5th May - ‘I call you friends’, Reflection on the readings for Sixth Sunday of Easter (John 15:9-17)
Sixth Sunday of Easter
One of the greatest gifts in life is friendship. The Book of Sirach in the Old Testament declares, ‘A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter: whoever has found one has found a treasure. There is nothing so precious as a faithful friend’. The image of a faithful friend as a sturdy shelter, as a treasure, rings true to all our experience. For many married people, their best friend is their spouse. All of us, hopefully, whether married or single, have a faithful friend, someone who loves us as we are, who listens to us when we need a listening ear, who stands by us in good times and in dark times. Each of us is probably such a friend to someone. It is difficult to get through life without the love of a friend.
In today’s gospel reading, Jesus says to his disciples, ‘I call you friends’. The disciples represent us all. What Jesus says to them, he says to each one of us. We probably have many images of Jesus. The image of Jesus in today’s gospel reading is that of a friend. He offers himself to us as a faithful friend. He says that he reveals his friendship for us in two ways. Friends trust one another enough to share what is deepest in their hearts. In today’s gospel reading, Jesus says he has done just this with us all, ‘I have made know to you, everything I have learnt from my Father’. What was deepest in Jesus’ heart was his relationship with God, his Father, and he has shared that relationship with us. In the words of the second reading, he has revealed God to be Love. He hasn’t simply spoken to us about God’s love but has given expression to God’s love in his whole way of life and, especially, in his death. Like a trusting friend, Jesus has opened up his heart, God’s heart, to us. There is a second way in which Jesus says he reveals his friendship for us. A faithful friend will go the extra mile for us. They will make sacrifices for us, not because of some sense of duty, but just out of the love they have for us. They will stand by us to the end because it is what they want to do in their heart of hearts. Jesus has made the ultimate sacrifice for us. In the gospel reading he says, ‘A man can have no great love than to lay down his life for his friends’. Jesus revealed the depth of his friendship for us by laying down his life for us. His great mission in life was to reveal God’s love for us, and he was faithful to that mission even though he knew that it would cost him his life. In laying down his life for us, he showed the extent and depth of his friendship for us. This Sunday, we are invited to hear those words of Jesus as addressed to each of us personally, ‘I call you friends’. His friendship is his incredible gift to us, and it is a gift he will never take back. He is the ultimate and supreme ‘faithful friend’.
Jesus also says in the gospel reading that he has befriended us in this complete way, ‘so that my own joy may be in you and your joy be complete’. The gift of true friendship is a blessing which always brings us joy. A faithful friend is one of the great joys of life. Jesus himself knew the joy of God his Father’s friendship. By befriending us, he wants us to share in his joy. By loving us as God loves him, he wants us to know a joy that nothing in this world can give us, a joy that is complete. We can seek happiness in all kinds of places, but true joy, a joy that is deeply rooted and lasting, is found when we open ourselves up to the gift of the Lord’s faithful friendship. We will only fully experience the joy Jesus speaks about in eternal life when we will be fully opened up to his love, but here and now Jesus wants us to begin to experience this joy by receiving the gift of his friendship. We can sometimes struggle to receive this gift of the Lord’s faithful love, just as at the Last Supper Peter struggled to allow Jesus to wash his feet. ‘Never’, he said, ‘you shall never wash my feet’. Yet, the Lord keeps offering us this gift in the hope we will receive it or, in the words of the gospel reading, that we will remain in his love, his friendship.
The Lord’s friendship is faithful, it remains, but in today’s gospel reading he calls on us to remain in his friendship, to remain in his love. The primary way we remain in his loving friendship, Jesus says, is by allowing his faithful love to flow through us and to touch the lives of others. We are to love one another as he has loved us, to befriend one another as he has befriended us. Jesus poured out on us the love he received from God his Father, and he calls on us to pour out on others the love we receive from him. When this happens, then we will know something of Jesus’ own joy, the joy of eternal live.