lennon on twitter but I think the real tragedy is that Freddie Mercury never had an instagram

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Friendships as a teenager: we used to talk 5 hours every night now it’s down to 3
 are we still friends đŸ€”? I wonder if they don’t like me anymore

Friendships as an adult: omg I’ve finally cleared up 20 minutes of my schedule to talk to my friend I haven’t spoken to in 4 months #bffs #we will find eachother in every life

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defilerwyrm

Growth capitalism is a deranged fantasy for lunatics.

Year 1, your business makes a million dollars in profit. Great start!

Year 2, you make another million. Oh no! Your business is failing because you didn't make more than last year!

Okay, say year 2 you make $2 mil. Now you're profitable!

Then year 3 you make $3 mil. Oh no! Your business is failing! But wait, you made more money than last year right? Sure, but you didn't make ENOUGH more than last year so actually your business is actively tanking! Time to sell off shares and dismantle it for parts! You should have made $4 mil in profit to be profitable, you fool!

If you're not making more money every year by an ever-increasing exponent, the business is failing!

Absolute degenerate LUNACY

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for ages i thought i didnt like drag because of internalized homophobia but it turned out i just don't like bright lights and loud music and really visually complicated things

spd is homophobic i guess is what im saying

real talk tho this is a good example of how some things just can't be made universally accessible. they are never going to make a quiet reserved drag show with few bright colors that i can enjoy. that goes against like...the entire point of drag and the celebrating of taking up space that a lot of gay events are.

and that's okay! i wouldn't want them to! i just need to find other things that make me feel happy and at home and part of the community. different needs require different solutions, and sometimes a thing just isn't for you.

It's good when you take a moment and examine yourself and be like "why don't like I like this" because sometimes the answer has like 5 possibilities:

1. "this is just not accessible to me for Reason"

2. "I have trauma to work through"

3. "oh shit I have prejudice to work through!"

4. "I don't actually have a reason. I just don't like it because I don't enjoy it"

Or

5. "It is objectively bad"

But often you don't know until you take a step back and look at it from a different angle

And I think most people assume if they don't like something it's the last one but in my experience it's the least frequent possibility

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judasrpc

WEIRDLY SPECIFIC BUT HELPFUL CHARACTER BUILDING QUESTIONS

  1. What’s the lie your character says most often?
  2. How loosely or strictly do they use the word ‘friend’?
  3. How often do they show their genuine emotions to others versus just the audience knowing?
  4. What’s a hobby they used to have that they miss?
  5. Can they cry on command? If so, what do they think about to make it happen?
  6. What’s their favorite [insert anything] that they’ve never recommended to anyone before?
  7. What would you (mun) yell in the middle of a crowd to find them? What would their best friend and/or romantic partner yell?
  8. How loose is their use of the phrase ‘I love you’?
  9. Do they give tough love or gentle love most often? Which do they prefer to receive?
  10. What fact do they excitedly tell everyone about at every opportunity?
  11. If someone was impersonating them, what would friends / family ask or do to tell the difference?
  12. What’s something that makes them laugh every single time? Be specific!
  13. When do they fake a smile? How often?
  14. How do they put out a candle?
  15. What’s the most obvious difference between their behavior at home, at work, at school, with friends, and when they’re alone?
  16. What kinds of people do they have arguments with in their head?
  17. What do they notice first in the mirror versus what most people first notice looking at them?
  18. Who do they love truly, 100% unconditionally (if anyone)?
  19. What would they do if stuck in a room with the person they’ve been avoiding?
  20. Who do they like as a person but hate their work? Vice versa, whose work do they like but don’t like the person?
  21. What common etiquette do they disagree with? Do they still follow it?
  22. What simple activity that most people do / can do scares your character?
  23. What do they feel guilty for that the other person(s) doesn’t / don’t even remember?
  24. Did they take a cookie from the cookie jar? What kind of cookie was it?
  25. What subject / topic do they know a lot about that’s completely useless to the direct plot?
  26. How would they respond to being fired by a good boss?
  27. What’s the worst gift they ever received? How did they respond?
  28. What do they tell people they want? What do they actually want?
  29. How do they respond when someone doesn’t believe them?
  30. When they make a mistake and feel bad, does the guilt differ when it’s personal versus when it’s professional?
  31. When do they feel the most guilt? How do they respond to it?
  32. If they committed one petty crime / misdemeanor, what would it be? Why?
  33. How do they greet someone they dislike / hate?
  34. How do they greet someone they like / love?
  35. What is the smallest, morally questionable choice they’ve made?
  36. Who do they keep in their life for professional gain? Is it for malicious intent?
  37. What’s a secret they haven’t told serious romantic partners and don’t plan to tell?
  38. What hobby are they good at in private, but bad at in front of others? Why?
  39. Would they rather be invited to an event to feel included or be excluded from an event if they were not genuinely wanted there?
  40. How do they respond to a loose handshake? What goes through their head?
  41. What phrases, pronunciations, or mannerisms did they pick up from someone / somewhere else?
  42. If invited to a TED Talk, what topic would they present on? What would the title of their presentation be?
  43. What do they commonly misinterpret because of their own upbringing / environment / biases? How do they respond when realizing the misunderstanding?
  44. What language would be easiest for them to learn? Why?
  45. What’s something unimportant / frivolous that they hate passionately?
  46. Are they a listener or a talker? If they’re a listener, what makes them talk? If they’re a talker, what makes them listen?
  47. Who have they forgotten about that remembers them very well?
  48. Who would they say ‘yes’ to if invited to do something they abhorred / strongly didn’t want to do?
  49. Would they eat something they find gross to be polite?
  50. What belief / moral / personality trait do they stand by that you (mun) personally don’t agree with?
  51. What’s a phrase they say a lot?
  52. Do they act on their immediate emotions, or do they wait for the facts before acting?
  53. Who would / do they believe without question?
  54. What’s their instinct in a fight / flight / freeze / fawn situation?
  55. What’s something they’re expected to enjoy based on their hobbies / profession that they actually dislike / hate?
  56. If they’re scared, who do they want comfort from? Does this answer change depending on the type of fear?
  57. What’s a simple daily activity / motion that they mess up often?
  58. How many hobbies have they attempted to have over their lifetime? Is there a common theme?
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moghedien

"please don't stick a q tip in your ears, our product can damage your eardrums" lies. they're trying to stop you from hitting the ear g spot. they're in league with the church

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