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bossymarmalade

@bossymarmalade / bossymarmalade.tumblr.com

maggie (or marissa): fortysomething, indo-trini canadian, genderfluid asexual. coming to you straight from the heart of smoked salmon country. using tag #usermarmalade
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Unknown artist, “Dagger. Probably Agra” (c. 1610–20), nephrite jade hilt and scabbard set with rubies, emeralds, and a pearl in kundan settings; watered steel blade with gold-overlaid decoration Mughal court workshops, “Pendant” (c. 1610–20), nephrite jade set with rubies and emeralds in gold
#chromatic voice#we all make art#usermarmalade
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I genuinely had to double check and make sure some of these were April Fools jokes

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Reblogged stupidlullabies
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Tumblr's Most Heard of but Unseen Movies
A collection of the top 100 movies that Tumblr has heard of but has NOT SEEN per poll results on haveyouseenthismovie-poll blog. TW: A
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@leaving-earth requested the least seen movies. So here we have a list of the top 100 films that tumblr users reported as having heard of but not having seen per results on @haveyouseenthismovie-poll.

TW: A couple of films famous for racism are on this list so please enter at your own risk.

#41#lol the warning for racism when it's just a list#if poc avoided watching racist shit#we'd never see movies at all
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Reblogged rubynye
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“I’m having my son in 2 months and I’m jealous of how cute baby girl clothes are” you can put your newborn son in a little strawberry print romper, I swear. he won’t mind. he won’t develop a complex over it, I promise.

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It’s so interesting how heavily gendered baby clothes are an extremely modern phenomenon like even in the midcentury period baby clothes were often the same cut and color for baby boys and baby girls but now you can’t put your son in a pink romper and you have to use baby glue to affix a flower to your daughter’s head so everyone knows she’s a little girl.

#when i thought i might have a baby#i planned to dress them in purple and yellow#<- prev yes!#my mom did this with us as girls (70s)#my cousin did this w her son (90s)#good west indian traditions lol
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Desert Island Tracks
i had to sort by popularity because listchallenges.com won't let me randomly shuffle. but anyway, pick the things you've heard, you know
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yaay music. i put together 150 of my favorite songs. it was hard.

okay let's try to do a poll correctly now.

i assume the floor will be higher than on movie lists bc songs are easier to hear than a whole movie is to watch. so hopefully the options make sense with that in mind.

#54!#also girl - KOBO TOWN??#trini-canadian group nobody knows?? 😍
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Reblogged fortressofsolitude
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I think cis people should also be their gender of choice. Like, if you're a man, you should get to really enjoy being a man- have fun with it! If you're a woman, take the parts of womanhood that really deeply make you happy. If being a little androgynous or ambiguous or hidden is the part that really makes you happy, you don't have to be trans for that. If you wanna lean really hard into being femme or masc- do it! You have one life in your body, do what makes you happy. Ditch the stuff you don't like.

My sinister queer agenda is I think that everyone should be the gender they like in the way they like it.

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I call this Cis+ and I highly recommend people who have never had questions about their gender try it out.

#queer culture#i would've been id'ing as cis+ for quite a while#if i'd had the terminology#i needed that before i arrived at genderqueer/fluid#sometimes you don't know until you try to live it!
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