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Teddy Bear 🧸🧷

@teddybear-withme

Hey hey! You can call me Teddy. I'm a lifelong DL and Daddy. 30. Very active in the AB/DL and BDSM communities. Demisexual and a hopeless romantic. I own a kinky CPA practice! Insatiable wanderlust—road trips and adventures are kinda my thing. Here to express my kinky side, create friendships, and build community. Kink blog, so 18+ only.
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Welcome to my page! I'm Teddy. 🧸 I'm here to build friendships and community in the ageplay and kinky worlds. I’m 30 and this is an 18+ blog. Here’s a bit about me and what to expect on my humble corner of the internet. + Passionate Daddy and lifelong diaper lover 🧷 + Demisexual and deeply romantic 💖 + Single after I ended a prior vanilla marriage ❤️‍🩹 + I have a nursery where I help little friends feel safe and secure by being a nonsexual babysitter 🍼 + I'm a CPA and owner of Teddy Bear CPA, a kink friendly tax service for businesses, individuals, and content creators 💵 + Planner and host of munches, private parties, and an ardent community organizer 🎉 + Prolific adventurer with insatiable wanderlust 🏔️ + I love meeting up with kinky folks everywhere I go—reach out! 📞 + Kink photographer and videographer for tons of friends 📸 + Producer, transcriber, and guest host of the Love In Brief podcast 🎙️ + My best friend and roommate: @lolaandthens0me 💛 + Other kinks include shibari (rigger), impact play, and bondage 🪢 + I don't drink or take drugs—happily the DD for friends 🚘 + Other hobbies: nature photography, hiking, tennis, baseball, weather, baking, grilling, music, reading, podcasts

Personal links: + Instagram (private) + Fetlife + Twitter + Reddit

Teddy Bear CPA links: + Instagram + Fetlife + Twitter

"A stranger is just a friend you haven't met yet."

With love, - 🧸

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resonantyes

LIB 115 has just dropped!

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to walk into a real brick-and-mortar ABDL store? Or to find a whole section of your regional medical supply company dedicated to ABDL stuff? This episode brings us a fabulous discussion with Lora and Bob, owners of two different small businesses: ABDL brick-and-mortar stores that serve their regions. We talk about what it's like to open an ABDL retail store, how they provide confidentiality and safe welcome to their customers, and some tips on engaging an ABDL store as your first real-life contact with the community.

Special thanks to TeddyBearWithMe for producing this episode, and to DadBod for the audio fix work and editing!

Really excited for this episode to finally come out! I've had the idea in the works for a while.

I talk about this on the episode, but my first ever in-person experience with the kink community was at a brick-and-mortar store. I lurked online for a decade of my adult life before summoning the courage to walk into that store. Now I'm co-hosting a podcast about it! I talk about some of the feelings of anxiety I felt, then how surreal it was to actually be there. Our shop-owner guests paint a picture for what it's like to walk into the store from their perspective, and just how common an experience that is for them.

A huge "thank you" to Lora from Personal Care (Fort Wayne, IN) and Bob from MyDiaperDepot (Cincinnati, OH) for coming on!

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What a weekend! It’s been a few days, but I’m still reveling in the local community fun we had last weekend. @lolaandthens0me and I put a ton of work into it, and we couldn’t have done it without our friends’ support. Some highlights:

+ A bonfire night with s’mores + An ABDL zoo outing + A backyard picnic potluck with yard games + An Easter egg hunt with a bunch of candy + A munch with pizza, snacks, crafts, cartoons, story time, and a huge community mural

So much planning went into this over the last few months, but it’s worth it to now see the local community continue to grow.

For those looking to build their own local community, I want to offer support. Something like this can happen anywhere, but it takes work and support from others. I haven’t been organizing as long as many, but I’m always happy to add my perspective.

The more organizers and events we have, the stronger local communities we can create. And in the process, we’ll all feel a little less alone.

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Join me and my firm Teddy Bear CPA this weekend for a US tax education class at the inaugural Grand Fetish Affair. Looking to start a business or make a living in kink? On the fence about making the jump but uncertain how it works? Then this is the class for you!

Learn how to get started as a self-employed taxpayer and set yourself up for long-term success. We’ll tackle some common deductions for the kink industry, as well as other tips to minimize your tax liability.

What are quarterly estimated payments? Do I have to report that income? Find out these answers and more!

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Check out my last post for some pictures, videos, and thoughts about the 2024 eclipse. But I saved the best for its own post because it deserves it.

This timelapse of totality is the most incredible thing I’ve ever captured. Watch as the sun—the thing that gives us all life—is extinguished in an instant. Gives me chills every time.

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Totality Returns

Yesterday was truly beyond description. I found the perfect spot, secluded and surrounded only by the sounds of nature. Harbor and Brownie came along for the ride, and safely observed the partial eclipse with me.

