The INTP Who Wants What's Best for You!

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I mostly post about MBTI. Isaac | Aries | Sanguine | INTP | 5w6 | Cell/Molecular Biology Major **No longer doing MBTI scenarios**
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Cooking Masters INTP–ENFJ

ENFJ: Hey, honey, can you come and stir the cauliflower for a minute for me? I want to cut up the onion.

INTP: Oh, sure, sure.

ENFJ: I’m glad that you like this recipe! I was a little worried you might think it was weird.

INTP: No, no--augh. No, I really-- ack *cough* li-ke it.

ENFJ: Are you okay?

INTP: *Waving at the pan* Yeah, just the smoke.

ENFJ: Oh dear, I forgot, you’re not good with smoke; I’ll do it!

INTP: No, no, I’m good. You wanted to get the onion in there, it’s fine. I’ll just lean away!

ENFJ: Are you sure?

INTP: Yeah, yeah, go ahead.

ENFJ: *Dumps some of the chopped onion into the pan* Oh man, that is strong.

INTP: *Stirs it into the cauliflower*

ENFJ: *Continues chopping at the cutting board*

ENFJ: Aaaaooow! *Covers her eyes*

INTP: What is it, sweetheart?

ENFJ: This onion is so... oof.

INTP: *Gasping for air* Want to switch?

ENFJ: No, I got it.

ENFJ: Ah! F***! *Covers her entire face from the smell*

INTP: Here, trade.

ENFJ: Okay, okay.

ENFJ: *Immediately starts coughing from the smoke* Okay, you know what, it can sit for a minute or two. *Leaves the kitchen*

INTP: *Inspects the onion*

INTP: *Holds it up to his face and deeply inhales*

INTP: AUGH.

INTP: *Leaves the kitchen while coughing and with watering eyes*

ENFJ: Are you okay?

INTP: *Stumbles to the couch, moaning*

ENFJ: What happened??

INTP: I took a huge sniff of the onion.

ENFJ: Why would you do that!!

INTP: I DON’T KNOW, I WAS CURIOUS, I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE OKAY.

ENFJ: Oh, honey, okay, we take break now.

INTP: We should have just ordered pizza.

ENFJ: Yep.

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things i want people to take to heart

extroverts: you’re not shallow.
introverts: you’re not alone.
intuitives: you’re not weird.
sensors: you’re not boring.
thinkers: it’s okay to feel.
feelers: it’s okay to think.
judgers: it’s okay to relax.
perceivers: it’s okay to be stressed.
fi doms: you’re the nicest people i’ve met.
ti doms: you’re the most interesting people i’ve met.
ni doms: you’re not too complex to understand.
si doms: you’re really fun to be around.
fe doms: you’re the backbone of society.
te doms: you’re the logic in our lives.
ne doms: you’re what gives us hope.
se doms: you’re what allows us to enjoy ourselves.
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Letters to MBTI: INFP #1

Dear INFPs,

As an INTP, talking to you is like looking in a mirror. A mirror that is just slightly distorted because we’re not the same people... but we’re close! You have those same thought pathways through Ne that may not make sense to everyone right in the moment, because you're driving through winding roads in the woods with a blindfold on and both feet on the gas, but you always come to your conclusion one way or another. And I usually don’t have a hard time following along! Usually, I’m in my own separate car along-side you, doing the same things, and we arrive at the conclusion together!

Are you understanding these metaphors? Probably.

And I’m not alone when I forget to do something simple like put my empty glasses of water in the sink and wash them instead of hoarding them all in my room, because i just keep getting new glasses of water because i get thirsty again.

Although, if we were trusted to handle something too pragmatic, we might be in trouble. We should keep an eye out for that.

Point is that while we can be really in-sync on these wonderful ways of perceiving life (ha!), your reasons for doing things because they’re “important to you” can often slip my mind. Because mostly I’m thinking about what makes sense. But your reasons are thought provoking and give me new things to think about. New things to try to remember when I make my own decisions, because I might find a way to add a warmer touch to my actions.

You’re there to remind me of the argument that is:

“Just because we can, does not mean we should

You’re basically the reason that Jurassic Park doesn’t happen in real life. Although honestly, they keep making movies, so are we really learning anything?

Plus, I mean, real dinosaurs would be so frickin cool. Yeah, see, you need to stop this before it gets to be too much.

We’re all very lucky to have you. Otherwise we’d all be eaten by dinosaurs...

Maybe that’s not a direct logical connection, but... you never know...

I’m glad to have you around, INFP.

Much love from your “cousin type”,

Isaac, an INTP that would really like to know the statistical prospects of reviving the dinosaurs

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Letters to MBTI: INTP #1

To all the other INTPs out there,

If you’re anything like me, sometimes you notice that you’re not so great at picking up other’s feelings and it can land you in hot water. Sometimes you accidentally hurt someone’s feelings because you didn't consider how your phrasing could be interpreted other than the way you meant it to sound. Sometimes you completely misinterpret someone else’s words, or the point just goes right over your head, entirely.

