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PRO TIP: instead of thinking “i should be healthier/more organized/etc,” change your phrasing to “i’d like to become healthier” or “i’d like to learn to be more organized.” stop paralyzing urself with guilt for what you aren’t & start focusing on what you can be
so metropolitan museum of art has a register of books they’ve published that are out of print and that you can download for free! they’re mostly books on art, archeology, architecture, fashion and history and i just think that’s super useful and interesting so i wanted to share! you can find all of the books available here!
hey if you’re a coffee/espresso person here’s a List of First Nations/Indigenous Owned Roasters.
USA
Sacred Grounds Coffee (AK) formerly Tlingit land
Native Coffee Traders (NY) Patachogue nation
Thunder Island Coffee Roasters (NY) Shinnecock-owned
Tribal Grounds Coffee (NC) (was part of Cherokee land)
Ekowah Coffee (OK) formerly Osage or Kiowa land
Spirit Mountain Roasting Co. (CA) (on Quechan Land)
O-Gah-Pah (MO) Quapaw-owned
Arcadia Valley Roasting Company (MO) formerly Osage or Illini land
Takelma Roasting Co. (OR)
Kawi Cafe, not a roaster (OK) Cherokee Nation
Yeego Coffee (Kinłání Dookʼoʼoosłííd Biyaagi) Navajo-owned
Native Blend Coffee (CA)
Beaver Tales Coffee (local pick up in Skagit County, WA)
Salish Grounds (WA) (formerly land of the Lushootseed people)
Bison Coffeehouse (OR) (formerly land of the Chinook people)
Star Village Coffee (NV) (formerly Washoe land)
Native Harvest (MN) White Earth Reservation, Ojibwe people
Spotted Horse Coffees (MN) (formerly Ojibwe land)
Canada
Australia
Lilypad Cafe in Sydney (not a roaster) run by an Aboriginal couple, one of whom is an ethnobotanist and works to curate/preserve Aboriginal cuisine.
in which i recommend books like the netflix algorithm
you wanted it, you got it, babes! caveat: this list is long (seriously, sorry about the length) and i can’t write blurbs for everything, but i highly recommend going and looking at anything that sounds interesting. some books will fall under multiple headings, so i’m listing them twice. i am linking to their purchase pages on bookshop.org, because amazon sucks and bookshop helps support indie booksellers, but if your local indie bookstore offers delivery or curbside pickup, buy it there. and i’m trying to keep this list confined to pretty recent titles, so even though a few older ones might slip in there, it’s definitely centered on releases from the past few years. okay let’s do this.
if you want a book that feels like a primal scream:
- godshot by chelsea bieker
- the book of joan by lidia yuknavitch
- girl, woman, other by bernadine evaristo
- her body and other parties by carmen maria machado (short stories)
- trust exercise by susan choi
- my dark vanessa by kate elizabeth russell
- the rehearsal by eleanor catton
- indelicacy by amina cain
- the answers by catherine lacey
- the mars room by rachel kushner
- the love affairs of nathaniel p. by adelle waldman
if you want clever social commentary and/or hilarious female protagonists:
- you too can have a body like mine by alexandra kleeman
- the new me by halle butler
- queenie by candice carty-williams
- prep by curtis sittenfeld
- the idiot by elif batumen
- my year of rest and relaxation by ottessa moshfegh
- oksana, behave! by maria kuznetsova
- where’d you go, bernadette by maria semple
- convenience store woman by sayaka murata
- nothing to see here by kevin wilson
- made for love by alissa nutting
- the pisces by melissa broder
- the herd by andrea bartz
if you want to start reading the unhinged women canon (not all recent):
- mrs. dalloway by virginia woolf
- the awakening by kate chopin
- we have always lived in the castle by shirley jackson
- gone girl by gillian flynn
- rebecca by daphne du maurier
- white oleander by janet fitch
- cousin bette by honore de balzac
- wide sargasso sea by jean rhys
- play it as it lays by joan didion
- the piano teacher by elfriede jelinek
- valley of the dolls by jacqueline susann
- postcards from the edge by carrie fisher
if you liked the secret history:
- if we were villains by m.l. rio
- social creature by tara isabelle burton
- the basic eight by daniel handler
- the incendiaries by r.o. kwon
- bunny by mona awad
- hex by rebecca dinerstein knight
if you like speculative/dystopian fiction:
- the dreamers by karen thompson walker
- the book of joan by lidia yuknavitch
- severance by lin ma
- gold fame citrus by claire vaye watkins
- the farm by joanne ramos
- followers by megan angelo
- the power by naomi alderman
- the glass hotel by emily st. john mandel
if you want a book that reads like a good fanfic:
- normal people by sally rooney