This is my second time in totality, and I can still hardly believe it. The sun disappearing was even more moving and unsettling than last time. Night was darker and longer. More uncontrollable tears and shouting. An incredible solar prominence could be soon. And then there was the 360-degree sunset, fully visible from my spot. Simply breathtaking.

I got what could be the world’s first ABDL diaper picture during totality. Wearing a diaper during such a moving experience felt so right.

I’m in constant awe of the world. The travel I do, the beauty and wonder I seek out in sunsets, viewpoints, and secluded places—they stem from my totality experiences in 2017 and now again in 2024. Consider me a devout totalitarian. (Okay, maybe we’ll workshop the name.)

I saved the best for last. Check out the chilling timelapse of totality that I captured.

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Taking Over the Sun

It’s finally happening. I’ve been waiting for totality to return for seven years. Here I was on August 21, 2017 in Kelly, Kentucky.

I had driven to St. Louis for the weekend, preparing for the eclipse in 2017. The forecast the night before was looking too cloudy there, so I packed up my hotel and drove several hours pre-dawn down to Kentucky. I discovered the Little Green Men Festival, which through sheer coincidence is held on August 21st every year to celebrate a local alien abduction story. The perfect place to watch the eclipse!

Last fall, through another sheer coincidence, my unplanned road trip took me to Crater Lake in Oregon on the exact day of the annular (not total) solar eclipse. A fun experience, but nothing like totality.

A week later in Yosemite, I met this super sweet elderly couple touring the US parks from New Zealand. We had a wonderful conversation for over an hour, and I learned they had traveled over for the eclipse the week before. She said they visited the US in 2017 for that eclipse, too. So naturally, I told them about the Little Green Men Festival in Kentucky. They were dumbfounded—they were there too! Traveled all the way from New Zealand to absolute nowhere Kentucky. We couldn’t believe we were all in the same place! I wonder where they’ll be tomorrow along the eclipse path. I know they’ll be here again.

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Totality is truly unlike anything else. Here's my unedited picture from 2017. Nothing will ever do it justice though. You have to experience totality to believe it. 99.99% coverage isn’t enough.

It’s likely the most dazzling eclipse in the entire universe. Not solar system, not Milky Way. The entire universe. The sun is 400 times larger than the moon but it’s also 400 times further away from us. An absolutely incredible galactic coincidence. And with the moon slowly drifting away, total solar eclipses will end in the future.

On top of all that, the planet with this incredible eclipse has sentient life who understand and appreciate an eclipse. Plus, you and I are the lucky humans to be alive during the short period when eclipses are predictable and we can leave our villages to seek them out. The improbability of it all is just beyond definition to me.

The moment totality began in 2017 was the most awe-inspiring second of my life. I unexpectedly started sobbing, and couldn’t believe the unthinkable wonder of what I was witnessing. The sound in this video is the raw reaction of me, my ex, and the crowd around us. The sun, the thing that gives us all life, had been extinguished.

It was the first time nature had moved me like that, and it has changed me forever. The travel I do, the beauty and wonder I seek out in sunsets, viewpoints, and secluded places—they all stem from my experience in 2017. Totality finally returns tomorrow.

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I had the best time visiting @lolaandthens0me and @teddybear-withme and @resonantyes this weekend! You won’t find more generous hosts and kind souls. Lola gave me these Target pull-ups to try from her cute little nursery. They were a little tight on me, but did the trick because I had two wettings before I was changed. Lots more pictures and videos from the weekend coming soon! :)

I’m on a road trip right now and about to change into an M4. I’m done stopping at rest stops! 🚗 🚘 🚙 🛻 💨

Aww, you’re too kind. It was so great catching up! And couldn’t agree more about rest stop bathrooms. 😅 Bon voyage! 🚢

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I’m in the home stretch of tax season. During the most stressful days, my mind wanders to places like these. Moments that filled me with wonder. Moments that made me feel larger than life. Moments that provided a sense of peace and a space to reflect. Soon I’ll be hitting the road for more, and I can’t wait to stumble upon these places again.

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One year ago today, I took a major step and went to my first BDSM dungeon party. That night I met @bonsaibaby0, who was at her first party too. Finding another ABDL at the dungeon was so validating, and it removed any nerves I had about being accepted in that world. We’ve become super close friends this last year, engaging in local shenanigans and even traveling to Colorado for a fun weekend together. They say to never let a chaos gremlin into your life. Well, I’m glad I did. Happy friendiversary, Kashi! ✨

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ABDL craft day with 10 local friends, both old and new. Nothing beats con drop like a vibrant local community. So grateful for those who came out today for some fun! Can’t wait to keep building up this local scene. 🙌🏻

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What an incredible weekend at CAPCon 2024! Heading home today. More later, but:

+ Gave out all 300 of my mini bears

+ Love In Brief live panelist

+ 50 attendees to my lunch munch

+ 400 Teddy Bear CPA cards given out

+ Countless new friends and memories

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