If you’re like me, you can get a little too fixated on this and try to keep it from happening too much, only to still make mistakes and it can suck, feeling down about that stuff.

But remember that while these may be our flaws, being aware of them is just as important as not having them. Everyone has flaws; maybe not the same ones as us, but ultimately we balance out the world with everyone else. Of course, always work to improve yourself.

But remember that we are also masters of deductive reasoning. We see the world from a million different perspectives to the point that no question can have a completely simple answer. We can justify that “everything is nothing” and “nothing is everything” if we really wanted to. Granted, we might be a bit lazy for that, but if we put our heads to it, I’m sure we could figure it out.

And that’s something to pride yourself on and remember! Your good qualities are just as important as the ones you might want to work on. And I think one of our best qualities is that no matter what comes our way, we’re likely to respond with:

“I’m not sure, but I can probably figure it out.”

And we usually do!

Remember that you’ve always got logic and variability on your side. When in doubt, turn to your friends. (Ti-Ne)

Sincerely,

Isaac, an INTP who thought maybe I could help the both of us at the same time [OuO]

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I want your input for this blog!

So I’ve been away for a long time and I decided to come back to this blog, answer a few questions and think about what I want to do with this blog. I have no idea what the mbti stuff on tumblr is like now, if it’s changed, if it’s died down, etc.. But that was the main focus of this blog before I left, and I’m sure it will probably stay that way.

But I want to know, from those who are still following, what do you want to see? What kind of posts do you like? Strictly MBTI? If so, do you like the funny/meme-like ones, do you want more serious elaboration types. Do you want a place for live chat on MBTI? I don’t really know what I want to do just yet, so I wanted to see if anyone else had already had ideas for things that they wanted to see but haven’t seen for a while?

So please, comment, reblog, message me, do whatever you want to in response to this! I’d love to hear what other ideas are out there. I did answer some questions on how to approach certain types in terms of communication (mostly in a confessing romantic feelings situation, heh), and I enjoyed that, so if you guys would like, I can do more of that!

Also, past me would roll his eyes, but, I am open to writing some more type chat-scenarios if there is more information given other than what types you want in the story. If you give me things like, a setting, or general outline as to where you want the story to go, and not something like “Can you write a story about an INFJ and ENTJ in a relationship?”, then I will be open to doing those, too, because it can be fun! Also understand, of course, that the rate at which I can do those might be kind of slow because they take time, thought, and I also do have a busy life outside of tumblr. Much more than I used to, heh. But that is also on the table.

But if there is more (and I hope there is!) then please, tell me what other ideas might be interesting to see! Hope everyone is doing great and having a wonderful day!

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MBTI Group Chat: Going to the Movies

istj: okay. so i’m thinking we should buy the tickets ahead of time so we definitely get seats and don’t have to wait in line later.

entp: buy me one i forgot money

infp: GUYSSSSS!!! i just snuck candy from home into the theater and didn’t get caught omg

intj: infp…what happened to you?

infp: HAHA i don’t know!! i feel so rebellious!

esfp: i just woke up i’m not gonna go

isfj: esfp it’s 7pm…

esfj: everyone come to the lobby they thought enfp was an employee and now he’s serving people popcorn lmao!!!!

infj: i. can’t. miss. this.

enfj: guys I’m running late…..i’m not gonna get there until like 8 sorry!!

istj: enfj you’re the most organized person i know yet you’re always late…

enfj: i got held up at play practice and then i had to go to work and then i had to get gas and oh my god i should get going bye

esfj: why can’t we just go to the movies like normal people…

intp: because none of us are normal?

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Letters to MBTI: New Idea!

Hello, hello, so it’s about time that I start up a new line of posts that will be sure to be interesting, thoughtful, funny, and all of those other adjectives that make you think “yeah it’s good”. Because that’s as about as generic and underwhelming as approval can get! Yay!

So, the idea is that I will be making posts, or “letters”, to the any and all of the mbti types basically just telling them things that I want them to know! A lot of these things will probably be positive and encouraging because that’s what I’m about a lot of the time, but it really can range anywhere to funny stories that involve them, constructive criticism for them, heart-felt thoughts on their actions, way of being, etc.. It is literally so open-ended that it’s hard to encapsulate all of the things that this can be. 

The one thing that I do not want this to be is an excuse to flame or perpetuate hate about specific types. And the reason that I say that is because I want this continuous project to be as much of yours as it is mine. I will, of course, make my own letters to the types, but I will also encourage anyone who sees these and wants to participate to make their own! My inbox/Submit option is open, so you could very easily give it a title and body structure that follows the format, and help perpetuate as many good, constructive, interesting and entertaining ideas and knowledge about the types and this theory that we've come accustomed to as you can!

