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byunfirstlady

♪ @ciaozhan asked: ♪

favorite taeyeon songs? ~~gravity is a masterpiece~~

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ratchetmessreturns

"Thank you for the Sex, meals and clean clothes" Boyfriend tells girlfriend as he breaks up with her.

uncleromeo

her:

him:

just-call-me-vendetta

He didn't ask but he also didn't tell her not to knowing what it indicated for her.

Sadly now she will never do it for another man. Not even one she finds to love and is worthy of it.

He however will commit to a woman who won't do any of those things and cheat with one who does because that's what they do.

afronerdism

He’s foul for this but now she knows better.

He 100% is in the wrong, but now she knows not to give a man all that when he hasn’t committed to her

soltheshiny

Genuinely curious. How can I am not ready for a relationship, but having someone press for a relationship be his fault?

mybloodrunsrad

He’s not wrong for being honest and enjoying his life...

When someone does something enthusiastically and unsolicited, it seems like they’re enjoying it too. Why in the world would it be his responsibility to guess that she’s actually not enjoying it, but rather doing this only out of hope for something more. When he explicitly said he didn’t want more...

It’s not people’s job to “know what your actions indicate for you”. It’s their job to be honest about what they want and don’t want, and to do what brings them joy. This applies on both ends. It seems like he did that. However, she was actually dishonest about being satisfied for 6 months, or if she said she was dissatisfied then she was not doing what brought her joy.

Of course it’s sad for her. It’s really sad overall how awfully we as a society think and teach what relationships are. But the solution is to do better on that front, to teach women how to learn about themselves and know what they want, to teach women how to remove themselves from what dissatisfies them instead of operating on delusions of waiting.

The solution is not to start saying that people are wrong for not wanting relationships and wrong for not doing the other person’s job of enforcing their standards. People only have to enforce their own standards, not do both sides of the equation.

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Studio Killers - jenny

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toofaruparminsass

Annie and Armin

Brawn and Brain

Ass and Sass

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virgoassbitch

I love knowing that no matter how much anyone may hate me, NO ONE can say that I am their enemy because any hate directed towards me is NEVER reciprocated!

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virgoassbitch

I hate being asked why I’m single. When women are single I feel like people automatically assume it isn’t by choice or it is simply because she hasn’t “earned” a man’s attention yet. Wrong and wrong. I am single because I choose to be. Point blank period. I’ve had many men try to be with me but I did not want to be with them. Not because I’m “too picky” and not because I am opposed to a relationship but because I do not have to accept every offer that is made to me. I decided a while ago never to be anywhere I didn’t want to be. Plain and simple. If I am not interested, I no longer pretend to be. If I am turned off by you, I no longer force myself to pretend I’m not. I wasted so many years forcing myself to TRY to want men. Out of guilt. Ignorance. Immaturity. Inexperience. Apathy. I could go on and on. THAT is why I am single. I haven’t met anyone I truly want to be with. I know as women sometimes we are taught to accept any offer of love or affection that is thrown at us but we don’t need to. We don’t inherently owe men anything. Especially not just because they desire us. No more of that apprehensive “oh I guess I’ll give him a shot....” (1 month later) “never mind” cycle for me. If I am not genuinely interested then I am not proceeding. My energy and effort are too valuable.