The only person responsible for your feelings, thoughts, or behavior is YOU. If your feelings are hurt, if you are offended by something, if you feel you didn’t get your due, the best thing to do is find a mirror and peer into it. The person staring back at you is the only one who can move you forward.
Everything pretty much changes in the second half of life. The years that I dreaded are the years in which I am coming alive, the person I was in the first half would not recognize me - and I'm not sure I know who he was. The new me has a vision and an understanding as well as a restlessness with the tried and true explanations of just about everything the story of which - or evidence of which - is contained here.