There will be no order in terms of which types will be written to first. Simply, which ever ones are most easy for me to write about will be the ones that I start with. And then the others will become more involved as time goes on. But the point is that if you wish to see more posts about a certain type, then you can contribute and make that happen. Then maybe your additions will even inspire someone else, and there will be even more than before!

So, for clarification, here is the basic structure that I’ll be following, and I’ll edit any submissions to have as well to maintain consistency and readability.

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Title: Letters to MBTI: XXXX #___

(Greeting) XXXX,

Body paragraph. Can have any structure you want; give it some personality!

(Farewell),

(Signature)

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The greetings, farewell and signatures can also be improvised! I will probably be changing my own for each post, or depending on the context of the message. Greetings can be things like “Dear”, “Hello”, “Hey”, “Salutations”, even something like, I don't know, “Excuse me, XXXX”. The point is that you can choose any way to greet the type that you’re writing to that you think fits the message, or fits you!

Same thing goes for how you say goodbye. You can say “farewell”, “goodbye”, “take care”, “best”, “love”, “later”, “talk soon”, or any other number of ways you choose to say goodbye.

Your signature can also be whatever you want! It can be just your type, it can be your name and your type, or a description of you, or whatever you’d like. For example, I could say “Isaac, an INTP who is very sleepy at the moment” if I wanted to. (I’m not that sleepy right now, that was a complete lie.)

The cool thing about this project/idea is that it can be as big and complex and intricate or as simple and repetitive and small as we choose to make it be. I’m hoping for the former, because it would be so cool to build something so unique and multi-faceted that it’s hard to explain. But time will tell what it will become!

Anyway, that is my project for right now. There will probably be more things coming for this blog too, that I have not figured out, but one thing at a time.

Let’s make something interesting, and weird, and constructive, and thoughtful, and positive, and hilarious and positive together!

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I want your input for this blog!

So I’ve been away for a long time and I decided to come back to this blog, answer a few questions and think about what I want to do with this blog. I have no idea what the mbti stuff on tumblr is like now, if it’s changed, if it’s died down, etc.. But that was the main focus of this blog before I left, and I’m sure it will probably stay that way.

But I want to know, from those who are still following, what do you want to see? What kind of posts do you like? Strictly MBTI? If so, do you like the funny/meme-like ones, do you want more serious elaboration types. Do you want a place for live chat on MBTI? I don't really know what I want to do just yet, so I wanted to see if anyone else had already had ideas for things that they wanted to see but haven't seen for a while?

So please, comment, reblog, message me, do whatever you want to in response to this! I’d love to hear what other ideas are out there. I did answer some questions on how to approach certain types in terms of communication (mostly in a confessing romantic feelings situation, heh), and I enjoyed that, so if you guys would like, I can do more of that!

Also, past me would roll his eyes, but, I am open to writing some more type chat-scenarios if there is more information given other than what types you want in the story. If you give me things like, a setting, or general outline as to where you want the story to go, and not something like “Can you write a story about an INFJ and ENTJ in a relationship?”, then I will be open to doing those, too, because it can be fun! Also understand, of course, that the rate at which I can do those might be kind of slow because they take time, thought, and I also do have a busy life outside of tumblr. Much more than I used to, heh. But that is also on the table.

But if there is more (and I hope there is!) then please, tell me what other ideas might be interesting to see! Hope everyone is doing great and having a wonderful day!

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Anonymous asked:

Isaac you're BOSS at making music. How do you convert the sounds you hear in your head to notes? Never got the hang of it. Dude, I honestly wasn't expected that much when I checked out your Soundcloud but Jesus christ all the original stuff you made is just pure amazingness, you can be a video game OST maker or something. You're that good.

Wow, this is by far probably the most flattering compliment I’ve gotten on my music! When I’m getting notes from my head to the computer, I’m usually either taking inspiration from a different song, taking something that I came up with on guitar and putting it into a different instrument on my computer, or I just start building a melody on the fly to go over some chords that I think sound good, and I just end up getting lucky. A lot of times, I have an idea of what I want 3% of it to sound like, and everything else in between, I just have to kind of fill in with what I think might work. There’s a lot of tweaking with that process, but it works out!

Heh, thank you so much for your kind words! I would love to be a video game OST maker tbh. I dont think I have enough time to for trying to make that happen for the foreseeable future, but hey, you never know. Crazier things have happened, right?

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Anonymous asked:

You’ve been gone for a while haven’t you? How’s you doin’? How’s life?

Heh, yeah, for a bit. And it’s going pretty well! I have a personal blog @faces-in-unexpected-places that I’m relatively active on, so I haven’t left entirely, and I talk a bit more about my life over there, if you’re curious.

