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furiousgoldfish

how to tell if your “friend” is not being a friend:

  • every time you talk about a problem, you have to spend time convincing them it’s a real problem
  • you have to convince them that your feelings are real and justified 
  • you have to explain to them, more than once, to stop saying things that genuinely make you feel awful
  • you have to be understanding of their point of view entire time, but that doesn’t work both ways, they don’t do it back
  • you have to be understanding to the point where you accept that they wont ever see your point of view
  • if your problems make them uncomfortable you have to stop talking
  • they compete with you and try to prove you that their situation is worse no matter what you struggle with
  • they try to convince you to get over yourself and to not think of yourself too highly
  • they make you feel like your opinions, actions or emotions are stupid, and like you should be ashamed for expressing anything to anyone
  • they pick up on your vulnerabilities then use them against you in critical times
  • they say things they know will hurt you, to get to you
  • they hurt you to prove their point and think it’s legit reason to cause you pain
  • they talk down to you, act as if you’re not capable of making good decisions, scare you into not doing as you wanted, make you feel inadequate and inexperienced in comparison to them
  • they don’t care if they tire you out with their problems
  • they don’t care if you’ve already given them more than you comfortably can give
  • they don’t find you worthy of their compassion and care
  • they don’t think you’ve deserved their attention or admiration
  • they neglect you and then come back to you when they need you
  • they act as if it’s normal for you to spend much more energy and time on them than they do in return
  • they expect unlimited compassion, kindness, energy, time and care from you, and act as if it’s the least you could do for them
  • they don’t even consider going that length in return
  • if they forget, even for a second, that you’re a human being

they’re not to be trusted.

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rhythm-echo-zoldyck

the whole naruto plot

Naruto: Sasuke!
Sasuke: Itachi!
Itachi: Shisui!
Shisui: Danzo!
Danzo: Hokage!
Hokage: Jiraiya!
Jiraiya: Nagato!
Nagato: Konan!
Konan: Pain!
Pain: Tobi!
Tobi: Madara!
Madara: Hashirama!
Hashirama: dude, the fuck
#txt#naruto#yeah
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