for those who’ve been following what’s been going on with my life for the past month, my mother had a hemorrhagic brain stroke on Friday 21/12/2018. 

after 2 expensive af surgeries and a not-so-expensive one (doctor made last one for free so all we had to pay was operating room and drainage kit, thank u doc) that were done for her to drain the blood acumulated in her head. Blood is almost gone now, but thing is that she’s still draining fluid even though there’s no blood left, so an internal valve needs to be installed in order to help her drain fluids in all her days to come!!! the goal is 4000$ this time, we can do dis!

we’re so close to having her stable again!!! please help us out!! i miss her so much!!!! 😭 i just wanna hug her again and tell her everything will be okay, god sake :( please

if you have any trouble donating through gofundme, you can also help through my paypal: fabrianaf@gmail.com and my ko-fi page https://ko-fi.com/A7181ULY

jfc i’m begging you

I’m concerned that Spiderverse is going to send a generation of future cosplayers the wrong message 

namely that it’s possible to spray paint cloth a different color

PSA you cannot spray paint anything that will bend, it will all turn to flakes and fall off. That goes for rubber boots, leather boots, foam, pretty much anything that flexes. You gotta use fabric spray paint for fabric, leather paint for leather, etc. 

Honestly I think that was the only criticism I had of that movie upon finishing it.

also please don’t use spray paint on a fucking MASK that you are going to be breathing out of.

You being gay doesn’t give you the right to wish or tell others to die over fiction you don’t like.

Your traumatic life experiences don’t give you the right to tell others to die, especially over fiction you don’t like.

You being mentally ill especially gives you no fucking right to wish or tell others to die over fucking fiction.

You don’t get any special treatment or excuses to treat others like shit and basically subhuman because of your sexuality, skin color, gender, life experiences, mental disorders, or just because you’re having a fucking bad day!

Grow up !! Stop treating fictional characters like REAL MOTHERFUCKIN HUMAN BEINGS !! TREAT HUMAN BEINGS LIKE HUMAN BEINGS YOU DENSE FUCK !!

honestly? im done with the lies. being little spoon fuckign sucks okay? it really does. its hot and sweaty and cramped and you better believe that arm wrapped around you is gunna go from “acceptable foreign weight” to “there is a literal blue whale colony collapsed atop you” in about 2 minutes flat. yall forreal want a FLESH BLANKET encasing you??? a goddamn slab prison of human skin and Person Tissue draped across your corporeal form??? find a God and grovel for redemption.

being big spoon though? divine. precious. it grants the sensation of being a benevolent egg white, swaddled loosely within your blanket shell as you in turn cradle the precious yolk within your grasp. you are a sublime deity of warmth and comfort, one who may bestow your blessing on any mortal you deem fit. an unparalleled joy to perform.

and you can grab a tit ty

can yall please stop reblogging this post i made after eating three entire packages of marshmallow peeps washed down with a near-deadly amount of nyquil 

Just say you’re a top and move on OP

happy new year dont forget bloodmoon This Momth.

we are off to a GREAT start

Am I the only one who thinks that hitting a kid and abuse are different things? Like, if I ever had a kid, I wouldn’t spank their ass raw or something like that. But a bop on the mouth or the ear pull or a smack upside the head? Yea. Those are behavior modifiers.

Except they’re not.

The studies done by the trained psychologists in this joke show that little kids don’t associate being hit with the thing they’ve done wrong. Very small children only understand consequences that are directly caused by the thing they did. Steal a biscuit, biscuit tastes good. Then for no reason mummy hit me. Very different to stole a biscuit, now no biscuit after dinner because I stole a biscuit.

And they also show that when a child is old enough to understand why they are being hit that non-physical punishment is equally as effective and less mentally harmful in the long run.

Do you know who benefits the most from hitting as a punishment? The parent. It gives a satisfaction rush. Parents do it because it makes them feel good.

Basically kids have two stages: too young to understand why they are being hit so physical punishment is useless for anything other than teaching a child that bigger stronger people can hit you whenever they like (Which sounds like the same lesson you would learn from abuse)

And the second stage is old enough to be reasoned with so many punishment options are available and you chose physical violence because it makes *you* feel better, which is an abusive action.

The only time a person should ever use violence against another human being, of any age, is to stop that person from being violent themselves.

