to those who have deities… how did you come to find them/“choose” them? i’m a new witch and very curious about how people “decide” the deities they practice worship for… (i’m not even sure if i’m using the right terminology so forgive me if i’m not)
Not everyone is going to have a patron deity. It isn’t mandatory. It’s also perfectly normal and acceptable to form working relationships with gods that don’t go past that level. They can be fulfilling without going deeper.
If a deity has interest in a personal relationship or patronage with you they will typically approach you, rather than the other way around. You can choose a deity and ask them to take you into their service, but if they don’t reciprocate you can’t force the issue - you will just have to accept they’re not that into you.
Please bear in mind that patronage is a very demanding relationship - you are devoting yourself to a life of service to your patron. Patronage is a magical and rewarding experience, but at the same time it’s hard work. Patron deities can and will demand things of you that can be involved, inconvenient, expensive, and time-consuming. If you think about the movie ‘The Devil Wears Prada’, and how that girl was on-call to her boss 24-7 without respite or reason….it’s kinda like that, sometimes. There’s not much glamour, and the relationship is very much about the deity, and not at all about you.
If you’re inclined, make yourself a quiet space. Dress it up or down - you don’t need anything, but I like to light a candle, burn a little incense, and make an offering - clean water, a cup of tea, a glass of wine. Get yourself into a relaxed and open state of mind, and when you’re ready introduce yourself to the Gods. Let them know who you are, and you’d like to know them better. Meditate for a while, if you can, and see if anyone or anything comes to you. If not, don’t worry. They will have heard you, and will respond when the time is right. You just have to be patient, and keep an eye out for signs.
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