But yeah! I’m not sure what I’ll be doing here with this blog. I don’t have a ton of ideas for posts, tbh. I just know that I’ve got a ton of unanswered asks, and figured I would do a few of them. Since I’ve stopped being consistently active back in like, early 2016, basically two years ago, I changed my major to Biology so my blog is super dated now, lmao. I’ve made a few songs, learned to play ukulele (in like five minutes, it’s not that hard of a transition from guitar), made some friends, lost some, made some more, just had my two year anniversary with my partner, actually (she sent me a million cookies, I sent her some macarons), I work in a biology laboratory for college credit rn, I’ve made some friends in there, which has been great! I feel like a real scientist, heh.

Had some pretty gripping spells of anxiety and depression for a good while, which was hard to deal with, but I’ve been slowly rebuilding myself back up, and I’m in a much better place than I have been before, which is a great thing to feel. So yeah, a lot of things have changed, a lot of other things haven’t. Basically how life goes, heh. I’m surprised to see that there’s still even following on this blog over here. Probably not as much as there used to be, but that’s okay. Hopefully whatever I end up putting up here, people will enjoy. 

Here’s to the future!

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Anonymous asked:

Hey... it's been a while, and I'm not sure if you even care, plus you've probably forgotten about me, which is fine--given the circumstances. Well, I just wanted to say I figured things out quite a bit since then and I've even met someone too, so life has gone lovely. I hope you're doing well, squisher. Best regards, -DM, SW

Part of me hates guessing games because I feel like they’re a bit… theatrical, which isn’t my forte, but the other part of me thinks they’re fun because I LOVE deductively reasoning myself the conclusion to a mystery. So, why the hell not.

1.) It’s been a while, may have forgotten, etc.. You’re messaging me on tumblr, so we must have known each other early on in my time on this meme-loving hellscape of a website.

2.) You’re recovering from something, which narrows down that list even more.

3.) The name squisher I think is in reference to… a nick-name I think. My Skype has a chat-room called the Squishy Fishies squad, which is a joke I made up a long time ago, I think.

4.) And then there’s the initials… DM, SW… And that’s what stumps me. I don’t know if I have all of the information to deduce what those are, but I want to so badly, heh. Even if I don’t figure that part out, I think I have enough info.

Well, if this is Damien from way back in the day, I’m glad to hear that you’re doing better. I’m not sure why you decided to send an anonymous ask instead of just messaging me; I think there are a few more personal ways we could talk, but if that’s what you wanted, then so be it. I hope the years treat you better and better. We had some good laughs before you decided to leave tumblr and Skype and all of that! Take care of yourself!

(And if it’s not Damien then… damn you’re good. WHAT ARE THE INITIALS)

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Anonymous asked:

hello!! ^^ so I'm an infp, having a huge a crush on an intj. but the problem is he's been acting rather hot and cold lately. one day he seems interested then there next, he seems indifferent and cold. I've been dropping major hints that I like him, but lately I'm very confused of what he feels towards me, yet I can't find the courage to just honestly let him know of my feelings. :c (your blog is amazing btw! )

Ah, sorry to hear all of that, INFP.

Well, I’ve had people be hot and cold with me, too, and it sucks. Unfortunately, I don’t think you’ll ever really know unless you ask. (Or have someone else ask, I guess, but I don’t know if that’s a great idea)

I was confused too, when the person I was interested in was hot and cold. Eventually, I just kind of got the courage to say how I felt, and she told me that she didn’t feel the same way. Which, of course, that sucked. But it was better than trying to guess her feelings for a long time, you know?

And I’m not me saying that’s how the INTJ is feeling. That is one possibility. If you really can’t manage to say it, I’ve always found writing notes to be a good thing. Like a hand-written one. Of course, thats not idea, because it could get lost on its way to him, etc..

Dropping hints is kind of hit or miss. It can be fun, but also, if it adds to the confusion of the relationship, it can cause some serious miscommunications, which is no good. Maybe he has no idea whats going on, maybe he’s trying not to be too obvious about liking you too, there are a lot of things it could be.

But at the end of the day, I think finding the courage to just be honest is what you’ll need. Because honesty, communication, trust (and of course romantic feelings) are the foundation of a relationship. It doesn’t matter if it sounds graceful. It doesn’t matter if you stutter your whole way through it. I did when I confessed my feelings. My breathing was super shaky, I stuttered a lot, and I’m pretty sure my face was ghost pale. But I got the words out, and that’s all you have to do. If he’s mature, he won’t make you feel bad for trying to be honest or for feeling the way that you do.

Whatever happens, it won’t be the end of the world. Things will either get better or get worse. But even if they get worse, it will always get better again because you’ll move on, and you can be proud of yourself for putting yourself out there! In the end-game, it’s a win-win. Good luck, INFP. I hope this helps you feel a little more solid in talking about how you feel; I hope that whatever happens, it goes well!

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