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Hi I'm Sarah/Coney. This is my personal blog. @heyrabbitart for art.
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Pisces | INFP | They/Them
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taylor swift’s work wouldn’t be nearly as insufferable if she wasn’t constantly trying to present herself as some sort of tortured underdog. like, okay, she has endured hardships, and a lot of people, especially white men, are shitty towards her for purely misogynistic reasons. that sucks, i agree. but she’s never been an underdog before. she was born to well-off parents who did everything they could to start her music career when she was barely even a teenager, an opportunity that lots of people would kill for. now she’s extremely famous and wealthy, and everything she releases is destined to sell millions of copies and receive glowing reviews in nearly every publication. she is not an underdog, and i have trouble believing she’s particularly “tortured.” she’s not even an alcoholic, despite claiming to be one on the opening track of her new album! people like to defend her lyrics by saying she’s just playing a character, which i don’t believe for a second, but even if she was, i don’t think i want to listen to someone like swift play the character of a tortured underdog, not when there’s so many musicians out there who are actually tortured underdogs. it comes across as hollow. “you wouldn’t last an hour in the asylum where they raised me,” sung by one of the wealthiest, most famous, most critically acclaimed musicians in the world, who was born to loving parents who personally helped her start her career, who once said she’d never been to therapy because she “just feels very sane.” if you’re going to play a character, maybe pick one who we’re not supposed to pity.

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oceanfossil

2024

  • DO IT SCARED
  • FUCK IT WE BALL
  • REMEMBER THAT PEOPLE CARE ABOUT YOU
  • MAKE THE CHOICE TO END HARMFUL PATTERNS
  • LOVE WITH YOUR WHOLE HEART
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pengychan

I mean I know a certain level of projection on fictional characters and situations is inevitable and even healthy, but sometimes you got to step back into the real world to remind yourself that Character X is not your shitty parent/abusive ex/asshole boss/bully from high school, and that people who like Character X are not personally victimizing you.

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equius

op is getting death threats now probably

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kelocitta

Small artists you need to understand that when you see an artist who you think has 'made it' tells you not to worry about the numbers and to not fret about getting more likes than reblogs they are not telling you it because they think you are stupid for caring or because they dont need to network to survive they are very likely telling you that because they have witnessed first hand the way the numbers game tears people to shreds in terms of mental health and motivation

Beginner artist: It’s easy for you to say not to worry about the numbers because you don't have to do it anymore.

Advanced artist, shaking them by the shoulders: DON'T DO THIS, it's a never-ending loop of trying to satisfy the nameless statistical tables that make you think your worth is measured by the number of people you can entertain.

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lemondread

I finally finished these neon color Mucha beaded patches! :D I think I'll do more of these, the color is intoxicating to worth with.

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You know, that Mythbusters post legitimately changed my life. Before seeing it, I had exponentially more guilt and stress about not being able to sleep, which of course, further exacerbated my inability to sleep.

Now, every time I wake up about three am, knowing I have to get up at 6.45, instead of stressing and panicking about how my day is going to be sleep deprived and miserable, I just tell myself 'Time to activate Mythbusters Protocol' and lie there with my eyes closed safe in the knowledge that I am measurably reducing later feelings of exhaustion.

And when this happens, about 70% of the time the reduction of guilt and stress means I actually do fall back asleep, so all in all instead of getting only three or four hours sleep, I get five to six and a half.

Which y'know, major improvement in health and energy.

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rontology

incredible. here's the post

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Of all the possible futures I’ve ever imagined, I never imagined this.

This isn’t like when Carl died. I was on the other side of the country, and so Carl I never got to see again. He’s like a phantom limb that’s finally faded. Mom still has his ashes somewhere

This feels like a piece of me has been ripped out.

It was supposed to be our parents that went first. And then we could spend the rest of our lives without the noise, getting to know and care for each other for real. I’ve only ever wanted to be your friend as well as your sibling. I wanted some kind of approval that I’ll never get now.

I’m sorry I wasn’t the sibling that you wanted. I’m sorry you couldn’t be the sibling that I needed. You’re the best dad in the whole world, and I will love those kids all the more fiercely since you can’t.

Despite it all, I love you. Despite it all, I know that you loved me.

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