Bi-Positive turned 10 today!
From One Candle, To Millions Of Candles.
Each of you holds a candle. It's got a warm glow. You might not be able to see it, but it's there. When people come together to help each other through difficult times, the glow grows bigger, brighter.. That's how light works. For a long time now, I've tried my best to be a little candle to help brighten up the way for people who felt lost, or just needed some warmth and safety. And I'm glad I've spent that time doing what I did. But.. Maybe it's time now, for my little glow to go elsewhere. But! You're not alone, ever alone! There's millions of candles out there, millions of warm little glows. You can help each other, support each other, find friendship and comfort in each other, too. You're going to be okay. If this is the end of.. This, this project? I suppose.. Then, thank you. All of you. You have shown me such warmth and kindness, such love to a person you've never met. It warms a heart.. It has been a privilege and a pleasure to know you, to speak to you, to listen to you. May your life be one of beauty and fulfilment, may your endeavours forever be fruitful. Agh, I've never been very good at expressing emotions clearly.. You know what I mean! I like ya' face! You're gonna go far, kid! As always, perhaps for the last time, with love. Bi-Positive.
Anonymous asked:
Hello, just wondering if your blog is still active?? The content is absolutely wonderful.
Hello there!
The blog is currently.. Hibernating? To be honest with you, I'm not sure what to do just yet about the blog or the future of it.. I won't delete it or anything so it'll be here until, well, whenever the rest of the blogs go, so it'll be around ^_^ Thank you for your kind words, I'm glad that even after so many years it's still helping people! With love, Bi-Positive.
Anonymous asked:
Hi I'm bi and I'm not out and it feels very lonely. It good that you're positive, I dunno that's all thanks!
Hello there! I know it can feel lonely when you're not out and trying to figure out a way to be 'you', but you're not alone! There's many people just like you going through the same thing!
It's going to be okay. Okay? ^_^ With love, Bi-Positive.
Happy Bi Visibility Day!
We're here. And we have a fabulously fashionable flag. *flag waving manically* With love, Bi-Positive.
Caution! Explicit language and scenes of a somewhat sexual nature.
Bisexuality in songs is great to hear, this one is more about the sexual aspect rather than a romantic one. I like it! I hope you like it, too. With love, Bi-Positive.
Pride Month Comes to an End..
But LGBT+ people are not just around for one month of the year, we're here all year round! There's lesbians in January! There's gays in March! There's Bisexuals in September! And there's Trans people in October! (Other sexualities and months are also available.)
So, as Pride Month comes to its end, just remember, our lives are here 365/6 days of the year. With love, Bi-Positive.
Anonymous asked:
I almost want to come out to one of my cousins because she’s dating a girl but I’m scared the rest of my family would find out and she doesn’t live in the same state if I were to need to see her to actually talk to her
Hello! ^_^ I think if you have a secure way of talking to your cousin it should be okay, she might be the most understanding person nearest to you, but if you're worried about it try to find a secure way of talking to her, even a burner phone if it comes to it! Something cheap, easy to dispose of or erase information on but a line of communication.
I hope you can find a way you feel safe to talk about things! You deserve to be heard and accepted ^_^ With love, Bi-Positive.
Happy Pride Month!
Go ahead, have some extra pride! *Throws confetti in the air while banging a drum and blowing a trumpet* PRIDE! MOTHER FUUUUUU[censored]
With love, Bi-Positive.
Sexy Sex Stuff. (Now that I have your attention..)
Maybe nobody needs to hear this but I'll say it anyway. *clears throat* YOU CAN BE BISEXUAL AND NOT HAVE SEX. YOU CAN BE BISEXUAL AND HAVE LOTS AND LOTS OF SEX. YOU CAN BE BISEXUAL BUT CHOOSE (FOR WHATEVER REASON) TO ONLY HAVE SEX WITH ONE GENDER.
Sex doesn't define who you are. With love, Bi-Positive.
A little bit of sparkle? No, no.. Be a lot of sparkle. With love, Bi-Positive.
Talking About Stuff & Things.
Hi there, It's me, Bi-Positive. Lately I've been thinking, and feeling.. That maybe I've said all I can say about what it means to be positive about bisexuality, it's been a long time now and I can't really think of anything I have to say.. At least, not right now. Which brings me to a question.. What do I do now? Perhaps it's time I leave things as they are and just let the blog speak for itself now, there's enough posts I think.. I'm not sure what to do, to be honest. So I'm going to think about it some more. Anyway, now that that's out in the open, how are you all doing? I hope everyone is staying safe and keeping well! As always, with love, Bi-Positive.
We Stand With Them.
Anonymous asked:
Hi. I identify as bisexual but I’ve never had a crush on a girl only guys. But I would date/marry/be intimate w a girl. When I was little I would always think that I’d be perfectly fine w marrying a girl if I didn’t end up w a guy. But lately I’ve been wondering if im just straight. So having another opinion would really help. So am I straight, bi-curious, or just bisexual w a preference for men?
Hello! Sadly, I can't answer this question.. But what I can do is assure you that during your questioning you're not alone, there's other people who are questioning their feelings and what that means for them and their lives. You're going to be okay! It might take some time but one day you'll be able to look back and say that you figured it out! Because you will. If you don't have any sexual or romantic feelings towards women, and only men, then you're probably not bisexual. But if you do have those feelings for men and for women, even just a tiny bit, then you could say you're bisexual! If you lack those feelings, then you can say, to a good degree of certainty that you're not.. And if you don't know what feelings you have that's okay too, take some time, listen to what your brain is telling you and you'll figure it out, in time. With love, Bi-Positive.
The Mad Hatter, from 'Alice In Wonderland' gives me bisexual vibes. You may not like it, but it's the truth. It's my truth. With love, Bi-Positive.
A New Year.
It's the beginning of a new year, so much possibility and opportunity to do better and be better than the year before! You're stronger than you think, look after each other and always remember to be true to yourself. That's all I have to say for now. ^_^ With love, Bi-Positive.
Anonymous asked:
I need advice, i stayed at my friends house in November before i had my surgery. She and I watched a movie together in her room. We were laying together and holding hands. Then today she posted on her snap story that she wants a bf. She and I just last night talked about the night that I stayed at her house.
Hello there! ^_^ I might need some more information, what gender do you identify with? Do you have feelings for her or are you concerned that she might have feelings for you? I'm sorry, sometimes I'm easily confused! With love, Bi-Positive.