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I tripped into The Untamed so I live there now

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Dani | 36 | This is my fandom trash heap and I love it | Ao3: Netrixie | not JC or JGY friendly

sometimes I wonder how y'all are obsessed with specific characters and I'm like "why them" but then I remember that sometimes its literally not your choice you just look at them wrong and all of a sudden they're taking up your every thought forever

to quote someone who was a genius on bluesky:

bitches will bring a million things to do on a train ride or long car trip and then spend the entire time looking out the window and daydreaming. i’m bitches

You don’t understand. I need the OPTION of doing other things. Daydreaming is best done while procrastinating, so I need to have a book, a game, a crochet/knitting project AND a party to plan, or I won’t get any daydreaming done!

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should i eat first or shower first *has phone in couch time for another 3 hours due to choice procrastination, a behavioral phenomenon observed in pigeons and rats as well*

i' m something of a pigeons and rats myself

I really don't understand how "without getting kudos or comments a fanfiction author is going to assume that people who clicked their fic didn't like it" became a controversial take.

I don't know why some people think an author should imagine, or guess that people who click their fic enjoyed it it when nobody is telling them that.

If you're re-reading a fic constantly, or leaving it up in your tab so that it re-loads every day for a hundred days the author is not going to know that unless you tell them. They'd love to hear it. It would make their day.

And if you don't tell them you liked their fic, there's no reason for them to assume you did.

Writers on AO3 when they see the hit counter on their fic go up and get an email that someone left kudos or a comment: Yay! People like my story! This made my day!

Writers on AO3 when they see the hit counter on their fic go up but the number of kudos/bookmarks/subscriptions/comments doesn't change: Oh. People are reading my story, but I guess they didn't like it.

Writers on Tumblr when they see notifications on their story: Yay! People are liking my story! Oh, somebody left a nice comment! Oh, they even reblogged it! That was so sweet of them!

Writers on Tumblr when they see 0 notes on their story: Nobody read it.

Also, just for fun, here are the stats for my fanfic with the most hits:

Almost half of the comments are my replies, so there are actually 27 individual comments. And almost 27,000 hits. So, basically a 1:10,000 ratio.

Do you still think writers are being unreasonable?

While 27 comments may not be much when someone gets them gradually, it's a lot to read through to make sure you're not contributing to unintentional spam.

unintentional spam?? I'm sorry this is just such a foreign idea to me.

I promise you there are vanishingly few authors who would be upset to receive more than one comment saying the same (positive) things!

If I receive multiple emails of comments on something I write, there is an actual zero percent chance of me being upset by it. Literally would make my day, week, month. Love your authors! Comments do not have to be detailed analysis - something as simple as “<3” conveys so much. (In fact, the very first comment I got on AO3 was “<3” and I treasure it.)

Spam your local fic author with comments. You never know what could happen.

They might fall in love with you.

Happened to the Goob author. Happened to me.

I made one of my dearest friends this way. And I bet she'd be completely unsurprised to know I still have her comments saved.

Tell 'em how long it's been, @sparklingganymede.

like a solid 60% of weird fandom tropes were invented by women who needed slightly more avant garde ways to fuck spock.... wanting to fuck spock is in many ways a load bearing pillar of fandom like if u took it away the source code would just break theres like a molecule of wanting to fuck spock or reaction to everyone wanting to fuck spock within the heart of fanfic all fanfiction is about wanting to fuck spock except fanfic about wanting to fuck spock which is about women in stem

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Nie Mingjue: Come on, I wasn’t that drunk last night. Nie Huaisang: You were flirting with Er-ge. Nie Mingjue: So what? He's my fiance. Nie Huaisang: You asked him if he was single. Nie Mingjue: Nie Huaisang: And then you cried when he said he wasn't.
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da-ge looking left

da-ge looking right

da-ge looking at his xichen who he loves with all his might

🥺🥹😭😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🤭

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Anonymous asked:

modern nielan have so many options for meet-uglies as kids because of their didis? library meet-ugly. pool/waterpark meet-ugly. park meet-ugly. daycare/afterschool care meet-ugly. zoo or petting zoo meet ugly. cat cafe/bunny cafe meet ugly. Honestly, with all of these terrible meet-uglies, it's amazing that nielan get along so well.

Lan Wangji and Nie Huaisang: *duking it out in the daycare parking lot*

Nielan: *trying to get their didis under control so they can exchange phone numbers and persuade their respective guardians to set up a playdate*

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