Moved

@tofearthewolves-blog / tofearthewolves-blog.tumblr.com

Moved to dostoevskian.
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This blog is now archived

It’s time for me move on and start to heal. I’m signing out and saying goodbye.

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Threads moved

In my drafts on dostoevskian I have:
Any other threads will be transferred if you choose to follow me there.

I’ve moved over my threads with assistantdarcy. The threads remaining in my drafts ( anarchiisms and wintersspectre ) will remain here unless the other parties wish to continue them on my new blog.

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I’m moving! 

I’ve been having trouble here for a few weeks now, and I feel like this is the best thing for me to do right now. New blog is under construction but it’s basically the same as this one. No rules have changed. 

I’ll be carrying threads over, so long as I maintain a mutual with the person I’m threading with. 

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All right, I’m going to start following people on my new account tomorrow. If you want me to fuck off then ignore me I guess. It’s your loss. 

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please always give advice
I’m so old and I have so advice much to give

to the other people like me who always want closure: you’re probably not going to get it, not matter how hard you try. It’s up to you to put things aside and move forward. I know you want people to say the right thing that will make everything okay, but it’s not going to happen. You’re still going to be hurt and upset. Nothing people say can salve the hurt. You just have to move forward. I know it’s hard, but you’re going to be okay.

To everyone who’s insecure: maybe your writing needs work, but the fact is everyone of us can improve. Even those writers who get lots of praise from anons. Writing is all about working on your writing. Always.

To everyone in general: don’t put up with stuff that makes you uncomfortable. Whether it’s about unfollowing some or asking someone to tag something or cut out some kind of behavior, it’s okay for you to do it. Don’t let people mock your for being triggered or uncomfortable. They’re the assholes here. 

And if anyone wants advice, you can go ahead and ask this drunk old lady. 

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I really am a good person and yes I have a personality disorder and that’s nothing to excuse the times when I lash out but at least I’m real. At least I’m not fake af. You can always come to me for the truth and I’ll give it to you. 

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listen to me 

listen to drunk b all right

some people are going to fuck you over. cut them right the fuck out of your life because you are better than that. don’t hold on because you need someone else’s approval. be good to yourself. I know sometimes it seems like you have to hold on to feel worthy, but let go when you need to.

you deserve better. 

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