Hitting a stranger is a crime. Hitting someone small who relies on you for food, love, and shelter should be as well. Don’t hit your fucking kid.

did i spend all my time on his eyes? yes.

have another wip of minhyuk where it doesn’t even look like him. oop. 

anyway lesbians are attracted to trans women because they’re women

me: lesbians like women

terfs: (just go fucking apeshit)

Talking about nothing but politics can be exhausting.  Socialism is not a personality trait and it’s important to have hobbies and interests outside of the movement.

I’m reading about bigfoots and monsters and learning Python.  What are y’all up to?

designing a pve card game based around the application of the Schrödinger’s Cat theory to the top card of a shuffled deck. currently trying to cast the deck as an array of possibilities instead of an array of cards

thinking about how to make special brownies.

also while we’re talking about nanaimo, a 17 year old indigenous girl went missing from the city yesterday. please also bring attention to that so we can get her home safely.

Mabel James-Jones went missing from her home in Nanaimo, BC on 12/20/18

She’s 4’11 and about 120lbs

Non-emergency RCMP line is 250-754-2345

go karamo go

Heads up recall…

boosting keep your bits safe people

the one brand of tampons I use…. are you fucking kidding me?

PUBLISHED: DEC 12TH, 2018 - 10:34AM (EST)UPDATED: DEC 12TH, 2018 - 4:00PM (EST)

INDIANAPOLIS (WTHR) — The company that owns Kotex is recalling its U by Kotex Sleek Tampons due to a quality-related defect.

According to the company, the tampons are unraveling or coming apart upon removal. In some cases, users have had to seek medical attention to remove tampon pieces left in the body.

The recall affects tampons manufactured between October 7, 2016 and October 16, 2018. They were distributed from October 17, 2016 to October 23, 2018, according to Kimberly-Clark.com.

Symptoms of the defect include pain, swelling, infections, nausea or vomiting. There have been a small number of reports of infections and injury, according to the company.

Anyone with the affected products are urged to stop using the product immediately and contact Kimberly-Clark’s Consumer Service team at 1-888-255-3499.

To see the full list of recalled products, click here.

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                       !!!!!!!!! BREAKING NEWS !!!!!!!!!!

The Tennessee Supreme Court ruled former sex slave Cyntoia Brown MUST serve 51 years in prison before she is eligible for parole.

According to them:

For those of you who haven’t yet caught up to this story:

Cyntoia Brown was a 16 yr old girl, who at the time of the incident was living in a room at a Nashville InTown Suites with Allen (the man who propositioned her for sex) because her pimp and boyfriend Garion McGlothen, nick-named “Kut Throat,” insisted that she needed to earn money.

Kut Throat abused her physically and sexually throughout the approximately three week period in which she lived with him.

After Allen took her to his house, he showed Cyntoia multiple guns, including shotguns and rifles. Later in bed, as she described in court, he grabbed her violently by the genitals, his demeanor became threatening and, fearing for her life, she took a gun out of her purse and shot him.

IF YOU WANT TO HELP:

You can sign this petition 

Call Governor Bill Haslam (615)-741-2001. she has a Clemency hearing May 23rd. DEMAND JUSTICE!!

#StayWoke

The parole board split on whether Cyntoia should be granted clemency. /BillHaslam can still grant her clemency before he leaves in January. You can reach him at: phone #: (615) 741-2001; e-mail: bill.haslam@tn.gov

Black activists are being lynched but there’s no media coverage

I know you white people don’t care but history is repeating itself

YIKES

another donation post

man i really am tired of having to do this, but i literally just do not make enough money to get by, even with my boyfriend’s help and I have to deal with ANOTHER overdraft fee, but instead of $35 like it’s been for a while it was $140 and I do not want to end the day negative again and continue to get charged. I got sent some money by friends and users here, so my amt is only at $-71. I just paid rent the other day and haven’t gotten paid yet, so I’ve been floating on with no safety cushion in the form of savings.

I’m working full time, I’m looking for a new job, and my expenses are mostly for transportation, even moreso than food! I don’t have a car and the bus system where I live is incredibly exhausting and annoying to navigate.

I’ve stated before that these posts are just a way to subsidize my living. You are not obligated to donate if you don’t want to. Any assistance helps. 

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