- fame adjacent by sarah skilton
- stay up with hugo best by erin somers
- the seven husbands of evelyn hugo by taylor jenkins reid
- circe by madeline miller
- the nobodies by liza palmer
- evvie drake starts over by linda holmes
if you like dark stories about complex relationships between women:
- my sister, the serial killer by oyinkan braithwaite
- baby teeth by zoje stage
- dare me by megan abbott
- eileen by ottessa moshfegh
- social creature by tara isabelle burton
- the worst kind of want by liska jacobs
- the girls by emma cline
- oligarchy by scarlett thomas
- devotion by madeline stevens
- baby by annaleese jochems
- marlena by julie buntin
- bunny by mona awad
- necessary people by anna pitoniak
if you like stories about complicated families:
- red at the bone by jacqueline woodson
- the care and feeding of ravenously hungry girls by anissa grey
- mostly dead things by kristen arnett
- bee season by myla goldberg
- bowlaway by elizabeth mccracken
- everything i never told you by celeste ng
- the nest by cynthia d’aprix sweeney
- the grammarians by cathleen schine
- ask again, yes by mary beth keane
if you like smart and thoughtful books about relationships between women:
- my brilliant friend and the neapolitan novels by elena ferrante
- such a fun age by kiley reid
- gingerbread by helen oyeyimi
- the female persuasion by meg wolitzer
- the burning girl by claire messud
- expectation by anna hope
- the animators by kayla rae whitaker
if you want something queer that isn’t YA:
- my education by susan choi
- permission by saskia vogel
- mostly dead things by kristen arnett
- real life by brandon taylor
- after dolores by sarah schulman
- patsy by nicole dennis-benn
- wilder girls by rory power
- enter the aardvark by jessica anthony
- less by andrew sean greer
- exciting times by naiose dolan
you just want something good and are willing to take a chance on one of these books i love (these are not all recent, i just like them a lot):
- dept. of speculation by jenny offill
- the interestings by meg wolitzer
- godshot by chelsea bieker
- play it as it lays by joan didion
- the bonfire of the vanities by tom wolfe
- wolf in white van by john darnielle
- things you would know if you grew up around here by nancy wayson dinan
- sex and rage by eve babitz
- wise blood by flannery o’connor
- leading men by christopher castellani
- saint x by alexis schaitkin
- the cosmopolitans by sarah schulman
- lake success by gary shteyngart
- odds against tomorrow by nathaniel rich
- the great believers by rebecca makkai
- good citizens need not fear by maria reva (short stories)
Is it just me or are in home libraries like the dreamiest thing? A little cozy room lined with shelves, full of books of all shape and color that you’ve collected over the years, with a big round window in an alcove where you can sit and sip some tea and thumb through your favorite novel and listen to the rain pattering against the glass. Thats the life
If you're celebrating Biden's win, consider celebrating by donating to a bail fund, planned parenthood, or the Navajo Water project.
Your action to help the marginalized shouldnt end at presidential candidates and voting.
To add some more:
And of course it’s always a good day to venmo, paypal, or cashapp black, indigenous and other POC in your community, or donate to your community mutual aid fund.
You don’t have to go to university to be an academic, there are other ways of learning.
You don’t have to go to university to be an academic, there are other ways of learning.
You don’t have to go to university to be an academic, there are other ways of learning.
You don’t have to go to university to be an academic, there are other ways of learning.
You don’t have to go to university to be an academic, there are other ways of learning.
You don’t have to go to university to be an academic, there are other ways of learning.
You don’t have to go to university to be an academic, there are other ways of learning.
professor: ur research paper is due tomorrow
me:
Working From Home
The ups and downs of working from a (very small) rented home: an under-the-stairs ‘office’. I’ve been trying to commit to working here every day instead of being tempted to the sofa or a cushion on the rug… Last week I asked you for your best working-from-home advice over on instagram, and I’ve compiled them with some of my own recommendations and thoughts.
me: starts typing a new line of code
coding software: WHat IS THat??? whAT Th?E FuCK Is thAT??? WHat arE YoU ???DOInG ThaTs nOt? ReAL cODE?????
me: finishes typing the line
coding software: :)
10.01.20
here’s a crumb of notes content
me:ok time to go and look at my college stuff that i have to do becaues its college
college: words
me: